I'm in the same damn spot. I met a young lady on SB I've been seeing. The intention was to have a little fun. It's gone much further and I'm looking for an exit ramp before I end up in your shoes, brother...
She had a seizure a week or so ago and has been staying here while she gets medical attention. My wife lives in Melbourne, Australia which makes that part possible, but that exit ramp needs to hurry up!