DD and Quail, that would be my ultimate nightmare - running into someone I know in the hotel lobby with a lady who is not my wife in my arms!
Originally Posted by jackfengshui
Jack,
I will never go in or out together with the lady. Almost all the time I ask the lady to register the room in her name. When I do get there first and I am confident that she will show up( someone that I have seen before ) , I will get the room myself in my name and get in the room and call her with the room number.I try to use the same few hotels/motels where I have used before and the owner/clerk may recognize me and knows exactly why I am there.
I do stay away from the hotels/ motels in my exact town that I live in and anything close by. I am too well known in my community and my car and license plate is a clear give away to my identity. Funny story was that many years ago I walked into a very expensive , 5 star hotel in Albany and in the lobby with a group of her friends was my daughter's third grade teacher. Fortunately, I was there to attend a legit dinner/ meeting. Could have been a very uncomfortable situation.