Thoughts/advice needed (probably from the ladies)

Oh I know Naomi. I am all ready hearing how refreshing it is to see a provider post that has a soul. In fact, some of my best clients came from appreciating my attitude and no they didn't expect favors from the get. I attract the classier guys who know how to act. Most well to do but not all are so when their company downsizes or they become disabled, I understand. Here's a bet, I will get more quality clients contacting me from these posts than you will. And the respect for your SO while you are a provider is just absurd. Who the hell can respect a guy that will accept that his woman provides? I wouldn't want a man who was okay with me providing. In fact, I see no manhood, respect or self respect in that at all. If I were a client, I wouldn't want to see providers with a SO no matter how hot she was, I wouldn't want to be a member of that club. I don't need more clients, btw. That's why I don't have over a 1000 posts in a month. I am bizzy enough in and out of the hobby. After all, I don't need to advertise. I just pick up my phone or send out emails. I also answer requests for "when are you coming to my area" quite often. In fact, this spring... I will be coming straight up through the Carolinas (by request) all the way to NY (by request) and you won't see me advertise or reviews cause I have all ready earned my respect to the point that some try to attack my credibility. So while I am being all unprofessional up your neck of the woods, you will be posting ads and wondering why it's so slow. Well, now ya know Hmmm, a lot of those request are over 2 years old and from the most seasoned hobbyists. They know I am going to email/text/call them... I wonder how I will do. Probably pretty decent since they know they can ask me and do ask me to look into things for them. Ya know, "what do ya think of this girl" types of trusts they have with me because they know I will look out for them and be honest about it. See, I all ready have quite a few clients from the Carolinas. They tend to get to Florida pretty often and that's one of my stomping grounds. They will email/text/call and back channel their hobby friends and let them know I am coming and I'll appreciate it even though they don't know it or expect it. Now I apologize if it seems I am coming down on you but I am insulted by some of the statements here and I really do have a lot of respect for the clients so I get a lil perturbed when I feel insulted and see needless disrespect for the guys. After all, they are human too. You should do what works for you. If you are gonna come out blasting people on professionalism and intelligence, then you should expect some in return. If the girl who never claimed to be a professional were here to defend herself, I wouldn't have posted at all. My clients love me and I really don't need to defend myself. I have only had 2 things effect my business... being thrown under the bus when the walls were all ready coming down and a crazy mod that I refused to see attacking my credibility with his mod squad. Hence, I am now utr.

Tracey, very well put. You weren't mean about it at all and that too is refreshing. I bet your clients love you too. I know everything I have read in your posts seems very sweet and real. That is a cute avatar.

Funny Funny.... My dear, some people don't have to work as a prostitute. It's a choice for some of us. Some of us don't have to do this that is why we are able to post on eccie 1000 times a month..(I was really trying to get to 2000). Have you ever heard of work smart not hard? Read my reviews. No one was attacking your credibility Darling.

Most of us have SOs, Believe it or not it is naive for the client to think all providers are single.. they're not. Sorry I come here to tell the truth not to post what the guys want to hear. You just insulted most of the providers here with SOs... you wouldn't want a man that was ok with you providing? Kool that's you. It is called being open minded. Some people really do see this business as work just like any other. I know ladies on this site that have been married for years with husbands. I commend their husbands. There is nothing like being with an open minded, strong and secure man. Do you know anything about swingers? From what I've seen .. those people have the best relationships.

See the thing about me Lacey is I don't come here fishing for business. My clients love me because I am honest with them. Most of them (and I just found this out) lurk here, read my posts and just nod they know me very well. I have a brain just like they do. Some guys love HOT women with brains.. you know the ones that *gasps*... think for themselves. Lacey, I get enough business running my business like normal escorts do and my clients have no problem with that. I don't have sex with my clients and tell them they can put it on their tab.. I don't. I am not that desperate for business. I have never been. I am sorry that we don't agree on that. Lacey, you have never heard of me complaining about business being slow.. NEVER. If you read the provider room, you have heard the exact opposite. So where you got all that stuff you just posted I will never know. I never flamed you... All I said was you will get a lot of dates from that post you made. I am sure of it Isn't that what you want?

