Middle aged men have 'hotness delusion syndrome'

I used to like George Clooney and Richard Gere....15 years ago lmao!

I have met many who don't put their self worth in such trivial things. If that is the only thing that equates to self esteem on a man, that's not saying very much lol. You can be hot, successful, a great friend, father, husband etc. all whilst not packing a tree trunk. Some women don't "need" a big one to be filled up if you get my meaning. Originally Posted by London Rayne

Basic psychology darlin'. The kid with the little pecker gets picked on his whole childhood and is insecure about it from then on. In extreme cases he overcompensates by collecting toys or going psycho in his career.

There is a reason the term "compensating" is so commonly associated with small dicks babe.

I'm not saying that everyone with a little dick must be insecure about it. I'm saying that its more common that they are. Think high powered CEO in day time... pathetic sub at night. We all know them... and we all know they invariably are hung like 2nd graders. Deep down they're subs... because they never got over getting made fun of as kids.

Now... I would point out though that what you're describing is not a little dick. 5 or 6 inches is average... not little. Average guys aren't going to be insecure, generally... unless they grew up around a bunch of monsters. If you want average... I figure you should say so. Average guys don't want to be called small any more than big guys want to be called small.

You may prefer small but you are clearly a small minority. Not discounting your opinion. Just pointing out that its not one that is widely held.

and before we go talking about little dicks... a good friend is an OB/Gyn... he once had a married woman come in to his office for an exam... and her hymen was still intact. this woman had been having sex with her husband for over a year.. and dude was to small to even break it. My buddy said chick was hot too. Poor thing...

So... When talking about liking tiny peckers... be careful what you wish for.

I have no doubt he is worth every penny they pay him! LOL!

Basic psychology darlin'. The kid with the little pecker gets picked on his whole childhood and is insecure about it from then on. In extreme cases he overcompensates by collecting toys or going psycho in his career.

There is a reason the term "compensating" is so commonly associated with small dicks babe.

I'm not saying that everyone with a little dick must be insecure about it. I'm saying that its more common that they are. Think high powered CEO in day time... pathetic sub at night. We all know them... and we all know they invariably are hung like 2nd graders. Deep down they're subs... because they never got over getting made fun of as kids.

Now... I would point out though that what you're describing is not a little dick. 5 or 6 inches is average... not little. Average guys aren't going to be insecure, generally... unless they grew up around a bunch of monsters. If you want average... I figure you should say so. Average guys don't want to be called small any more than big guys want to be called small.

You may prefer small but you are clearly a small minority. Not discounting your opinion. Just pointing out that its not one that is widely held. Originally Posted by trailor

No, guys with small dicks don't go psych to compensate. They get Harleys.

Or big trucks, hot women, and fast cars lol.

I realize this is a stigma associated with a guy who feels he can't measure up...that's because certain women made him feel that way. When you think about it, it's not always the guy's issue...many women could use some vaginal surgery lol.

Average is far less than 6 inches too love. Right around 4.56 was the latest stat when I saw the graph...that's just fine with me.

As for your buddy's story about not breaking the hymen...I call bs. It can be broken with a finger or even a fall where nothing is even inserted, so an entire year of even finger sex much less a member, is a bit farfetched not to break it. What some people believe lol.

Girls usually break their hymen when they first start riding bikes.

Exactly..thank you. That's how "little" it takes. The sea saw was another common way.

Exactly..thank you. That's how "little" it takes. The sea saw was another common way. Originally Posted by London Rayne

Yes the " See Saw" too. Remember when you were on the See Saw and that mean boy jumped off and you hit the ground real hard, boom. The next time you saw him you threw sand at him, lol.

I have no delusions when it comes to meeting a lady. I am right now in my mid-fifties, butt ugly, and march to the beat of my own drummer. If it wasn't for my uncles, Benjamin and Franklin, as well as my cousins Grant, Hamilton, and Jefferson, I would have little to no chance to spend any time with the ladies I would like to meet.

But, I do try to make up in my deficiencies by treating them as a lady, if they are, and to avoid those that seem to have drama follow them around.

Guess I have been lucky in my ventures to date, but it did take some trial and error , as well as a few times of having to deal with the drama.

Just my dos centavos.

The Colonel

I have no delusions when it comes to meeting a lady. I am right now in my mid-fifties, butt ugly, and march to the beat of my own drummer. If it wasn't for my uncles, Benjamin and Franklin, as well as my cousins Grant, Hamilton, and Jefferson, I would have little to no chance to spend any time with the ladies I would like to meet.

But, I do try to make up in my deficiencies by treating them as a lady, if they are, and to avoid those that seem to have drama follow them around.

Guess I have been lucky in my ventures to date, but it did take some trial and error , as well as a few times of having to deal with the drama.

Just my dos centavos.

The Colonel Originally Posted by Col. Zodiak

Col. you might be Butt-Ugly, but I can tell you're a righteous dude. I would follow you into battle any day.

.. thank you london what? You are not small lmfao
Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Thank you Naomi!!

I used to like George Clooney and Richard Gere....15 years ago lmao! Originally Posted by London Rayne

I just finished watching The American for the first time. He's to skinny and his head's too big. Granted, he has a nice face, and he can hang a suit, but I was laughing when he was doing the pull ups. I wanted to tell him, 'It's not helping, dude.'

I have no delusions when it comes to meeting a lady. I am right now in my mid-fifties, butt ugly, and march to the beat of my own drummer. If it wasn't for my uncles, Benjamin and Franklin, as well as my cousins Grant, Hamilton, and Jefferson, I would have little to no chance to spend any time with the ladies I would like to meet.

But, I do try to make up in my deficiencies by treating them as a lady, if they are, and to avoid those that seem to have drama follow them around.

Guess I have been lucky in my ventures to date, but it did take some trial and error , as well as a few times of having to deal with the drama.

Just my dos centavos.

The Colonel Originally Posted by Col. Zodiak

You have a great attitude. I can't speak for everyone as I tend to be a bit sapiosexual (new Nina Sastri word), meaning I'm very cerebral in what turns me on. Treat me like a lady, make me laugh, give me something to think about, and I'm your snuggle bunny!

I used to like George Clooney and Richard Gere....15 years ago lmao! Originally Posted by London Rayne

Richard Gere? Fucking yummy!