GFE I have to know

I agree with Natale about labels...they are like long-term goals....just limitations....pick a lady,converse with the lady,enjoy the lady,and smile!!!!!

I would say that Sooper's response would be what most would agree on.

GFE is a state of mind. Friendliness, conversation, affection, light or deep kissing, non rushing, glass of wine, etc. It's more of a mood than anything else. Some women are stricly all about sex (which is fine) and some are into getting to know the client a little AND sex. To be honest, I think clients prefer the GFE. No one likes to feel like a piece of meat and GFE creates a closeness and reduces any awkwardness.

Of course if you smell bad, bad hygiene, no one is going to want to sit next to you or hold your hand let alone screw you. I've always said: you get what you give! It goes both ways. If you shower and are clean and respectful, both parties will get so much more.

Thank you darlin. Love your response !! & your signature is priceless doll.

to me GFE could/does mean something different with a different lady...

for one it may be rip the clothes off and never stop..just cause that's how THAT particular session goes between us..

for another it may involve lots of foreplay..kissing etc..a slow build up...

its that CONNECTION to that particular person that makes it GFE to me..or NOT GFE...

its way more then doing all sorts of LETTERS in any particular order for me..

I agree with Sooper on this issue. Of course the only reason I am chiming in here is to get Natalie's attention so she will finally make the trip to KC..


MWK

I don't think I have kissed a single girl/women since I was in 8th grade that I would consider a "girl friend" without it being a DFK unless it was a provider. NO provider should advertise GFE if they are unwilling to DFK with guys who are clean, non-smokers, who don't have bad breath.

I agree with all, that a person's preferred "GFE" can mean different things to different people.....but as a client, I think there are a few standards we should be able to assume from the moniker......

DFK (or at least LFK if the rest of this list is there and excellent)

Multiple Positions

BBBJ (guys, have you ever had a girlfriend give you a CBJ? I sure hope not....)

MSOG if the clock allows.....but certainly "the full hour" - or whatever time agreed upon - in "engaged" together time. Good conversation....cuddling afterwards....or a shower together to clean up.....just quality time for the entire time quoted. (If the appt is multi-hour, then I think being "open to" MSOG is absolutely expected)

But above all.....the only thing that REALLY matters (in fact, I think all of the above will be there, if this item is).....either real, or a good illusion of, passion. Make me believe (whether it's true or not) that you WANT to be with me tonight. Exactly how that is demonstrated will be different from girl to girl (attack/rip clothes off - stare intently with "fuck me" eyes - bubbly high energy interest in/flirting with me - etc. - etc.)....which is actually a very good thing. I might prefer one over the other generally speaking. Or hell - my preferences my change at various times depending on my mood. Often, it makes it nice to know about ladies that display their passion/interest in their clients differently....that makes it possible for me to ask "which 'style' do I want tonight?"

Midwest Kid you are too funny sugar.

TML THANK YOU !!!! Of course thanks to all that replied. I was just looking for what ya'll considered your list of what a GFE is and TML you gave me just that.

I have to say this is a very interesting thread.

........ i'd rather you come and let me show you !!!

........ i'd rather you come and let me show you !!! Originally Posted by PAPA JOE

yes he can!

yes he can! Originally Posted by DallasRain

MMMMM !!!! sexxxy, you can show me tomorrow !!!!

I don't have a problem with that PJ LOL

GFE has become a very popular buzz word, in this industry. Generally, it should not feel like a business transaction. Both parties should leave with the feeling of butterflies in their stomach. The people that know me well know that I don't civie date, and I treat each of my friends as if they really are on a civie date.

beautiful ladies always leave me with the feeling of "butterflies in my stomach" !