Uh oh... you guys who love porn are in trouble...

I blame porn for teaching men the worst possible way to fuck. Originally Posted by SillyGirl

I guess you ladies are talking about the attitude of Christian Bale's Character in American Psycho while he has sex with 2 providers.
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Of course, I am more like.

Gotta have the coffee cup.....
Ummmm, Yeah...

Cheee! What a subject. But I will have to admit that I was nearing 70 years of age when I realised I was not really skilled in the ways that pleased the ladies.

My BCD partner assures me I have improved my skills and techniques and that she now looks forward to our sessions and becomes aroused due to the anticipation of the event.

Teach an old dog new tricks? Of course you can.

I blame porn for teaching men the worst possible way to fuck. Originally Posted by SillyGirl

I was thinking more generally. Some of the best positions are not the ones that look best on film, and even with no mirrors in the room (and I LOVE mirrors) you can see them like...posing for a camera lol. It can be very distracting. Oddly, I have found that I come across this more in real life, with hobby guys they are more likely to be focused on me and not how they look. Originally Posted by SillyGirl

yesssssssssssssssssssssss Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Yes!

I generally hate posts with no purpose other than to give a "+1," but I must impress upon you how strongly I agree. Originally Posted by China Doll

Nicole Blackman says "There is no glory in trying to make love to men who only know how to fuck- man after man after man after man raised on porn"

I wish this article were longer. Originally Posted by RebeccaRothko

OK, ladies. SillyGirl's original statement (above) has seemed to struck a chord in all of you. I asked for an explanation and SillyGirl talked about mirrors. From the rest of your responses, I assume it is not about mirrors.

I'm just asking for some explanation about why porn has taught men "the worst possible way to fuck." So, enlighten us. Maybe you'll wind up with more men who are better lovers. In any event, it can only help your cause.

I'm just asking for some explanation about why porn has taught men "the worst possible way to fuck." So, enlighten us. Maybe you'll wind up with more men who are better lovers. In any event, it can only help your cause. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Well, Charles, i can't speak for the ladies.....but.....the ridiculous positions used in porn notwithstanding, porn typically has little to no foreplay. And everything i've read indicates girls love lots and lots of foreplay. Ergo.....

The whole idea that all you need is a big dick, which seems so prevalent in porn, i imagine doesn't go very far in real life.

Damnit, you mean the ladies do not like being bent over backwards on a barstool?

Did someone say porn??? Raisin my hand Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

why are you raising your hand. shouldn't you be lowering it to your pussy? :P

Damnit, you mean the ladies do not like being bent over backwards on a barstool? Originally Posted by pyramider

no. lol

That's why I pay hookers...cause even if it's the worst they've ever had, they still fake it like it's the best... Originally Posted by Wakeuр

Lmao .... Why what are you talking about honey I've never faked it

Well, Charles, i can't speak for the ladies.....but.....the ridiculous positions used in porn notwithstanding, porn typically has little to no foreplay. And everything i've read indicates girls love lots and lots of foreplay. Ergo.....

The whole idea that all you need is a big dick, which seems so prevalent in porn, i imagine doesn't go very far in real life. Originally Posted by Doove

the porn you see now days is straight to the sex... the classic stuff had a more seductive style to it... which is why I go for the classic stuff

Well, Charles, i can't speak for the ladies.....but.....the ridiculous positions used in porn notwithstanding, porn typically has little to no foreplay. And everything i've read indicates girls love lots and lots of foreplay. Ergo.....

The whole idea that all you need is a big dick, which seems so prevalent in porn, i imagine doesn't go very far in real life. Originally Posted by Doove

Actually I find creative positions to be much more of a turn on, and I HATE foreplay especially kissing but then again I am in the porn industry but i have been like this since i started fucking at 12.

As far as the big dick thing goes no thats not all you need stamina & enthusiasm are important too

the porn you see now days is straight to the sex... the classic stuff had a more seductive style to it... which is why I go for the classic stuff Originally Posted by Spirit13

Lol, I might get into it if I could actually see the pussy. Watching some dude and some chick mash there tumble weeds together doesn't do it for me. And neither do the leg warmers. But I can see where it has changed.

Honestly I'm very picky when it comes to porn. The slow lovey dovey stuff does absolutely NOTHING for me. I like watching stuff that I am too chicken to do like... Gangbangs !

Porn that shows hair pulling, ass slapping, choking, forced bjs, upside down fucking turns me on. Anything that isn't showing any of that is a bit boring to me.. and I'll probably fall asleep.

Things I hate that pornography teaches men to do during a real encounter:

Spitting
Spanking
Hair-pulling
Slamming their cocks in as hard as they can
Jackhammer f*cking
Weird dirty talk ("Mmmm, you like that, don't you?" or "Oh yeah, baby, suck on it.")
Lack of foreplay
Taking the woman's head and shoving his cock into her throat (DON'T ANYONE DARE try this with me!)
Ejaculating onto her face

I'm sure there are plenty more. Now, if this is the kind of thing that a woman is into, then there is nothing wrong with doing it! However, for those of us who like to "make love" rather than "fuck," pornography is the bane of our existence.

Porn has saved me many a time on trips in lonely hotel rooms, but I agree with China in that I hate the spitting and gaging in today's films.

Things I hate that pornography teaches men to do during a real encounter:

Spitting
Spanking
Hair-pulling
Slamming their cocks in as hard as they can
Jackhammer f*cking
Weird dirty talk ("Mmmm, you like that, don't you?" or "Oh yeah, baby, suck on it.")
Lack of foreplay
Taking the woman's head and shoving his cock into her throat (DON'T ANYONE DARE try this with me!)
Ejaculating onto her face

I'm sure there are plenty more. Now, if this is the kind of thing that a woman is into, then there is nothing wrong with doing it! However, for those of us who like to "make love" rather than "fuck," pornography is the bane of our existence. Originally Posted by China Doll

Omg you spit on me I'm going Jail for killing you on the spot.

But ass smacking and hair pulling OMG I LOVE IT (just dont fuck up my weave... lol)

Dirty talk & rough sex Bring it on

I dont need my head shoved I can get the whole thing on my own

That facial thing I feel you on though. DNA belongs inside of the condom not on my face. At least not till I have see a clean sti test