SICK N TIRED OF BEING SICK N TIRED

2nd or 3rd "O"? Did she get out some of her toys?

Don't know you or the situation, so most of this is just my general advice, and probably worth what you paid for it.

IMHO the best defense against criticisms of your service is to consistently prove them wrong. Don't NC/NS, be honest in your pictures and ads, follow through on what you say you're going to do, and put forward a good attitude. Actions speak louder than words.

From LL's post, it sounds like you're doing that. Keep it up and the critics will fade eventually. There's always going to be some jackasses out there, but if 99% of the guys who see you can't say a bad thing and your reviews reflect that, then the occasional nutball will stand out as just that.

Works the other way too. I've seen a couple providers who get in a cycle of getting a few bad reviews, bumping up her game (or calling in the white knights) for a while to counter them, then lowering her service again until she gets another few bad reviews and it starts all over. Don't do that if you want to avoid drama. The more you screw up, the more crap you'll get, some of it deservedly so.

There will always be assholes, but they're easier to avoid if you don't give them ammunition. Post about them in the ladies' area and/or in alerts/co-ed if you need to, and report 'em to the mods if they're breaking the rules and being blatant dicks.

2nd or 3rd "O"? Did she get out some of her toys? Originally Posted by cpi3000

No. I brought one I just bought. Her batteries were dead.

love that toy!!!

What amazes me about these sorts of threads is that they just call attention to whatever the controversy is. I had no idea that anybody was saying anything. Now I'll go look and see what it is that's being said. Plus, I get the impression, justified or not, that Jade has a thin skin and is prone to act out when things get slightly unsettled (which makes me wonder if she's really my type).

Wouldn't it just be better to go on about your business and not put a spotlight on whatever small negative things are happening? I'll bet whatever the controversy is -- and I'll find out soon enough -- not one person in ten who uses the board to find girls (instead of using it as the center of their social life) had one fucking idea what you are talking about until they read your post. Originally Posted by TexTushHog

I'm glad you posted your comment... it lets me know that you're not my type!
Jade don't let losers bring you down with negativity. Think positive, learn from your mistakes (whatever it might have been) and move forward with your life and enjoy it!

CPI states:

"Factor in that it a gal's physical appearance and and attitude are always being talked about and ouch! I am amazed that these ladies can see the fat, balding, ass zit, yellow teethed bad breathed, unmanscaped, uncouth cavemen that they have to see anyway."


CPI I resemble that remark!!!!

Tara love the pics girl ur frickn HOT!!! Originally Posted by sxyjade101

Thanks girl, you are too.

I may be in a minority, but the rate is relatively inconsequential to me -- within reason. I care more about 1) reliability; 2) discretion; 3) no drama; and 4) BCD skills. From $250 to 500 is more or less the same for me given the frequency of my opportunities and my economic circumstance. I'll gladly pay for quality. Originally Posted by TexTushHog

I second what TTH said. There are a lot of guys on here that look for the cheapest rate. You are probably better off not seeing those and just make sure you offer quality service . There is a limit to what is acceptable . Don't price yourself out of the market and once again offer a quality session , on time, no drama, reliable, discrete, good BCD skills.

I am not a mod here or anywhere else.

But I am issuing points to all those who suggested she raise her rates!

CPI.....I thought you had grandfathered rates with 80 to 90% of the providers!

You shouldn't need to worry about rate increases....

haha no grandfathered rates with him here LOL Luv ya CPI!!!

Reputations, both good and bad are earned, plain and simple. I'm not implying the OP has a bad reputation, just stating the facts. I would have loved to have seen Jade, I think she's cute as a button, but 2 NCNS's doesn't sit well in my book and I have no problem saying so. When a guy travel upwards of 8hrs round trip (like myself) to see a girl, a NCNS becomes personal. As I've stated in the past, I have absolutely NO objection to a girl calling and saying "Hey I can't make it" but to imply your on your way, only to stop answering emails or calls shows a total lack of respect for your clients. Hell what do I know......I'm out $600-$1000 everytime I come to Dallas even BEFORE she gets to my door...

how do u think we feel it happens to me everyday I dont do it on purpose I swear I dont shit happens u know outside of this hobby us girls have lifes plain and simple but i agree with u in some areas

Jade,keep having fun, that's what this business is all about.

Raise your rates incrementally until your phone quits ringing or it slows down enough that you don't NCNS anyone.

I heard the formula proposed that for every $50 an hour increase the calls will be cut in half.

Your service levels will probably also increase because you will not be tired of being bothered all of the time.