No Black Men

Hey I know you...I wonder from where LOL?
. . . As I said, to me, variety is the spice of life. The only color that counts in this biz is green. Originally Posted by alluringava

Looking forward to you gracing us with your presence in our fair city again, Ava I'd like to think it's preferences and not prejudices, but Que Sera Sera!

Personally I think it boils down to power.

When a guy gets pissy because a provider won't see them it's because he realizes that it takes more than just money to see them.

When a lady gets pissy because a guy won't see them it's normally an insecurity issue.

Of course this is only a general assesment and opinion not a fact. I could very easily be talking out of my ass.... Not the first time...lol.

There are numerous reasons I could imagine why a lady has an nba policy, perhaps she had a bad experience, who knows...I personally don't have an nba policy, some of the nicest gents I've met were black....

The only policy I have is "No Fucking Idiots-Cheeky Bastards-Knobheads" Originally Posted by Valerie

Well you already know my reason. You saw what happened with the last exception I made never again! I have always said I don't do chicks but then I saw your pics and so maybe one day I will get rid of my NBA but I doubt it.

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I didn't say she had to explain it. I wasn't looking for an explanation. I'm not going to say what I really feel...I'm trying to avoid points lol Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan

Girl since when do you hold back and you know them points taste like chicken....lol.

I didn't realize you weren't looking for an explaination... I got confused by the question marks at the end....

Girl since when do you hold back and you know them points taste like chicken....lol.

I didn't realize you weren't looking for an explaination... I got confused by the question marks at the end.... Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

LOL I didn't like the way the last points tasted hehe

The question mark...was more like something to make you say hmmmmmm. Kind of like saying, if 7-11 is open 24 hours a day 365 days of the year, why are there locks on the door? Just makes you say hmmmmmm....Even though it's followed with a question mark, no response required.

Meg

I have a NO AH policy!! AH= ASSHOLE

I don't discriminate. My policy is: as long as your cash is green, I'll see you. Variety is the spice of life. Originally Posted by alluringava

So there is nobody you have ever turned away for any reason? Do you screen? Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Exactly. I guess she doesn't check references/screen. Well I know a few
ladies that do that. The majority of them were on that other site...

I could take it a step further but don't wanna make Chica mad.

LOL I didn't like the way the last points tasted hehe

The question mark...was more like something to make you say hmmmmmm. Kind of like saying, if 7-11 is open 24 hours a day 365 days of the year, why are there locks on the door? Just makes you say hmmmmmm....Even though it's followed with a question mark, no response required.

Meg Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan

Girl my handle is "Eccie Addict". When I see a question mark I gotta post!! LOL!!

Whenever I see an add with NO AA I'm thinking racist or Pimp but I'm sure it is a matter of personal preference. We all have choices and I choose to pass on them and i'm not even AA.

I don't discriminate. My policy is: as long as your cash is green, I'll see you. Variety is the spice of life.

. Originally Posted by alluringava

Why is everyone blowing her statement way out of proportion, insinuating that she does not screen and is a loose whore? Perhaps she just means that she does not care what you look like and as long as you are respectable she will see you. I am the same way.

Whenever I see an add with NO AA I'm thinking racist or Pimp but I'm sure it is a matter of personal preference. We all have choices and I choose to pass on them and i'm not even AA. Originally Posted by rrabbit6926

I've always had it on my screening form as in "Name, Age, Phone number, Race, ... etc". If he puts in my form that he's AA I will write back and say I'm busy. I once posted iton my site and decided to take it down.. after.. well.. I won't go there .

Why is everyone blowing her statement way out of proportion, insinuating that she does not screen and is a loose whore? Perhaps she just means that she does not care what you look like and as long as you are respectable she will see you. I am the same way. Originally Posted by SarahAndFriends

Amen sister!

where is the constructive potential in making snap judgments about a girl, her morals, her management, etc. based on her preferences?

you do not have to like someone's personal choices; but you do, i believe, need to respect them.

i say this as a woman who has happily seen gentlemen of every imaginable race. my only limits are that a gentleman be respectful and have kindness in his soul. the shade of a person's skin has no bearing on the soul contained within; and what is contained within is that which i seek to connect with, to inspire, enthrall, & uplift.

that said, us ladies are engaging in the most intimate possible act one could share with another human being. while i fully believe that you gentlemen are perfectly within your rights to decline to see a provider for absolutely any reason, i believe just as passionately that individual sovereignty is an every-which-way street.

First let me start out by saying that the Brooke_Wild's analogy of this is hilarious. I haven't posted on Eccie since they closed the Ladies Powder Room but I couldn't resist.

Okay, I DO NOT date African American men. I DO NOT have a pimp nor have I ever had a pimp. I think pimps prey on weak women and the entire game bs but that's a totally different thread. I'm anything but weak; so, pimping could not be for me.

My reason for not visiting black males is simple. I was held at gun point and robbed by a AA in my upscale apartment. This guy passed screening and sounded anything but ghetto. However, it happened and I was spooked about providing incall to anyone. Actually, I stop providing for a year. I went to excellent predominantly Caucasian schools. So, I received an excellent education. I don't live in the hood; nor do I associate with many people that do.

Now, could anyone have committed this? SURE! However, I am African American and I know people that are hood. Providers make easy targets as many will not go to the police. Second, how many arm robberies in NOLA are committed by non-blacks? Uummm, not many. Okay, how many killing in NOLA are committed by non-blacks? Ummmmm, not many.

So, lets see, I'm twice as like to be robbed at gunpoint and/or murdered by a black men. I've actually had a black guy rob me. Actually, I've been robbed three (3) times by black men. (Only once providing, once coming home from a real world job as a waitress, and another in the wrong place at the wrong time). It makes good business sense to me not to offer any services to AA men.

I don't care if my post enrages anyone! I'm free to do with my body whatever I choose and if I only wanted to f%%k Italian midgets with 12in cocks; I'm free to do so.

IMHO, Only a scorned black man, an ignorant person, or a pimp would make a statement that NBA policy = Pimp. LOL! What about white women that don't date blacks in their personal life? I guess since they provide they must provide to all! Do you visit with obese transexuals? Probably not! Why because they not your thing. Okay, well black men are not my thing. End of Story. I thought we cleared this topic up with Roe vs. Wade. Even the Supreme Court believes we can do what we'd like with our bodies!

Get a life!

Would you rather a girl be honest that she doen't see AA men or just keep blowing you off everytime you call? Why should ANYONE have to justify themselves in the way they run THEIR OWN business? Just because a girl don't see AA men does NOT mean she is racist or has a pimp. Some girls have pimps and nobody ever knows about them I'm sure. If a lady wouldn't see a AA man in her personal life, who is to say she should just because she is getting paid? Haven't so many men complained that some women weren't "into" the session? Maybe there wasn't enough attraction or they didn't click well enough for her to get "into" it. Would you rather her just pass on you, or know she was uncomfortable being there with you??