Ref's given ONLY if a hobbyist gives a review?

This is a dirty game....like most illegal communities.

I have been stopped relying strictly on references and have adapted my screening to gents who's refs don't get back in time. My bills cannot rely on other providers words. Not all providers are stable and trust worthy.

Refs can do the most - lie and say he is not legit/nice/clean etc. and turn around and offer him a low rate to see her, just to name ONE thing that could come from refs.

I am however, reference friendly and newbie friendly

You get what you give back in life ...
You give you get
I'm refences Friendly and I still do my own screening even with a refes
I still do a BL check and more ..
Can never be to careful ..
But to each there own on giving them and how they go about it ..
but I would never make a gent review me in order for me to give him a good refes
as long you seen me in the lat 6mo's or been a reg for years
,, we don't own them after all they are free to see who ever they like

Be Safe ..

Dear Nina,
I feel the need to apologize to you. I hope you find it in your heart to forgive. You do you all you want. Not my place or business to judge. I did judge and make it my business, and honestly I am sorry for any offensive comments I made towards you.

I know that you are another woman trying to make her way in the world. I applaud you for that. Goodness knows we need more ladies who feel that way and who do what needs to be done to make a suitable life for themselves and their family.

So, I hope you have a beautiful day. And again, my apologies. Originally Posted by charlotteblue

Classy lady! Your response/apology will likely bring more biz to you than any review with a bunch of "!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" and "Pics Inside!!!!!!!!" in the title.

Almost made me want to book you

Thanks, lovely.

You get what you give back in life ...
You give you get
I'm refences Friendly and I still do my own screening even with a refes
I still do a BL check and more ..
Can never be to careful ..
But to each there own on giving them and how they go about it ..
but I would never make a gent review me in order for me to give him a good refes
as long you seen me in the lat 6mo's or been a reg for years
,, we don't own them after all they are free to see who ever they like

Be Safe .. Originally Posted by LustyBustyGina38FF

Such a classy lady

this would have sufficed to mean the same and I bet she would understand it better....

"you take care, now. God bless." Originally Posted by RandB fan

Coming from a guy that posts volumes on a reply to another thread? She responded to Ghetto Gal in a class way and I acknowledged it in an appropriate manner. Don't know how you post added anything other than to jump on the train.

This is a dirty game....like most illegal communities.

I have been stopped relying strictly on references and have adapted my screening to gents who's refs don't get back in time. My bills cannot rely on other providers words. Not all providers are stable and trust worthy.

Refs can do the most - lie and say he is not legit/nice/clean etc. and turn around and offer him a low rate to see her, just to name ONE thing that could come from refs.

I am however, reference friendly and newbie friendly Originally Posted by Eva Damita

Don't know that they said anything bad about me but several gals here have been contacted as a reference for me and then reached out and said "Provider X said you want to see her, wouldn't you rather see me?" The discount is hit or miss. There's a certain amount of civility here but it's pretty limited. You're spot on that most are looking out only for themselves. It's nice to know others know what's really going on.

Coming from a guy that posts volumes on a reply to another thread? She responded to Ghetto Gal in a class way and I acknowledged it in an appropriate manner. Don't know how you post added anything other than to jump on the train.



Don't know that they said anything bad about me but several gals here have been contacted as a reference for me and then reached out and said "Provider X said you want to see her, wouldn't you rather see me?" The discount is hit or miss. There's a certain amount of civility here but it's pretty limited. You're spot on that most are looking out only for themselves. It's nice to know others know what's really going on. Originally Posted by TheEccie214

Exactly. This is a cutthroat, dirty, non trust worthy biz. If you watch where you tread however, the tide doesn't affect you.

Jessika you have Class as well love
I just say it like I feel it

Such a classy lady Originally Posted by Jessika Sweetz

I always love it when people can give feed back in a classy adult way. Even if they disagree with me it's all about keeping in constructive and respectful that counts.

There has been some VERY valuable and interesting info in this thread.

Thanks to those who made the decision to be cool and classy.

Happy New Year, everyone

Aww thank you gorgeous! And I agree kaylee, its fine if They disagree with me just respect me and i will do the same!

I'm intrigued by this policy. I recently interacted with a provider who declined to give me a reference because she has a no review / no reference policy. She said it is something she is upfront and transparent about, so a gent should know this before even booking with her if he were reading over her info.

Personally, I don't find this policy to be all that derailing. I simply moved onto checking with another provider, and at the end of the day got my two "yes" confirmations that it should be okay to see the gent in question.

On the flip side, there are providers who do not want reviews under any circumstances. And there are providers who do not give or receive references at all, whether or not a gent reviews them. Nina makes a valid point about it being the provider's prerogative to run her business how she sees fit.

my business my rules. If u don't like it, don't ask me for references. References are a privilege not required. Can't you guys just do your own research if y'all gonna bitch about how the next chick does her business... Originally Posted by Nina the Dicknapper

Somebody enlighten my stupid ignorance... what "boo" means? Originally Posted by Luke Skywalker

I just fell, out my chair!
Naw Mean....

Classy lady! Your response/apology will likely bring more biz to you than any review with a bunch of "!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" and "Pics Inside!!!!!!!!" in the title.

Almost made me want to book you Originally Posted by Eva Damita

I was ready to book after her first post. Just Sayin!

Research, Research, Research and sometimes a little more. I have found that if I do my homework on who I choose to spend my time with....like things she puts in her showcase, post, things in reviews and anything I can find on a provider......I take notes and reference that shit in my PM ( girl's luv it ) no need to review. Never had a P411 and don't plan on getting one.

I know if one gives the green light, and the next one gets hurt, that would be hard to get over. There are some good guys on here don't get me wrong, but this mother fucker is ate up with a lot more dumb shits. Some of the shit I could see when I had PA or whatever it's called...LMFAO!..that I'm glad I no longer have. You just might stop given the green light.

But I still luv every gosh damn one of you fine ass Lady's, and however you chose to do things. Just Sayin!

Blah blah blah..

Originally Posted by Von Spieler

This shit right here! O' sweet baby Tebow all nestled at your mother's breast, when I'm reincarnated PLEASE let me be a man... PLEASE