My dear you've really shown your colors here. You know nothing about me or how I run my business. I don't see newbies in the carolinas and do just fine. You can blab all you want about having all these clients but really who cares? We are independents and owners.. what works for me won't always work for you and vice versa. Don't you think that was a little tacky telling the whole world that? Do you think I care about how many clients you're seeing? Have I once discussed with you directly about the business I get? No. I don't even know you. So everything you posted up there makes no sense. You just sound... kinda looney. I'm the one waltzing up your vagina. Go and spend the time you just spent typing that stuff on more ads for the carolinas. Don't post about things you don't know and you want to talk about respect? You have to give respect to get it. Next time you have a problem with me or anything I posted. Send me a PM and I will get it deleted. Thank you.

Bless your little heart my dear.

Enjoy your day

xoxo

Give it up girl friend. You sound like the teacher on charlie Brown... lmao. You wish you had that power over me but you don't. If you were playing smarter, you wouldn't insult the clients and no I didn't insult providers with SO, just their men if they know what they do. BTW, it is not good business or smarter to be a post ho and you are right, not all of us do have to turn tricks. In fact, none of us do. Actually, we prefer to for the luxury of spending our time doing things other than "working smarter". Good luck with that! Seems like you work for free quite a bit.

No I don't know anything about swingers... how much do they make?

You can't hurt my credibility, all of my reviews are excellent and many know me. I guess that makes me so desperate I have to give it away for free because you would never treat a good client that special. Well, you win. I mean gosh, I have never given it away to a whole room full of people while my man watched. How special you must feel. You are truly WAY OUT of my league... rof. Tell me, do you ever ask your clients how your husbands dick tastes or does your husband have to wear a condom too? I mean as long as I am being called desperate, tacky and unprofessional... I may as well ask!

And to answer all your other yammering questions... yes, I do believe you did choose to discuss my business with me from the time you called me stupid, desperate and tacky with your callous, know it all, shameless self promotion at the expense of others. True colors, glory gloat some more about how smart, business minded and tactful you are. You are making a lot of friends here... lol. We look forward to your 30+ insulting posts tomorrow. You came over from another site, right? Well it's obvious why. And yes, I know all about you. It's painfully obvious how you are and how you do business cause you just put it all out on front street while trashing a girl YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT and expanded it to everyone who has been around long enough to know how to operate as if we are too stupid to figure things out! You can play like you got all the business and I am desperate all you want to in your fantasy world but I am not the one with time to post 30+ times a day. You look so pretty on your high horse... pffft... Nuff said.

London is the only one with half the right to be mad at me over this post but that's okay because we have never disagreed on anything else and she knows I respect her; and I know she respects me too. Even though we do things differently, we don't call each other stupid, unprofessional or tacky. We discuss it like adults or move on and leave it alone. I would have never snapped at her that way if you hadn't irked me so bad with that sad display of class. I apologize London. Sincerely.

Give it up girl friend. You sound like the teacher on charlie Brown... lmao. You wish you had that power over me but you don't. If you were playing smarter, you wouldn't insult the clients and no I didn't insult providers with SO, just their men if they know what they do. BTW, it is not good business or smarter to be a post ho and you are right, not all of us do have to turn tricks. In fact, none of us do. Actually, we prefer to for the luxury of spending our time doing things other than "working smarter". Good luck with that!

And to answer all your yammering questions... yes, I do believe you did choose to discuss my business with me from the time you called me stupid, desperate and tacky with your callous, know it all shameless self promotion at the expense of others. True colors, glory gloat some more about how smart, business minded and tactful you are. You are making a lot of friends here... lol. We look forward to your 30+ insulting posts tomorrow. You came over from another site, right? Well it's obvious why. And yes, I know all about you. It's painfully obvious how you are and how you do business cause you just put it all out on front street while trashing a girl YOU KNOW NOTHIN ABOUT! Nuff said. Originally Posted by Lacey Companion

No one insulted the clients... no one did. I told eccie addict and the OP that the girl isn't providing for free.
Your posts make absolutely no sense. When did i call you tacky, desperate or stupid. I said the ACT was tacky, desperate and stupid and I wasn't talking to you .. you hadn't join the conversation then so wtf are you talking about. WAS THIS THREAD ABOUT YOU?!?!?! This is the first board I've been on. A friend advised me not to post on here. I see why. Shameless promotion? I don't even have a showcase on this site anymore, don't have a website linked, really? what am I promoting lacey? My brutal honesty? LOL!

