Being Too Picky??

I would never turn a client away simply because I wasn't attracted to them, I find that a bit unprofessional, plus I'm rarely attracted to anyone as I'm extremely picky, so if I relied on that then I would have a very limited clientele...

I would however turn a client away for bad hygiene, rudeness, or for just being a twat in general

Jemma you creat your own problems by talking to much, you just come off as a bitch. Originally Posted by trey

And I care because....

And I care because.... Originally Posted by Jemma Martin

That's too funny!
You tell them Jemma.

...or for just being a twat in general Originally Posted by Valerie

How about being a "twat" in specific circumstances?

Jemma, can I have a freebie with you??

And I care because.... Originally Posted by Jemma Martin

I know you don't care that was established long ago. I'm just saying if you shut the fuck up you won't have to defend yourself as much. Truly I don't give a shit, I'm just here for the show so carry on.

if we were all studs yall would all be broke and that's just the way it is

if we were all studs yall would all be broke and that's just the way it is Originally Posted by junior samples

Or perhaps, if we all learned to be pussy whisperers, that might break high POP here as well...
after all, this ain't a date...we be paying for it.!

But...the OPs question was...
Will you or will you not, perform for your posted rates...regardless of your perception of his looks...??

More comments please...

I first noticed Debbie when she started posting on BP, I don' t normally do BP but I figured I'd take a chance & called her, freely admitted I was overweight (there was no weight or age limitations listed in the ad), she was polite enough, said she'd think about it since I sounded nice and would call me back, but that was the last I heard from her.

I just figured it was her loss, not mine, I've got 23 okays on P411, most from ladies I've seen multiple times, any time I can see quality ladies like Dawn Fyre, Mz Toy, Laci French from Dallas, Kim Honey, Sarah, the now disapeered Kimberly/bluerose69, Sweet Nicole before she retired and other beautiful ladies like them I really don't need the hassle of fitting any ladies ideas of who they're willing to see based on THEIR criteria, I'm the paying client, they're not paying me. If a lady chooses not to see me (or probably half the guys on this board who aren't a Tom Cruize lookalike) she's only hurting herself and her checkbook, not mine.

Debbie Does BackPage.

I had to say it.

Sarunga I appreciate everyone's opinion and you have a right to your own. I agree not everyone has to like you and was not trying to say they did. I am not in this hobby to just make new friends. Not sure you fully understood my point to Debbie. Thats ok we can all live our own lives... She asked the question... Originally Posted by Ur_1_only

Well, if we are discussing about getting two human beings to interact with each other....then, that interaction is going to be governed by human nature. Some humans are attracted to others....and some are not...due to various reasons. Whether they use these "feelings" to define how they conduct business is purely their choice.

Well said bluesj....

Please mind your own business. It's that simple. Originally Posted by Jemma Martin

I was just asking a simple question. ITS THAT SIMPLE!!!!!! Taking offense to it means that you are unable to answer a COMMON SENSE question!!!!!!

I'm still trying to figure out what works best for me. On the one hand, I do agree that you can't be "too picky" or else you would hurt your business and it's not professional. So, what I have done, for myself at least, is take a percentage type evaluation, based on all qualities of the client involved.

I am not, by the way, as picky as some of you guys think. I realize we can't all look like GQ men and Cosmo women! Personality is a very important factor with me also. Also, I have found that a lot of guys look much better in person than they do in their pictures. Some of their pictures actually make them appear larger. Some of the nicest clients I have met were not that hot look-wise, but appealed to me because of their generosity and personality. One man that I almost turned down turned out to be a barrel of fun in the boudoir! He had a beer tummy too!

HoustonMilfDebbie You have every right to be picky and cautious. Yes you want to work but you also have an obligation to stay safe.

There are guys on this board who wait until I have a review to trash me. I have every right to stand up for myself and stay safe.

There are gentlemen and there are scum. The gentlemen understand your decision. The scum has no respect for women and gets angry when a lady stands up for herself.