Dear "Anonymous"

I never said it was a guy that gave me any information-or it was on a board-people think they know it all and jump to conclusions-

Where's the disingenuous flag?

I don't know what your talking about hon

I never said it was a guy that gave me any information-or it was on a board-people think they know it all and jump to conclusions- Originally Posted by **Karla**

Thanks for the explanation.

Let me just understand something. 1) The person who told you that someone was talking behind your back was not a guy. 2) It was not on a board. 3) Yet, although it was not on this board, you felt like you should address it on this board and tell people to stop talking behind your back.

Alright, I believe you. Now does anyone have a bridge for sale, i'm looking to buy one.

I didn't say it wasn't either-and yes I have the right to post it if people are just hating on me-my best and favorite clients don't even post on the board-no wonder they don't give a hoot lol-they care about what is important

I didn't say it wasn't either-and yes I have the right to post it if people are just hating on me-my best and favorite clients don't even post on the board-no wonder they don't give a hoot lol-they care about what is important Originally Posted by **Karla**

No hate Karla just misguided affection. Much like when in kindergarten when the little boy that liked you would kick you in the shins occasionally to let you know he cared

Like I said, I believe you.

Maybe this is seems a little "crazy" but perhaps Malachiii you might do better if you didn't post when you're so angry. I could literally see you throwing a temper tantruim in my mind. [Staff edit. M]

Let's not forget that it is well known that some individuals have access to both sides, but having no way to prove it, it seems that blaming the one on the cross is most convenient. I've been that provider blamed, when most of the time, it could easily be taken from the content of the discussion you COULD read. The only miracle is that you're still blaming the provider, [Staff edit. M] ... it's wonderful, but hey, ya'll are safe Thank goodness the men's info in the ladies powder room was erased and the rest blocked from leaks....ya'll sure dodged a bullet, eh?

I have been pissed as well. I tell you what, though, frankly this whole WK bullshit is as inmature and serves no purpose but for drama. You want to dish it out, but if you aren't agreed with immediately, the dissenter is a traitor or a white knight? Maybe he just doesn't let people tell him what to think...what an asshole, right?

I am going to say this clearly so that there are no mistakes, I will no longer let the drama queens (or kings) determine how I feel about the comunity. I know for some of the most wonderful, kind and altruistic people in the world come here and there are so many reason why I know I am blessed to be on this site and in this community.

Sounds sketchy not telling the lady what was wrong, so she has to find out other ways.....Imagine you were at work trying to figure out what your boss wanted, but this guy changes twice, sometimes three times a day.....And to boot, he NEVER tells you what you've done right or wrong! You just go behind their back and insult....say what you want, but that's bullshit. Its like me ruining your finances without the benefit of some face time...Why waste my time?

I just love this community and I hope that the good guys out there (and there are more of ya'll than I ever considered!) KNOW that they are appreciated. All you have to do is communicate, even if it seems outrageous!

Thanks,
T

Dear Tara,

I appreciate the feedback and you are correct. I was very angry, but if you review my original post you will discover that my ire was not directed at the provider. Rather it was meant for the person that misinformed her by telling her I had made derogatory comments about her in a review when in fact it was a different john that had made the offensive comments. As a matter of record my review was glowing and I had only good things to say about her.

Now you are also correct that it is always better to let your anger subside before posting. In this instance though I have no regrets as I felt it was more important to clear my name and speak my peace. You though would be better served by thoroughly reading my original post before replying. If you had you would have seen I was angry not because she had access to the ROS, but rather I was angry because I was "Catching Shit" for something I didn't write.

Ha Ha, Tara said the unmentionable word. She needs to be spanked. I hereby volunteer to take charge of her punishment.

Tara also said "All you have to do is communicate..." Truer words were never spoken. However, communication requires that all parties are willing to listen and willing to express themselves. Turns out, that's a lot harder than it sounds.

And Chuck--be careful you don't bite your tongue too hard, what with it being so firmly planted in your cheek.