Why do they do it.. HOOKERS Why do they do it???

Were not getting laid anymore! LOL Originally Posted by Still Looking

then lucky for you, they're still lazy!

It makes me feel powerful!
The slutty superwoman...

My answer is Number 3: Enjoy the sex and excitement

Ok now we have heard all the "I'm working my way through school" BS. But why do they do it? With my many years of hobbying I have found the following:

1) Felt they had no other options
2) Easy money Lazy
3) Enjoy the sex and excitement
4) Have real job but use it as means to get ahead
5) Friend told them about it and just wanted to try it


Originally Posted by Still Looking

#3, a bit of 2, and 4 (except I had a job and I'm now a full-time provider)
.. And in that order

I like it, I'm good at it and I want to do it. It's not my only form of income, I do a lot of different things. I have used what I do to create security for today and the future for me and my family. How many people can say they are doing what they love and never feel like their working??? Originally Posted by Becca Blossoms

I think I love you. Well ok I just want to bang the fuk out of you. You make the sexiest nun ever.

Why does it matter the reason *WHY* women hobby???
Do you have the exact answers for all the reasons why men choose to hobby??? (or shall I call you a *john*??) Seems more appropriate, don't you think? Given, that you referred to women as hookers.



Bottom line. It doesn't matter the *why?*. This is an adult lifestyle that's meant to be enjoyed, regardless of why folks are *here*.
To assume you know the reasons *why* is beyond ridiculous.

Ok now we have heard all the "I'm working my way through school" BS. But why do they do it? With my many years of hobbying I have found the following:

1) Felt they had no other options
2) Easy money Lazy
3) Enjoy the sex and excitement
4) Have real job but use it as means to get ahead
5) Friend told them about it and just wanted to try it

I have met some incredible ladies hobbying. They all have different stories. Some truly nice ladies that just went down this road for very different unique reasons!

Hobbyist & Providers your thoughts?
Originally Posted by Still Looking

it is interesting this post got bumped back to the top....i know i already answered but everything i have seen going on I really have to say I am wondering the same thing...why am I doing this...lately all I have seen is drama,meanness, and some days I just don't want to sign in...Maybe my outlook has also been different with adding a personal touch but now I am really questioning myself and my decision to be part of the hobby....it use to be fun and people enjoyed it but lately all I see is people being mean and hateful....that is not good

it is interesting this post got bumped back to the top....i know i already answered but everything i have seen going on I really have to say I am wondering the same thing...why am I doing this...lately all I have seen is drama,meanness, and some days I just don't want to sign in...Maybe my outlook has also been different with adding a personal touch but now I am really questioning myself and my decision to be part of the hobby....it use to be fun and people enjoyed it but lately all I see is people being mean and hateful....that is not good Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

I wouldn't let a few naysayers though bring you down, IrishVixen. I still see more positive than negative...the boards go through mood swings it seems. The clouds will clear up soon.

I wouldn't let a few naysayers though bring you down, IrishVixen. I still see more positive than negative...the boards go through mood swings it seems. The clouds will clear up soon. Originally Posted by alluringava

Yes, clear is clear...if you know what I mean...the boards do through "man swings"...if you know what I mean. Be yourself...there's nothing else you can be! Michael McDonald rocks......!

I wouldn't let a few naysayers though bring you down, IrishVixen. I still see more positive than negative...the boards go through mood swings it seems. The clouds will clear up soon. Originally Posted by alluringava

With this hobby, there's always love in the air

Resorted to this out of financial need...now, finding out I enjoy it!

Women just get better with age...no doubt...like fine wine...

Play saxohone like Kenny G...and you have my heart and "something else"...

Hell I guess I hit a nerve with that post. So lets just say all the girls on Eccie have a degree of some sort BA's, Doctorates, PHD's. Law Degress. But yet they would rather continue to Escort cause they find it more fullfilling. Well thats great, they just don't need to brag about it. Their degrees are almost as equal as someone who has a Drivers License but no car. Originally Posted by acp5762

You didn't hit a nerve, it doesn't surprise that there are common misconceptions that people believe. You never hear about the good, successful, sober, intelligent, educated people inthe adult industry. Reporting on this isn't as good for the main stream media's bottom line as the smaller percentage of people who do negative things. Often, like in every other part of society, the adult performer who does have a drug problem, lack of education, etc. isn't , most of the time, a bad or stupid person. We all make our mistakes and to judge and defind a person simply by the industry they choose to live in is purly ingorant. Here is just a fraction of some ofs smart porn stars:

http://www.ranker.com/list/the-13-sm...-all-time/greg

To say that smart people in a multi billion dollar industry that is very hard to take down is the exception shows how little time a person took to leard what their talking about.

I'm an advocate for adult workers and I run a nonprofit orginzation for adult workers in Milwaukee. I work closely with adult workers and others in the industry and our allies. I understand that to assume that the neative in our industry, no matter how ingorant or simply fale it is, is easier to believe and more entertaining than the truth.

seems accurate. maybe some points missing. and 2) is a bit harsh. I would not call this "easy money".