Is asking for a deposit a scam?

If a girl wants a deposit, she's probably been stood up several times before. To me its a red flag that she's not as good at what she does as she thinks she is, or she's using outdated pictures.
I mean do guys ever cancel on the hot girls who give a stellar performance ....... no. Originally Posted by Craven Lekitty

Ooooo! You make a really good point!

Very well put. I struck a nerve with a girl just recently with I bad mouthed the deposit thing. Her argument was, nobody in their right mind would jeopardize their business over $100. Well, it seems that there are quite a few out there who are not in their right mind.

Ooooo! You make a really good point! Originally Posted by DrivesAllDay

As someone who has been in the providers only areas...this point isn't founded beyond the opinions of men, who are not providers. This "really good point" is based on fiction.

Heyy y'all! Y'all miss me?
Hopped on, got my DM...and I still require full screening and deposits...back to your regularly scheduled...whatever this place is now-a-days. Byee!

a sucker is born every minute. A deposit prior to receiving services is a mistake and trouble waiting to happen. Whether you have seen the girl 5 times prior or 500 there is always a first. You never know what is going on in the girls head or how desperate for money she is. Not saying all girls who ask for deposits are thieves but many are and it's not worth the trouble of rolling the dice.

As someone who has been in the providers only areas...this point isn't founded beyond the opinions of men, who are not providers. This "really good point" is based on fiction.

Heyy y'all! Y'all miss me?
Hopped on, got my DM...and I still require full screening and deposits...back to your regularly scheduled...whatever this place is now-a-days. Byee! Originally Posted by Gabrielle

Not a bit.

Ladies do their research/homework, gents do their research/homework, both should have a good idea who they are meeting and no deposit should be required.

Oh and your deposit comment...shhhh... you wouldn't work for free, stop expecting us to work for free. It's just business, a business you are not in...but merely a client of so I wouldn't expect you to understand how our world works. Originally Posted by Gabrielle

no one is expecting you to work for free, you however seem to think you deserve to get paid without doing any work. thats not how the world works. you do the work, then you get paid. no reason to actually do the work if you get paid first now is there?

no one is expecting you to work for free, you however seem to think you deserve to get paid without doing any work. thats not how the world works. you do the work, then you get paid. no reason to actually do the work if you get paid first now is there? Originally Posted by R1ver 0tter

You're spot on with your reasoning but you're preaching to the choir with that one.

No. The answer is always no. I don’t care what any provider says. I don’t care what the minority of hobbyist says.

No. Say it with me folks. What do you say when a provider ask for a deposit/money up front/discount on next session?

NO.

Hopefully I can say this without getting points or banned.. here goes:

There have been MULTIPLE ladies, most of which are known, and some of them are on this very forum and reviewed that have asked for a deposit, was paid, and then did not deliver on their promise…. And that’s if they didn’t ghost them at all!

Again… these weren’t random scammers on listcrawler… these were KNOWN. REVIEWED. PROVIDERS. And they still ripped off their clients.

Anyone who ask this question you need to think about it logically lol. And here’s another issue. We men tend to want to believe these girls because that is our “currency”. Honor. Integrity. And fuckin providers lol. But no seriously with us “our words are our bond” so we think these ladies will honor their promise with a deposit. That’s not how they operate. We have seen time and time again that’s not the case. Learn from it.

Again. Just. Say. NO to deposits. In any form.

No. The answer is always no. I don’t care what any provider says. I don’t care what the minority of hobbyist says.

No. Say it with me folks. What do you say when a provider ask for a deposit/money up front/discount on next session?

NO.

Hopefully I can say this without getting points or banned.. here goes:

There have been MULTIPLE ladies, most of which are known, and some of them are on this very forum and reviewed that have asked for a deposit, was paid, and then did not deliver on their promise…. And that’s if they didn’t ghost them at all!

Again… these weren’t random scammers on listcrawler… these were KNOWN. REVIEWED. PROVIDERS. And they still ripped off their clients.

Anyone who ask this question you need to think about it logically lol. And here’s another issue. We men tend to want to believe these girls because that is our “currency”. Honor. Integrity. And fuckin providers lol. But no seriously with us “our words are our bond” so we think these ladies will honor their promise with a deposit. That’s not how they operate. We have seen time and time again that’s not the case. Learn from it.

Again. Just. Say. NO to deposits. In any form. Originally Posted by blckstuff412

This 1000%

Just say NO.

Don't get ripped off. I guarantee that when you and others say no, these ridiculous deposit requests will stop. Guys in some other parts of the country understand this

Fuck those deposits.

I broke my rules and provided a deposit to a famous local bdsm provider Irene Boss. I thought well, it is bdsm and she is famous, so it should be okay. She cancelled the appointment the morning of the appointment. I requested a refund, but that never happened. I requested again. Nope. No good.

I did the same thing with another provider here that is now on Tryst. I thought, well things are a lot different post covid, so... nope. Gone. No appointment.

Then there was the time... Well, you get my point. We say no and sometimes we say, well, let's give it a try. I now have quite a long list of giving it a try and in each and every case. I am not exaggerating, 100% of cases, the appointment has never happened.

It is always always always a scam.

Well, there was this one girl that actually did come through. She's in jail now though.

I don't buy that rich guys actually give a deposit. Some guys $500 is nothing and have no problem throwing it away on entertainment. But I also seriously doubt those same guys are providing real world info too. I'm not giving away my info because I'm not ruining my life for a tryst. The amps have all been hopping and I see why.

good way to get a paper cut on a place you dont want a paper cut. cash is for spending, not fucking :P

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