BBBJ

I can tell you, as a provider that was against bbbj for years..
I'd never had guys complain when I did cbj's only. But when I started doing bbbj for certain regulars, they became MORE regular. You're not giving up your right to choose who you do it with. And it makes all the difference in the world when it comes to the reaction you get. And, not to beat a dead horse but I didn't do daty OR cbj's at that time because of my apprehensiveness. Now I do both, at my own discretion. It's an "either, or" situation. Either spit kills or it don't... Lol Originally Posted by supa

I really like this post and agree that providers should make a choice of personal discretion. I also feel a provider should be willing to compensate when expected services that they are reviewed on are not met, either with time or discount. I think its a different story as well if a ymmv is reported within their review similar to how you just posted. Of course no activities are promised with any meeting but it may take the sting off of some disgruntled client. Just an opinion

Sorry for side tracking.

Mark me down as BBBJ Preferred!

Not saying it will never happen... but if trying to decide between two similar girls... and one is CBJ and the other is BBBJ..... well, the decision all of a sudden becomes much easier!

Thanks for the input ms. supa, your reply kinda helps me put things in perspective.

Everyone has to stick with their comforts. If they're not doing something then they're not. I'm not shy asking for specific things, but I respect another choices. No matter what else anyone else is on this board is, he or she is human. I make sure to remind myself of this frequently (because I cannot let myself forget). That's just me and my sense of right-and-wrong. Please, don't read this as a priggish comment, just my $0.02.

I like your question and post.

I have been around over 20 years, and am strictly oral. Yes, bbbbj, and I have reviews out the wazoo on this site and others. And through the whole career I have not contracted any STD, nor other illness from my hobby. That being said, I operate under strict guidelines. I use a spray in my mouth prior to the task at hand that acts as a antimicrobial germ agent, and also alerts me to skin conditions. And, more importantly my oral health and physical health is kept up to par when providing. Many providers often work with dental issues, not me, and I also refrain from working when there is any upper respiratory issue at hand like bronchitis, etc.
That seems silly, but it is a breeding ground for many different forms of bacterial infections.
IMHO, being BBBj specialized has greatly reduced my chances of being put at risk in comparison with Full Service. My 2cents.

You might want to look at the fact that all the ladies that do BBBj haven't gotten an STD. Originally Posted by rpmsouth

I can't help but laugh at this statement. It's a fact huh?


While it has been a fact for me I am definitely ymmv on this subject......and that is probably why I have remained STD free all this time.

Yes I feel lucky and know I must be doing something right. But I don't toss out the risk factor of doing that with my lovers.

I'm sure there are gents who don't mind that. As a matter of fact I know there are some who prefer covered.

You might want to look at the fact that all the ladies that do BBBj haven't gotten an STD. Originally Posted by rpmsouth

WTF, really? Not riding yr ass on this one but false/uneducated statistics are dangerous.

I am a health conscience guy and would never partake in any activity I think is unsafe. I do DATY and only see ladies that perform BBBJ, I have researched and read the studies and articles. Is it possible, supposedly, about the same chances as winning a power ball lottery with only one ticket purchased. Difficuklt for the researchers to document how STD transmiited as the vast majority of STD recipients did indeed have intercourse as well as oral. For me , the chances of me winning the lottery or so slim I do not play, seems like a waste of money to me. So, having the same odds of a STD I do partake in unprotected oral and I have never had an STD, ever. Originally Posted by Outdoorsman

Outdoorsman - much respect to you as I've read yr posts/reviews since joining. However, I'll have to call your bluff on the above comment - while I can't disclose much because of HIPPA, I can tell you that the STD oral winners far outweigh the lottery/power ball winners in THIS area. And once confirmed, kind of difficult to stray from a specific oral diagnosis. Again, not trying to 1-up you or anything of the sort. . .

my mom is a nurse and she said there are no known cases of getting something serious from BJ's but don't swallow. If you have a ulcer in your stomach or some kind of stomach disease you CAN be affected by swollowing certain stuff that is tainted with staph infection..but staph is not considered a STD..
Staph infection can break out into a boil on body parts and it's not pretty. A puss filled boil on your pee pee or mouth is not good. Originally Posted by Anita Lay

Anita Lay. . .gotta call BS on this one, and on both fronts. If HSV or Gonorrhea, just to name two, aren't 'serious' complications (e.g., eye, oral cavity, etc.) r/t oral sex, can you please redefine for me? Staph from ejaculate? Ejaculate is basic, large enough quantity might improve the ulcer if you didn't vomit first. It's not so much the swallowing as it is the 'in the mouth' part that will get you - even with an ulcer, your stomach pH is a very handy terminator. Now, staph on the skin + you wrapping your lips around it could = problems, including the oral cavity. Dental carries + STD = potential problems. Ulcer/bleeding ulcer/laceration of the oral cavity + STD = potential problems.

