bad are good manners?

when with a provider is it bad are good to ask the ladey for somehting like COF ? are just let everything play out and if it doesn't happen its because she does not do that, and if you ask and she says no would that make her feel uncomfortable?

best thing to say is DURING the fun "where can i put it baby" , they will give u the list, long or short and nobody will feel off by this approach.

Always feel free to ask~ Sometimes we aren't the best mind readers but that doesn't mean that we aren't willing to enjoy the eXXXperience!

I for one have learned to be very clear in my requests. I want her to wear this certain outfit, I would like to finish orally, I want to undress each other, I want the oil rubs, etc. etc. I usually give my request before the play starts so she understands where I am going with this. And hell after making my list I am all worked up now where is my people to meet list??

After a few visits with the same lady she just seems to know what I like and I just let it happen.... That is what they call FUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Assume nothing.

It's OK to simply what her boundaries are. Like Shelby said, they ain't mind readers.

And 'no' means no.

Simple.

It never hurts to ask !
I like muffdvr's answer.

If Im not aware of a particular service interest I will ask after Im screened since she may be more comfortable answering then......mostly with verified and reputable ladies it isnt an issue then.

I think if you seek a new lady or TOFTTs you may opt not to ask most times as something so simple as rates and services will make them pull up a red flag.

Ya just gotta ask babe!!
{or read her reviews for clues,then "feel the mood out"!!!}

I like fucking them in the mouth and shooting my load down their throat.

You are such a sweet talker clitlicker!

Always feel free to ask~ Sometimes we aren't the best mind readers but that doesn't mean that we aren't willing to enjoy the eXXXperience! Originally Posted by shelby sinful

+1

Clitlicker----I say "bring it on baby"!!! {lol}