There are 2 obviously lost dudes on this thread. One was called out for being potential LE and hasn’t been heard from since. The other has a sense no other has. He only pays for sex with good, righteous girls.
I really do wish you well. But your attitude will burn you someday. I don’t go by my, what you call “feefees”. I do research. I send PM’s to mongers who I trust. I avoid known LE hotspots (Tarrant and Collin counties)unless I have either seen the lady before or was seen by someone I trust. No moral high ground here dude. I think internally that they are good, but I am not naive enough think she isn’t managed, nor trafficked. That’s why I stay away from AMP’s and LC Latinas. I don’t shame those who do. They are just wired differently. I’m done arguing with you, in fact, I look foolish arguing with a dude named “Snacky”.
I will bow out of this conversation summarizing some key points:
1. We, myself included, are engaging in illegal activities. If caught, we’d be brought up on felony charges. We are no longer saints nor Boy Scouts.
2. None of us know the full background of the ladies we see. If it makes you feel better thinking she just loves sex and she’s just getting paid doing what she loves, then so be it. I have only seen 1 guy post regrets for seeing a provider that was part of an exposed traffic ring.
3. This is an information board. The more we know, the better decisions we can make. Some mongers I trust more than others.
4. The vast majority of people are sick and tired of political rhetoric. Twitter/X & Facebook are great places to argue with people. Sites like these are to share info for dudes looking to get laid by women who get paid.
5. Everybody has their “schtick”. Anthonylewis trolls guys saying “white girls are trash”. Marvel tries to gaslight everyone saying research , yet provides little substance. I could go on…
I hope 2026 is amazing for all. I’ve got some bucket list items to check off this coming year. Peace out, and best wishes.
Originally Posted by Spoljana
I can't tell if you're just too dumb to recognize how dumb you are, or if you actually realize you've been checkmated and you're just throwing out a bunch of distrations in attempt to save face.
Interesting that none of what you say in your replies actually address my responses to you. All you do is deflect with non-sequiturs to explain stuff that no one is questioning.
You claimed a higher moral compass... "if it doesn’t feel right, it ain’t right. Most of us have a moral compass". I simply quoted your own words, when you denied it later. You keep flip flopping on this point, but I don't really care. You've already demonstrated your lack of it by admitting you're cool with exploiting women (ref post #45).
Now you're desperately trying to explain how you do your research, avoid AMPs, yada yada. Great, good for you. I've already made those points so seems like we are somewhat in agreement there. We are all here to share information and get intel. It's HOW we use it that's important.
Furthermore, your admission of all this betrays your original stance when you decided it was a good idea to come at me with...
So…do you interview your providers? Are you assuming every indy lady is, in fact, independent?
Originally Posted by Spoljana
If you already know there are steps to take to mitigate the risk of exploitation, why would you act dumb and ask if I interview them? Who knows, maybe I take better steps than you? Maybe I take steps you haven't thought of. Asking if I believe that every lady claiming indy is actually indy is pedantry at its best. Nothing is absolute. People lie. These are not abstruse concepts. With that said, I don't believe any of the ladies I've seen are trafficked. Could I say that to an absolute 100% certainty? No, but again, nothing is absolute, however, I have no evidence or reason to believe any of them were, and overwhelming evidence to the contrary. If I was ever informed that someone I saw WAS actually trafficked, then I would seriously have to reevaluate my MO, and reconsider my future of being in the hobby.
See, that's the difference between you and me. You've admitted that you're cool with exploiting women, and that you're not naive to the fact that a portion of the ladies you see are actually trafficked, and you're fine with that.