I just caught your "A provider with soul" comment... L O L

Lacey, You're a loose cannon. That. is. All. If I were to sit here and argue with a crazy person.. won't that make me crazy too? i will post proof that I wasn't talking to you when I said those things then I'm outie.

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=147940&page=3 #34 ... Proof that my words has nothing to do with you.

I expect an apology

Oh you called several of us stupid, desperate and tacky when you said it is stupid, desperate and tacky to contact clients and let them know you are available as well as giving freebies or discounts. Well, it's not your place to understand me and you were told that by yet another provider. FYI my clients prefer my method as they know I am not running ads or drawing a bunch of attention to myself with the "look at me" attitude even another provider dogged ya for IN THIS THREAD. Clients came in here, some of them mine and explained to you in a nice way that you were being rude but you just kept on and got ruder and ruder. Well, welcome to Lacey honey. You wanna be brutally honest. At least I don't have to pretend to be above others by spewing a sewer of shit out of my face. Ignore me. Oh I think I'll cry. Get over yourself and ummm, how come all of your reviews are on that other site? And since you brought up your posts in the powder room, yes I am familiar with your posts in there too. Pretty much the same as this one but you don't seem to hold back as much in there. Like I said, I know you well enough. I have read ALL your post since you have been here and your arrogance makes me wanna swallow my own head after I gouge my eyes out; and if I were a guy reading your rants, I'd think I was a girl because my dick would hide so far up my ass. Give us all a break from your constant shameless self promotion. This is not YOUR SITE and it's not all about YOU!

I said the ACT was stupid.. I never called anyone stupid. If you are accusing me of that then you really are crazy. I am in the carolinas.. eccie is not a board that we even use. Others will tell you that love. Go to bed and stop making a fool out of yourself. That other site? You mean TER? I have like 6 posts on there just FYI. I have never needed board for business. As a provider I'm sure you know there are other ways to get business. Have you heard of SGFE, eros, p411, date-check, backpage.. that's what we use here Aww you think I'm arrogant.. I'm sorry lacey. I just don't have a problem calling bullshit when I see it.

You're not making yourself look good at all.
I will let you hang yourself.

Oh you insulted several of us with your belittling rant and even some of my clients tried nicely to explain but you are too thick. Why don't you give us all a break, realize you used this man's post as a soundboard to shamelessly promote yourself and if you can't realize how rude you have been, go back and read the other providers posts.

Oh and ignoring me means staying out of my pm box. I am not even dignifying you by opening them up. DELETED. You started it here, you finish it here. Have you noticed that not one person has told me I am wrong. Several have you. Maybe I am not so stupid after all. Good luck with your business HONEY.

Here's a thought, why not have that strong secure husband pay the bills so you don't have to post 30+ times a day in hopes that one will CONTACT YOU? I mean really, how do you think I got all those numbers and why are my clients trying to chill you out IN THIS THREAD? And why do you think there is a lack of MEN supporting your statements. Get a clue miss know it all. I could see how your husband would want your mouth full all of the time. I bet these boards and all your clients give him a nice break from the constant ear fuggin. Don't go away mad, just go away. THAT is brutally honest and called for LOVE! Now you know how stupid I am not.

I wanna thank all you utr ladies for letting me handle this one. I left her alone til she attacked a stranger, talk to the clients like children, high jacked this nice man's thread and insulted how we do business in a co ed area as if we belong on the bottom of her shoe. Hopefully she swallows cause it seems to me she needs to swallow the fact that the girl the OP asked about is pretty friggin smart... rof.

