High end market

Hey Naomi....you mean all men DON'T wear their girlfriend's thong to work???

We all know, with guys in general, when it comes to "talkin' pussy", the first liar does not have a chance. We are creatures of insecurity when it comes to that stuff.

But at least in my experience, when fellow hobbists discuss their experiences together...and I mean the guys who really know each other...the exchange becomes far more honest, if for no other reason than to share info that we can use individually. And I stress, hobbiests who truly know each other...not guys who sit at a keyboard and share stories just to inflate their ego.

Sorry, I don't get to Carolinas much anymore...used to spend a far amount of time around the Hilton Head area. And sadden to hear that your retired...I HOPE you know I'm just joking around with ya...but perhaps in another time or space I would luv to experience the Naomi4u experience and abandon my lifestyle so that I could sweep you off your feet, in hopes of us going to never/neverland, lol.

Hey Naomi....you mean all men DON'T wear their girlfriend's thong to work??? Originally Posted by vkmaster

Hehehehe..

And I stress, hobbiests who truly know each other...not guys who sit at a keyboard and share stories just to inflate their ego.

Good point. Very good point.

Sorry, I don't get to Carolinas much anymore...used to spend a far amount of time around the Hilton Head area. And sadden to hear that your retired...I HOPE you know I'm just joking around with ya...but perhaps in another time or space I would luv to experience the Naomi4u experience and abandon my lifestyle so that I could sweep you off your feet, in hopes of us going to never/neverland, lol.

Hehehe..no problem love.

I hope you know I was joking with you as well. and have a great day!

I don't disagree with that, up to a certain point. But a HDH provider can't be just a looker, but someone who makes people notice her, when she walks into a room. Otherwise, in my humble opinion, she is not going to find a high demand, in the upper end of the market. Now that physical appearance is not a "one size fits all" type of look...but in her own way, she's got to be the type that dropped jaws. Originally Posted by vkmaster

I think both you and Lauren are correct.

You just happen to be correct 99 times out of 100 and Lauren is correct the other one percent.

High end chicks are mostly smoking. That is just a fact that is supported by the numbers.

As to why some ladies do not post, I really doubt that a true high end lady does not post because she can not handle other posters. Everything in life gets old at some point. People move on for any number of reasons. It is nobodys fault as to why certain folks will not post. It is their choice. If things have to go a certain way before you post then posting on a board like this is not for you.

Good one Ms. Nina....While certainly a BIG part of the equation... sex (or anything else that may or may not transpire between two consenting adults) is only a part of the companionship transaction for me and certainly well worth a couple of extra coins to see that my safety and security needs are met along with the physical and intellectual attraction...I know I'm not alone here.

But then again, there is a market for streetwalkers and B&G "professionals" too...just not for me. Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

Yes i agree, you could put it that way and say you pay for the ability to have sex within certain circumstances. Which limits paying for sex to a reference frame. I sometimes have this discussion with people (friends of mine) who never engage in paid courtship but know what i am doing. And their point usually is stereotypically the same "why should i pay for sex" as in "if someone does not want to do me for free they shouldn`t" or as in "i don`t see paying for sex as i can get it anywhere since i am not ugly".

so i always explain to them that my clients usually are not ugly too nor do most of them "need to pay for sex" because they cAN`t get it anywhere else, but its mostly because its easy and many of them are married, and its common courtesy for all parties involved. I see this as a respectful act, plus its simple. Simplicity.

It would be nice if there were a bunch of High end gals to explain and defend their position on this thread. Brad's original question was where can he go to get the end gals that he desires since he has the money and apparently wishes to go beyond the 200 to 400/hr gals who post on eccie. I questioned his need for high end gals but it seems there is a need for some people and Brad may be one.

.... I see this as a respectful act, plus its simple. Simplicity. Originally Posted by ninasastri

That's me.....simple!! Respectfully simple...as in non-complex, drama free, simple....exactly what I pay for...simple!!

It would be nice if there were a bunch of High end gals to explain and defend their position on this thread. Brad's original question was where can he go to get the end gals that he desires since he has the money and apparently wishes to go beyond the 200 to 400/hr gals who post on eccie. I questioned his need for high end gals but it seems there is a need for some people and Brad may be one. Originally Posted by whitechocolate

They can`t and they won`t. No one of these will ever admit being paid for sex. It goes up til LA so its not something country oriented. Most of these women are booked within the USA. :-). But most of them are hot, and way hotter than anything that runs around on the usual escort markets because they have the time and the money to do noting else except being beautiful and train their bodies ;-). And work out all day. Models have the best trained bodies. And the easiest access to great hairdressers and what not :-).