There IS a low risk doing BBBJ and even DATY, but using mouthwash right after reduces the risk. Also, for the girls, avoid CIM. I am not much of a gambler and actually prefer ladies who insist on covers for everything. Originally Posted by myren1900

+1 on the mouthwash comment but only for bacteria and only if it has a static/cidal property to it. Virus (HSV, HIV, HPV) will ask for more

[QUOTE=Ebony Jasmine Love Austin;1799933]I can't help but laugh at this statement. It's a fact huh?

+1

WELL this has been my forte for close to 20 YEARS..5 providing * running clubs downtown and the rest THIS company..DONT LISTEN TO THIER BULLSHIT !! Explain to your kids when your dying for some asshole telling ya different..THERE WAS NOT ONE GENTLEMAN I EVER MET THAT WANTED TO PUT HIMSELF OR I AT RISK>>Shit darling THEY NEVER asked..lol they actually had lives wives AND money. THEREFORE I am.. MY 2 CENTS xxooANNIE:bow_arro w: STAY SAFE AND NEVER BELIEVE THIS BULLSHIT..

FORGOT to bring up the fact that I KNOW PERSONALLY 3 HIV now gone providers that believed this bullshit..1 has straight out AIDS and SHE ASKED ME 2 YEARS AGO to PLEASE let it be known..OH YEAH she was a perfect companion for this board(actually aspd) IF ANY OF YOU YOUNG LADIES NEED ASSISTENCE... I WILL BE YOUR THIRD PARTY.. YA DONT HAVE TO PAY ME SHIT..JUST PLEASE dont listen to their bullshit!! YOU CAN AND WILL DIE!!!! XXOO ANNIE

IS on the phone yelling at me that I did not include her name so Yall would understand IT staff edit to remove name!! She wants EVERYONE TO KNOW..staff edit to remove name I guess that includes you..

WTF........ false/uneducated statistics are dangerous. Originally Posted by Gentleman10

Indeed they are. Anyone can make statistics appear out of thin air to propagate an agenda (I understand this creates more influence, which is why I don't always trust them). When taking an A.P. statistics class in high school, I remember getting to the margin of error part, they lost me. All the way. I want to know the margin for every statistic I hear. Fat chance. It is never mentioned. Nor is how the data was collected analyzed, or calculated. Feel me?!

There are many sources of information on STDs. I think sometimes the most valid sources are personal opinions/ experiences and those whom you trust in your immediate circle. The one thing you can pretty much count on is a trusty condom. Gotta love 'em!

Always remember, if your body gets proper nutrition your immune system can sustain and fight viruses before they even effect your body. That is what the human body is made for. Proper nutrition as in: greens, grains, and fruits; not chicken nuggets, by-product, and preservatives. Ya' know!

P.S. Isn't it possibly slanderous to talk about other peoples medical condition. Yikes!

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There are many sources of information on STDs. I think sometimes the most valid sources are personal opinions/ experiences and those whom you trust in your immediate circle. . . . Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

Sorry. . . . But I think I'll take my chances with the CDC, rather than my sexperienced neighbor!!

Generally speaking... human saliva presents a "Very Hostile Environment " toward most viruses... and especially HIV !! * just sayin...

Sorry. . . . But I think I'll take my chances with the CDC, rather than my sexperienced neighbor!!

Generally speaking... human saliva presents a "Very Hostile Environment " toward most viruses... and especially HIV !! * just sayin... Originally Posted by MrGiz

+1

(A rare time where out tax dollars worked out rather well, not perfect... but name a human endeavor that is).

Sorry. . . . But I think I'll take my chances with the CDC, rather than my sexperienced neighbor!!

Generally speaking... human saliva presents a "Very Hostile Environment " toward most viruses... and especially HIV !! * just sayin... Originally Posted by MrGiz

+1. . .nice to see someone thinking with the larger, more rational of the two heads. . .

I personally do not exclude a fine lady cuz she has enough concern for herself to do cbj's.

According to the CDC. Approximately 16% of Americans have herpe or 1 out of 6.

How do people get genital herpes?
HSV-1 and HSV-2 can be found in and released from the sores that the viruses cause, but they also are released between outbreaks from skin that does not appear to have a sore. Generally, a person can only get HSV-2 infection during sexual contact with someone who has a genital HSV-2 infection. Transmission can occur from an infected partner who does not have a visible sore and may not know that he or she is infected.

http://www.cdc.gov/std/herpes/stdfact-herpes.htm

This hobby is already risky,IMHO why take any more risks? Its really worth your health or mine for a few$'s? So yes I am one of few who look for a lady who doesn't do bbbj's.