Have a nice time Baby. Hopefully, she gives you a discount for being sweet and regular. I believe she will at least at some point. Toodles! Lacey

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Here's a though, why not have that strong secure husband pay the bills so you don't have to post 30+ times a day in hopes some that one will CONTACT YOU? I mean really, how do you think I got all those numbers? And why do you think there is a lack of MEN supporting your statements. Get a clue miss know it all. I could see how your husband would want your mouth full all the time. I bet these boards give him a nice break. Originally Posted by Lacey Companion

Do you need me to buy you the "your baby can read" program? I never said I was married. When someone says they have an SO that doesn't mean they're married. Wow you're even a bigger idiot than i thought.

It is called class. Squashing it in private.. that is what I tried to do. NOw I know you're just a lunatic. Continue.
Lack of men supporting my statements? You mean sames one that think you're a looney?

GOOD LUCK with YOUR business You're going to need it after this thread.

I guess you also didn't read the site rules. Discussing PMs is against the rules .. did you know that?
Oh wait... you just can't read. Oh and just FYI, I don't care how you feel about another provider?
I really don't.Why am I still replying to you? I am having fun watching your downfall.
Carry on. Better than watching Maury re-runs and charlie brown.

Most of the ladies here think you're crazy Lacey.. I'm shocked that you did not know that.
You are not hurting my business at all, You're only hurting yours. Trust me. Very sad to watch.


Nice to see that other agree with me.

I wanna thank all you utr ladies for letting me handle this one. I left her alone til she attacked a stranger, talk to the clients like children, high jacked this nice man's thread and insulted how we do business in a co ed area as if we belong on the bottom of her shoe. Hopefully she swallows cause it seems to me she needs to swallow the fact that the girl the OP asked about is pretty friggin smart... rof.

Were you thanking your imaginary friends?
Noone belongs on the bottom of my shoe but you my dear.
I'm glad you found your place. Thanks for the racial slur btw.
Still laughing at the "how much do swingers make" comment.
Being dumb is not a cute trait. I'm sure you attract a lot of guys
that just want to use you as a human trampoline.

Oh I am allowed to tell you to stay out of my pm box. There's your self serving delusions again. Just like what I posted about London being to you. It wasn't. And I piss more class than you will ever have. So much for ignoring me. I knew you couldn't and calling me yet another name. I have a few in mind for you too but I have more class than too insult the site with mindless dribble designed to pat myself on the back or stroke my own ego. Yep, I am going down hill fast Baby. I'm all ready booked through January, how bout you? Oh and discussing what is in the girl talk forum with clients is a REAL BIG NO NO. Just to let you know. So, rules you have broken... name calling, high jacking someone's thread for your own benefit, name calling again, telling clients what is being said in the girls powder room, blatant disrespect, direct name calling, personal attacks and flaming others. And as long as you are playing the role of hobby police, you don't pm others unless you are invited first or are replying to an ad as a client. It's the same as don't call unless you have permission. Maybe my low class, desperate, stupid, tacky idiot ass should read the rules to you. Grow Up!

Oh I am allowed to tell you to stay out of my pm box. There's your self serving delusions again. Just like what I posted about London being to you. It wasn't. And I piss more class than you will ever have. So much for ignoring me. I knew you couldn't and calling me yet another name. I have a few in mind for you too but I have more class than too insult the site with mindless dribble designed to pat myself on the back. Yep, I am going down hill fast Baby. I'm all ready booked through January, how bout you? Oh and discussing what is in the girl talk forum with clients is a REAL BIG NO NO. Just to let you know. So, rules you have broken... name calling, high jacking someone's thread for your own benefit, name calling again, telling clients what is being said in the girls powder room, blatant disrespect, direct name calling and attacks and flaming others. And as long as you are playing the role of hobby police, you don't pm others unless you are invited first or are replying to an ad as a client. Originally Posted by Lacey Companion

YOU . ARE. CRAZY!
everyone knows it.
You hi jacked his thread... not me I was on topic.
You were the one that started ranting about me.
go back to your ship.

ok thats enough ya'll ....both of you drop your panties your getting spankings

They are doing a thread doubles right now.....its a freebie. Lol

I think someone even used a will ferrell quote about pissing excellance or some shit. Hilarious.

ok thats enough ya'll ....both of you drop your panties your getting spankings Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

I did nothing wrong.

They are doing a thread doubles right now.....its a freebie. Lol Originally Posted by gimme_that

LMAO