The transient nature of these relations are as important as the eventual connections it provides, so I'm not uncomfortable with the idea of just any gift(then, also, I never view them that way, as just any gifts).
Atl, re: expectations, that's a good question, and makes me wonder how to convey "No, not necessarily" without being trite and obvious or worse, as if I don't mean it. And, agreed re: wine and books, etc., which is likely why gift pages began in the first place...manners.
Camille, pointing to specific pieces is great. Of course, I can see pointing to specific stores, too: I'm all good with anything Tiffany's so long as it isn't entry level, and I doubt a fella shall desire to ever bring a serving plate or pitcher to a lady, unless she asks! Seems failproof


Leah, yes I receive that impression as well. I like the idea of it, but the practice needs work(hence my questions).
Thank god for tumblr, I may use that. Halfway between a blog and a list!
