Provider is upset with me because I haven't posted a review yet

I won't disclose her handle but this is the PM I got;

"How many women have you seen? You have YET to post a review??? You are not what YOU say you are. Too bad, I thought you were different from the rest. I was SO fukkin wrong! What a waste......."

Pretty vitriolic! One of these days I think I will get around to writing reviews. Almost wrote one yesterday but I couldn't decide who to write about first. Tried to write them a couple times in the past and something would always glitch out and the efforts were lost. But really, as a member of this site I am under no obligation to write a review. I have my reasons for not having done so yet and those reasons are my business. I don't think I should have to explain myself.

Wow... that was SO unprofessional. There are lots of men who choose to not write reviews, and you are right bc, it is your choice and your business. And no explainations are required!

but man thats one hot avatar

Wow... that was SO unprofessional. There are lots of men who choose to not write reviews, and you are right bc, it is your choice and your business. And no explainations are required! Originally Posted by LilRed

It is your decision if you want to write a review or not. I don't know what y'all discussed bcd, but without her side of the story not sure what happened. I'm not taking her side or yours but most of the time there is two sides of the story, but I don't think she should have written that to you..

but man thats one hot avatar Originally Posted by petiteassman

I couldn't agree with you more.

WOW is all i have to say!

Extremely inappropriate, and not too bright of her. She thought this type of rude comment to a gentleman wouldn't get out? Everything we say or type reflects our personalities. Wouldn't imagine she does much repeat business.

They say men think with their little head, but some ladies evidently can't think after a little head.

I am sorry that happened to you..she did not react in a professional manner....

I only get "baffled" when a guy writes a review of other providers and "leaves me out"...

In that case I am not "mad",just curious....

when I "questioned" a past client about writing a review,I did in what I felt was a polite manner.....i explained to him why I was questioning and how important a review can be...he explained wy he did not write one...it all worked out in the end and I still consider him an ATF!

not writing a review or wow about the avatar. i did take a moment to see your showcase all i can say is WOW

WOW is all i have to say! Originally Posted by elegantbelinda

AND I PROMISE TO WRITE A REVIEW OF A LIFETIME

I am sorry that happened to you..she did not react in a professional manner....

I only get "baffled" when a guy writes a review of other providers and "leaves me out"...

In that case I am not "mad",just curious....

when I "questioned" a past client about writing a review,I did in what I felt was a polite manner.....i explained to him why I was questioning and how important a review can be...he explained wy he did not write one...it all worked out in the end and I still consider him an ATF! Originally Posted by DallasRain

"Wow" is right! WTH? It really doesn't matter what he said BCD (assuming her side of the story includes him promising a review). If he decided not to write one, or just plain forgot....that's up to him. Plenty of gentlemen don't write them. So what? And what is this business about asking for reviews anyway? Very tacky indeed.

LilRed, I get excited every time I see your avatar!

I only get "baffled" when a guy writes a review of other providers and "leaves me out"...

In that case I am not "mad",just curious.... Originally Posted by DallasRain

I will admit that it does hurt my feelings at times to see a client that has posted several reviews, yet he chooses to 'leave me out' as Dallas says, and no, I do not get 'mad' either. I mean we are human and I know speaking for myself, I try my best to make every date as rememberable for my client as I can. But even when this happens, you just have to shrug it off and go on. I have never out right asked a client to write me a review, nor have I ever asked why one wasn't written. I am very thankful for the ones that have taken the time to write me one, as reviews do help a providers business. If she was upset with bc, she could have handled it in a different way without such a hateful attitude.

Thanks petiteassman, NotchCollector and Nina for the compliments on my avatar <blushing>! I am definitely grinning from ear to ear now.

Extremely inappropriate, and not too bright of her. She thought this type of rude comment to a gentleman wouldn't get out? Everything we say or type reflects our personalities. Wouldn't imagine she does much repeat business.

They say men think with their little head, but some ladies evidently can't think after a little head. Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

Ouch! Reviews are yours to choose to post or not. Maybe she is lucky you didn't post one, if that email is any indication of your time spent with her!

I have been there. I used to write lots of reviews, I actually enjoy writing, but i have been asked the same thing and the writing style and words look very familiar to me so i have a good idea who the lady is. My advise is do what you feel is best for you. After all you are the customer, unless you had a sesion discount in exchange for a review, which is so bogus for so many reasons. I really doubt the is the case here. I feel you paid regular fees and had fun and maybe promised a review, but still your option and she should not be bothering you, that simple. If it were me it would be the last time I saw her, just me.

Don't think it was necessary to post this thread if you weren't going to disclose the source. It's entirely unhelpful and obviously necessitates a nasty response from the crowd.

I don't agree with wanting to be reviewed anyway. And, I can totally respect not wanting to write one either.