COF? Do you guys Like it?

I prefer CIM because I love feeling a man cum and to " swallow " But COF is fun too.
It can be really fun exp: when I am feeling like a really dirty Girl =)

The reason the porn industry features a lot of visuals of cumshots is that they want the reality that is often not there in "soft porn". COF is not necessarily the only "Money Shot" as was previously inferred. Any sequence that shows the actual cumshot is what the porn industry calls the "Money Shot".

Some great points about WALDT and perceptions have been made in this thread.

I personally do not like COF and CIM is not all that and a bag of chips either but I once had a girl tell me she liked to see guys cum and wanted to know if I would like to finish in her mouth or on her boobs. I figured if she liked watching, then I might, too. I opted for the breasts since I wanted to see it, too, and I also wanted to see her reaction.

It was truly memorable to see her light up and genuinely seem to feel a sense of accomplishment when she made it happen. She "dick-slapped" her boobs and I watched as she also rubbed my helmet across her very hard, aroused and erect nipples. There was absolutely no doubt that she was into what her actions were doing to my libido and how erotic she knew she was making me feel. She definitely enjoyed being able to make me succumb to her considerable skills, talents and sexuality.

I was completely at her mercy and besides that, I was definitely hooked on how she made me feel. I still see the lady UTR to this day.

In my mind she was never slutty nor did her actions seem degrading because she was really into seeing my reaction and she was also getting a definite high in knowing she had that sort of control over my arousal and climax.

All climaxes must have mental gratification along with the physical so if the girl enjoys what she is doing or even if she only enjoys the power her skills can have over you, then it is a turn-on for me. It is ALL up to her in my book. Her limits are her limits.

On the other hand, I agree with several other posters on various points like these quotes below:

With a woman who truly enjoys wants, COF can be a nice experience....Bottom line for me, the sexiest thing about a finish (whether it be CIM, COB or even just the let it fly from an HJ) is the perception that the woman is excited for you to do it there.....it makes all the difference in the world....A hot session can cool off pretty quickly if your partner treats finishing you off with all the clinical excitement of milking a cow at 6:00am. Originally Posted by outbound

I like it, but she has to like it too to make it work. it's a mutual, complete visual stimulant. there is no stimulation if she doesn't want it....no one has to "get it" when it comes to what stimulates other people. there is no right or wrong answer. Originally Posted by rex4998

I had 1 provider ask me to COF it was stimulating she said she enjoyed it and she asked me to do it....My fav is CIM or COT Originally Posted by Dr-epg

I fully agree that watching as a girl does something that makes her feel uncomfortable or worse is not my thing and never will be. I respect all boundaries and simply enjoy the giving aspect of what the ladies in the hobby provide me.

BTW, L1 and L2 sensual massages with happy endings are in essence similar in nature and even in some of the mental aspects involved in their completion. Part of the ending is seeing the "money shot" (CIM, COF, COT, COB, COA or just LIF - let it fly) and don't let anyone tell you that an approving reaction from the masseuse is not an integral part of the level of "happiness" we all take away from that experience.

Help me with the definition.. if a guy jacks off in a ladies mouth, and it all lands there, is that CIM?

Here is what I think, if you won't smoke, then I won't fart. LMFAO

Like most of you have said, I love it if she wants me to finish this way. It's not degrading if she gets off on it. Her being more submissive is what most guys like, right? I wouldn't call it a control thing, other than I love it when she's in control. But if she likes the way it feels where ever she guides it, then it makes it that much more enjoyable.

Hey, some people do anal. Not me. I think some things are best left alone.

There's something out there for everyone.

Here's my offer:
I won't degrade you, and you pretend I'm interesting and skilled. Deal?

I don't care for it, nor do I care for CIM. But I love--yeah, LOVE--a great BBBJ. If COF is degrading gagging on my dick is, what, enobling?!

I prefer CIM because I love feeling a man cum and to " swallow " But COF is fun too.
It can be really fun exp: when I am feeling like a really dirty Girl =) Originally Posted by Kristin Keys

I love dirty girls!

I love dirty girls! Originally Posted by surfindick

Well come over and I'll show ya how much of a dirty girl I can be!

I must at admit not only do I not get it, seems gross and pointless.

Joe

CIM is sush an amazing feeling as opposed to COF. I think that's just a dominance thing for most guys. I'm all about the feeling of the orgasm as opposed to where it goes

Degrading? Power thing? Control? Maybe for some but that is not way I LOVE the COF thing. I just love the visual but I am equal opportunity. If she's a squirter she can come on my face if I can come on hers. :-)

Look, if there's proof that it keeps your skin looking younger or clears your complextion.....

Then, BY ALL MEANS..... COF Your Asses Off.

~Kelly TNT

Look, if there's proof that it keeps your skin looking younger or clears your complextion.....

Then, BY ALL MEANS..... COF Your Asses Off.

~Kelly TNT Originally Posted by Kelly TNT

I've heard in the past that aristocratic women in ancient Rome used semen on their faces as a means of maintaining a youthful appearance. Of course, this may just be another one of those spurious stories of Roman vice.

As far as COF, I feel it's really up to the persons involved. On some occasions, admittedly not many, I've been asked by my female companion to finish that way. One lady in particular actually went to the bathroom mirror where she closely ogled the results. I suppose one person's humiliation can be another's pleasure.

Not appear to me either!

What is it about COF?

My post about "Which one does it for you?" made me think about this.

It's the Finale in just about Every Porn movie I've seen....

Lots of ladies offer it as a part of their services.

I've seen it posted in reviews many times...


So, what is it about COF that does it for you?
I don't get it.
Is it a turn on? Do the ladies love it too? Is it a turn off?
Is there even a point to it?
Or...is it just a Good visual for porn? Like, See....I did it! I really did. I'm not faking this ladies! Look what I did!


I'm really curious...because, yeah...I don't get it.

~Kelly TNT Originally Posted by Kelly TNT

I think it should be do you girls like it? If I or other guys are sportin' a squirt gun then the ladies would have to keep it out of their hair