Donation before or after?

The reason why I call it what I call it is because my lawyer and my tax attorney told me to.

You're busted, you're busted, doesnt matter what your website says or what you call it or what you even wrote on this board..

To each their own and a lady does what she sees fit for her. I do wish some would get rid of the term donation thought! Realize they are not a charity and this is a very real business.

Like cnym says though do what she says on her website, etc.. Originally Posted by LynnT

I'm not a restaurant so that reference to one doesn't fly with me. Originally Posted by Hanna

I wouldn't ever compare you to one. But you are delicious......

I love the whole donation in an envelope in the bathroom...
we laugh have a few drinks... I excuse myself to "get more comfortable" the donation is there i count it, put it away and the party gets a hell of a lot more fun after that!

Why an envelope? I don't get it.

lol cuz it's A LOT of bills ...I like to keep them together!!!!

o and fyi.....the cards and the love notes in the envelope..... I LOVE THOSE <3
you know who you are
thanks guys

I'm with the folks that said to leave the money in plain sight on the table or dresser.

As long as I can see it, and it's correct, I have no issues. The gent can be at ease that I'm not going to cash and dash and I am sure he isn't going to rip me off.

Not really a fan of the envelope, but a sweet and/or thoughtful card is very nice.

Genesis Nicole