If i would doll myself up for a date like these women do, someone has to pay 10 000 dollar for a date, because the make up artist, the wardrobe and hairdo looks as if you were to walk for an oscar on the red carpet :-). And that costs of course ;-). I mean look VS fashion shows and then you know what i am talking about. :-). So you can about think that the investment prior to such a date is high as well. Its not like they wear one thing twice or such :-).

As to why some ladies do not post, I really doubt that a true high end lady does not post because she can not handle other posters. Originally Posted by WTF

Some don`t post because they would discover that they are not as smart as they think they are :-) (lol) and discover so many attractive and intelligent women here that might make them wonder on why again they had such an inflated sense of self in the first place about themselves, their looks and their mental capacities.

And many of them lie a lot too, but that is something that is not related to HDHs or LDHs or escorts in general. For me its a character issue not a job issue. Many live in a imaginary bubble of wannabe relationships they think they have or a life they think they lead, its called deception and artificial reality and every critical knock knock for self reflection from the real world that tells them about who they truly are is regarded as invasive :-)....

why would i knwo that? I have dealt with such a person for a while. She lied and had an inflated sense of self and now - she uses MY language while i was the one explaining to her what heteronormativity is, that having a married cheater as lover and lying to BF about it does not qualify as polyamorous or sexpositive, and that "sensual experiences" cannot be compared to each other, and that such a thing like "good vs. bad fuck" does not exist. So - that is the impression people give in boards, while in private they run around backstab others, lie to their bfs and friends, qualify sensual experiences on levels 1 to 10 and thing they are looking good, and the best fucks on the planet.

(because some clients tell it to them to get them to do bareback, which they do also a whole lot, yay to STDs , oh then again they don`t pay their insurance bills to get tested or a doctor when they are sick, because they are busy fucking every second client for free or for jobs, so then again they don`t really make money, right,...:-)......) while in reality they look mostly average and their photos look as if some webcam con art made them, but that does not stop them from believing in their own superiourity complex ,

because given their lies they have no one that can criticise them, because no one knows to make a distinction between bullshit and reality. :-). And then again, who would have guessed? Some prefer to not be touched by reality. And reality is that no one is superiour to others. And some HDH can`t handle the criticism, because that would mean stepping out into real world and getting a real life :-). And not be judgemental towards other escorts.

Nina, I guess they are high end "Geisha" style "total" women. I do Wellness and Fitness work with some models etc and they arent much different than some of the toned, tight, gorgeouss gals on eccie. I know many have had lots of plastic surgery as well to look great. It is still going to be very subjective when you look at these high end "perfect" women regarding their facial looks. I personally dont find most super models and beauty queens that irresistible to pay high dollars. I guess if I could go to an agency where they all hangout waiting for ultra rich men, professional athletes and politicians and line up about 20 of them, I would find one or two that would drive me wild but I still question if they provide value for the money spent. Well in anycase, Brad wants to know where he can locate all these "perfect" women short of going overseas.

Some don`t post because they would discover that they are not as smart as they think they are :-) (lol) and discover so many attractive and intelligent women here that might make them wonder on why again they had such an inflated sense of self in the first place about themselves, their looks and their mental capacities. Originally Posted by ninasastri

This is why I love my friend Nina!!! *sigh*

It is interesting in terms of the issue of dolling yourself up with the right makeup, that according to a recent thread here, many men prefer little to no makeup. I for one do love "perfect eye makeup" and will pay a premium for that as well as hair that is combed. I will definitely pay extra for a toned, fit, curvy body that very few women on eccie seem to have. There are a lot of tight bodies but not toned bodies. Actually, if you go into about any healthclub, you will find lots of gorgeousss curvy toned women working out very hard. I dont know if they are providers or not but I guess most arent although, if they knew they can be making 2000 to 5000/hr, they would probably all jump on the bandwagon.
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=209734

I dont know if they are providers or not but I guess most arent although, if they knew they can be making 2000 to 5000/hr, they would probably all jump on the bandwagon.
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=209734 Originally Posted by whitechocolate

I am glad you said "probably".

Everyone's not comfortable fucking for money.

The lady at McDonalds thinks I'm nuts for having been an escort. I think
she's nuts for working at McDonalds. Obviously cash is not always King.

Well for 5000/hr, one can get real comfortable fucking for money very quickly with the right guidance from many of the gals like you Naomi as well as from the guys from Texas and the rest of the US. McDonalds women are never known for their erotic traits.

This is why I love my friend Nina!!! *sigh* Originally Posted by Naomi4u

love you too!! xox :-))