providers giving out wrong info on a screening

Did you tell her to provide links to her site, board handle and such. Just asking.

Its a big hobby world out there, we don't know alot of providers, and alot of providers do not know us, sometimes its helps when a provider is asking for ref, is to tell her what info we need from her to make things go more smoothly. Or asking the gent to let you know you are being used.

Ugh I'm just gonna go ahead and say this. I'm the provider they are talking about. I told her he was a sweetheart but I did get his age wrong. I already messaged brother apologizing. I agree with Lil Red about not being able to remember certain things unless I see someone regularly. I don't have a little book where I write down details about my clients and I don't see it as being safe to give out extreme details when providing a reference. No offense to Amy but I had never heard of her, she did not send any links or phone numbers to verify her or anyway for me to know for certain she was not anyone trying to bust maybe a partner or family member. Originally Posted by TabooTanner

Firstly no, I didn't, I messed up and I am well aware. I suppose I got spoiled with the ladies who actually know what to send out when asking for a reference other than "hey have you seen brother". Next time I'll do better.

Secondly, yep Giz, I just watched that avatar for like 10 minutes lol very captivating.

Thirdly Annie, what in the world? Come on babe that ain't even relevant on here.

Tanner my avatar pales in comparison to your beauty. Although I have yet to meet you I have drooled over your showcase many times.

Firstly no, I didn't, I messed up and I am well aware. I suppose I got spoiled with the ladies who actually know what to send out when asking for a reference other than "hey have you seen brother". Next time I'll do better.

Secondly, yep Giz, I just watched that avatar for like 10 minutes lol very captivating.

Thirdly Annie, what in the world? Come on babe that ain't even relevant on here. Originally Posted by TabooTanner

Tanner it is not your responsibility to spend your time looking up a ladies profile so you can give her a reference request.

New Providers really should do their research and learn how to make a proper reference request. she just might lose clients because it's her job to identify herself in the message and if no body know who you are why should they respond?

If I get a ref request such as:

"Hi my name is barbie have you seen such and such guy, he used you as a reference.
Thanks."

I'm not answering that. Althouth I will answer this:

"Hello, my name is *blank* I am a provider from *such and such* here is my website and reviews ( or she could just list it on her email signature). A Gentleman by the name of *blank* is trying to arrange a date with me and used you as a reference, here is a little might help you remember:

1. a breif description of him.
2. a tidbit that might help her remember her last session with him such as, 'she complimented my red speddo'.

If you could verify that he is a gentleman and if there is anything important you feel i should know the information would be much appreciated.

Thank you
*blank*"


That is pretty much my template and most of the girls who ask me for a reference request mostly send theirs like this as well. It is some much easier and you can respond alot quicker.

Thanks everyone. I have no problem with tanner mistake it happens! But really tanner I look late 50's lol! only reason I was seeing Amy cuz she ask me to help get her foot in the door! I don't have her email we did everything with pm on here! Sorry tanner if I knew she wasn't helping herself out I surly don't want to help her! Didn't mean to get
her to waste your time too. Hopefully she gets it together! But I done with her!

This thread is about providers remembering or giving out wrong information, nothing to do with Mr. Giz, insults, drunkeness, bitches, etc. etc. etc. PLease stay on topic or points will be assessed.

This thread is about providers remembering or giving out wrong information, nothing to do with Mr. Giz, insults, drunkeness, bitches, etc. etc. etc. PLease stay on topic or points will be assessed. Originally Posted by Outdoorsman

I gotta admit.... that one really threw me!

Sounds like a 3-sum with Tanner - Me - and BassCat's avatar girl is in order!

As far as "On Topic" matter goes.... Skylar pretty much nailed it, above!

Skylar thank you so much. I wish more ladies were like this. She may not know why it's hard to remember what "one client a month" she saw in July but damn. I have a lot on my mind. Also Brother, no I mainly said that as a 50's sounds good kinda thing. However I was right about one thing.. you are a sweetheart!

MrGiz, AMEN! find the lady on the Avatar and let's do it.

I gotta admit.... that one really threw me!

Sounds like a 3-sum with Tanner - Me - and BassCat's avatar girl is in order!

As far as "On Topic" matter goes.... Skylar pretty much nailed it, above! Originally Posted by MrGiz

Giz I will wait outside until your wore out then I want my turn with Tanner and the avatar girl. To be honest I would be happy with Tanner alone.

Like you stated before me Skylar hit the nail on the head.

How could anyone possibly have forgotten a guy who is illiterate and unable to spell. That would seem unforgettable

True.... how many kicks to the head does it take to become that impaired?