Talking Dirty During Sex - What turns you on?

Good Evening all;

I was deep in the throes of passion with a young lady a few years ago and, as I pushed harder into her, she turned round & said "Go on, fuck me hard, Daddy".

We were doing fine until she got to the last word & I almost recoiled, not a turn on for me.

So, ladies, if you do wish to use your language skills to encourage us, just be careful, it might have the unintended effect.

Good Night
Cyclops

good point!!!

I just say "fuck me hard & call me a slut!!!"

Sometimes all I can do is grunt. You'll know you're doing a good job when peach juice gets everywhere.

good point!!!

I just say "fuck me hard & call me a slut!!!" Originally Posted by DallasRain

I love that S word . . .

Dirty talk is the best when you piss your neighbors off with all the FUCK ME, AN FUCK ME HARDERS!!!

The best is when she tells me what I'm doing while I'm doing it.......

"I love your finger in my pussy and your thumb on my clit while you kiss my tits"

or

"That's right......push your cock harder in my ass while I play with my clit"

It all works great except for when doing oral; then it comes out kinda like

"Pubsh aht aod kok ohn ay oat!"

Sometimes all I can do is grunt. You'll know you're doing a good job when peach juice gets everywhere. Originally Posted by anova444

Exactly. The sexiest language is Body language.

I like to talk dirty all the time!

To underscore was was said more than once, the worst thing during sex is any act or word that is fake. My first GF could be vocal but using "dirty" words sounded wrong coming from her mouth. Usually it was "That feels good" or "keep doing that" but one time though she moaned "Oh my god, you feel so hard inside me." I knew it was real and it made it that much more meaningful. Originally Posted by iso_women

Unfortunately if they are talented I don't think we would ever know the difference one way or the other. We might think so but I have my doubts

If you're with me, leave the dirty talk at home. It's a turn-off.

Shut up slut and just keep sucking!

good point!!!

I just say "fuck me hard & call me a slut!!!" Originally Posted by DallasRain

lol--Bad you are so baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaddddddddddd ddddddddddddddddddddd

Just bad in the RIGHT ways!! Which IS GOOOOOOOOD!

lol--Bad you are so baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaddddddddddd ddddddddddddddddddddd Originally Posted by DallasRain

Oh boy, am I ever a prude.

I'm afraid I seem to be hardwired against employing profanely explicit terminology or terms ordinarily found insulting or demeaning. When I hear it, it is jarring and shocking and can be a turn-off. I can type them, but saying them sounds ... unnatural.

In fairness, I realize I can't demean anyone. A person can only demean him/herself. And something one woman might see as an intense insult, another might find an incredible turn-on. Even if I were to call a woman the most insulting and demeaning things in the world, it would not change her intrinsic value.

I've had some girlfriends over time who liked to talk dirty, and it is something I merely tolerated because I admired other things about them.

Erotic talk, on the other hand, can be a serious turn-on for me.

I guess it is like the difference between pornography and erotica -- only in words.

One woman told me in advance that she wanted me to call her "my slut" and "do you luv being my slut". It really seemed to work for her...but I sure would not call any woman that unless they asked me too. Just me.