Profile Of A Provider

I thought I might rattle a few cages with my inquiry, but I am a risk-taker myself and I know that my intentions are honorable in seeking only to better understand the situation.

I wanted to find out a little more about what goes on in providers heads in regards to their customers.

I think it takes a lot more courage to be a provider than it does to be a hobbyist, but if we both understood each other better, the sessions would be more satisfying.

From my perspective, hobbyists could learn more about emotional detachment from providers and providers could learn a little more about sensitivity from the hobbyists that are so inclined.

Sometimes, I get the feeling that we are just trying to out-flank and out-maneuver each other instead of trying to better understand each other.

Is building trust with a provider really just a hopeless task?

I thought I might rattle a few cages with my inquiry, but I am a risk-taker myself and I know that my intentions are honorable in seeking only to better understand the situation.

I wanted to find out a little more about what goes on in providers heads in regards to their customers.

I think it takes a lot more courage to be a provider than it does to be a hobbyist, but if we both understood each other better, the sessions would be more satisfying.

From my perspective, hobbyists could learn more about emotional detachment from providers and providers could learn a little more about sensitivity from the hobbyists that are so inclined.

Sometimes, I get the feeling that we are just trying to out-flank and out-maneuver each other instead of trying to better understand each other.

Is building trust with a provider really just a hopeless task?


Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

I think you have wayyyy to much time on your hands. I hear there's less thinking in collecting stamps . . . . Im just sayin!

You do realize this isnt mat*h.com right?

From my perspective, hobbyists could learn more about emotional detachment from providers and providers could learn a little more about sensitivity from the hobbyists that are so inclined.

Sometimes, I get the feeling that we are just trying to out-flank and out-maneuver each other instead of trying to better understand each other.

Is building trust with a provider really just a hopeless task?
Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

Are you just trying to be mean now?

Is building trust with a provider really just a hopeless task?
Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

As a wise man once said...

These girls are in the business primarily for personal monetary gain, not because they like to fuck strangers. Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

You seem to me as a customer who has been jilted in his quest to "better understand" providers in order to "try to build rapport with providers" so that you are special...a guy who isn't just a "throw-away commodity"

Trying to make friends again FG?

Or maybe this is another one of your attempts at damage control?

Like this one...

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=17124

I actually feel sorry for you FG. I'm getting the message that you must have met some real winners in the provider arena. And, trying to figure out what goes on in a provider's mind...my friend...you must be a glutton for punishment!

I can't speak for the other ladies, but I know I have managed to meet and make some awesome friendships from the hobby community...both ladies and gents. On the other hand, I have also had some really weird experiences and some that were outright hurtful. I don't let those bad experiences tarnish the great moments, and certainly, keep me from enriching my life.

There is no definitive identifiable meeting point between the body and mind...and life is way too short for wondering "why" all the time. And, I happen to know quite a few ladies who "like to fuck strangers," and some say, "the stranger, the better!" (lol)

Have a good week!

I actually feel sorry for you FG. I'm getting the message that you must have met some real winners in the provider arena. And, trying to figure out what goes on in a provider's mind...my friend...you must be a glutton for punishment!

I can't speak for the other ladies, but I know I have managed to meet and make some awesome friendships from the hobby community...both ladies and gents. On the other hand, I have also had some really weird experiences and some that were outright hurtful. I don't let those bad experiences tarnish the great moments, and certainly, keep me from enriching my life.

There is no definitive identifiable meeting point between the body and mind...and life is way too short for wondering "why" all the time. And, I happen to know quite a few ladies who "like to fuck strangers," and some say, "the stranger, the better!" (lol)

Have a good week! Originally Posted by Likinikki

I totally agree and "like to fuck strangers"

In my limited experience no two providers have been close enough to the same to catergorize any of them. I've met a few that I connected well with, some of that was them, and some there seemed to be some good chemistry between us. Some are a little colder or more distant, and some fall somewhere in between. I would compare it to alot of other business'. While not as intimate, you sometimes feel a connection with people that you deal with, and prefer to have them wait on you, even if they don't really do there job better than the others. It's way to broad to group anyone into any specific category.

It's way to broad to group anyone into any specific category. Originally Posted by Mr. Nasty

AMEN!

I can guarantee you will not find another like me...and that's a promise I can keep!
There is no use in trying to group us all together in the same box...it just won't work!

This thread led me to the referenced one on which EmilyHemmingway responded.

Rarely have I seen so much WTF in one place.


In reality everyone thinks both sorts are, at best, a bit of a wanker.

So, anyways, that's one common problem for the ladies. I dunno, anyone here ever run across a guy like that? Originally Posted by EmilyHemingway

I'm so glad this thread started. It has been so educational. I never knew the word wanker was American English as well as British English! I will use it more often when I visit the US!

I saw Eddie Izard last night on TV (sic! - have you seen him?) and he was explaining the difference to his US audience between 'bollocks' and 'the dog's bollocks'.

To make it clear, Emily is the dog's bollocks. Fast Gunn writes bollocks.

Clear?

Oh shit, just realised this is on old thread, I was reading it from a link from another thread.

Another slapping of wrists about to be experienced...but now I've moved it to this more recent thread!

Trying to make friends again FG?

Or maybe this is another one of your attempts at damage control?

Like this one...

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=17124 Originally Posted by Mokoa

Oh man...and I thought he was a complete tool *before* I read that link,,,

Oh man...and I thought he was a complete tool *before* I read that link,,, Originally Posted by PullT

You mis-spelled "fool." LOL

Oh man...and I thought he was a complete tool *before* I read that link,,, Originally Posted by PullT

Yes, he is a real piece of work.

Here is another amazing example...

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=16447

I'm new to this. However, I honestly do like to fuck strangers.

I also connect and am not emotionally detached. I know the connection is a paid one and it breaks once I leave. When I'm there it's real though.

I totally agree and "like to fuck strangers" Originally Posted by hollyofhouston

I'm new to this. However, I honestly do like to fuck strangers. Originally Posted by RebeccafromUT

Im a stranger . . . Im just sayin lol!