Question about provider demographics.

No, it is not taking advantage of them at all. Not all men need to have an orgasm to experience pleasure and achieve satisfaction. The type of men that she is describing are well aware of what they can and cannot do before they come to contact us and chose to come anyway for other reasons. Everyone is different and I know for me some men come to see me for companionship and not just because of what is between my legs.

I am truly sorry that you have recently had a bad experience with a lady trying to take advantage of you but that is an isolated situation and every woman involved in this business is unique and different. Just because she did something inappropriate to you does not mean the rest of us behave in such a manner. That is why most of chose to be independent because it gives us the freedom to run our business the way we see fit and believe it or not there are many of us that run our businesses in a professional manner. Again, I am sorry you had to experience that but please do not judge all of us based on her poor behavior. I hope you have a wonderful week.

Hugs,

Raquel

You didn't even bother to try and deny that for Gals, it's all about the $$$.

For the guys who pay and can't cum, you're really taking advantage of them aren't you? [BTW, I think that's "presence" not "present."] The same for those that can't even get started. Sometimes, it's hard to know how people can look in a mirror. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

You are very welcome Marcus

You didn't even bother to try and deny that for Gals, it's all about the $$$.

For the guys who pay and can't cum, you're really taking advantage of them aren't you? [BTW, I think that's "presence" not "present."] The same for those that can't even get started. Sometimes, it's hard to know how people can look in a mirror. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Yes, you are correct it is presence not present, my bad.

I am confused with this whole line of thinking. I make less in a month than girls that charge $150/hr make in a week. Think about that. If it was about the $$$ I would have seen more than the 3 gentlemen I've seen so far this year. I could be rich if I charged $150/hr and saw everyone that could afford the $150/hr.

And why on earth would I have trouble looking at myself in the mirror because a man with a health issue loves my company? He contacted me, he enjoys being with me, and he never once felt he didn't get his money's worth, so who care if he doesn't cum as long as he's HAPPY!

I am confused with this whole line of thinking. I make less in a month than girls that charge $150/hr make in a week. Think about that. If it was about the $$$ I would have seen more than the 3 gentlemen I've seen so far this year. I could be rich if I charged $150/hr and saw everyone that could afford the $150/hr. Originally Posted by Nicolette Bordeauxva

There is nothing to add there but, WORD!

Not hard to go there with this kind of comment. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Gee Eliza, if you hadn't put in that smiley face, nobody would know you were kidding. Originally Posted by pjorourke

Charles darling, that was my attempt at a joke!

PJ, yes, I do try to maximize my smileys since nearly everything gets lost in translation over the internet. Obviously, they don't always work though.

Not to hijack this hijacked thread, but I have discovered that the greater the expectations for a date with me the greater the outcome. You would think it would be the opposite. Like when I see a movie that everyone has built up, I am often a little disappointed and would have probably liked it better without all the hype. But, not in this industry. It seems like the men that have decided I'm the "cat's meow" and put me on a petal stool before we meet are already in the frame of mind to be enchanted, while the ones meeting me with a little skepticism and reserve, find the evening to not be as incredible but just average.
So, I really believe one gets out of a date what one puts into it and we can only work our magic on a willing participant. That said, I think having a higher rate often makes ones expectations to be higher and therefore satisfaction is close behind. Don't know if that makes sense, but it has been my experience.

So, how many other WKs are out there? Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

It has little to do with being a WK and much more seeing things differently than you do which not surprisingly the gals in the forum are of that opinion as well.

You didn't even bother to try and deny that for Gals, it's all about the $$$.

For the guys who pay and can't cum, you're really taking advantage of them aren't you? [BTW, I think that's "presence" not "present."] The same for those that can't even get started. Sometimes, it's hard to know how people can look in a mirror. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

I ask of you sir not to put all of us ladies in the same boiling pot as you have apparently put some that you have allowed to grace your presence.

I for one, and would never try to speak for any of my fellow sisters here, enjoy what I have decided to do to pay the bills; I am apparently quite good at it and it is not all about the money with me. Just ask some of my friends if you can find them for I do not like reviews...not everyone will experience my company the same, so reading a review in anticipation might bring about disappointment if you are not careful...because it is all about the passion you bring with you.

If you rely on reviews then you just don't know what you are missing...giggle.

I do hope you have a more enjoyable time darlin.

No. He means some of the Providers don't act like ladies. Especially on an infamous South Florida board. Originally Posted by leglover05

No. I mean there's a thread elsewhere on Eccie wherein a hobbyist posts pictures of a local girl he had seen and was crushing on, and found out she was a post-op transsexual. Schadenfreud isn't a very nice emotion, but the thread is very amusing. As is this one.

Finally read through the three pages posted since I was last online. You have been busy little chipmunks.

Charles, I always quite liked your posts and so I'll say this in a spirit I guarantee in which it will not be taken.

You're having a mental breakdown in public, and it's both saddening and a little repulsive to watch.

You called a gal to ask about the gift and availability but did not make an appointment. Some weeks later you called back, and her gift had since changed. You started a thread asking if this was rude upselling. The responses said it wasn't. You asked the thread to be locked, apparently in favor of running amok through the boards prattling on about how mean, stupid, overpriced and malicious all providers are.

You're not going to find validation this way. Go have a drink and relax. Yes, it sucked, and I feel for your disappointment, but that's no excuse for this behavior.

...and was crushing on, and found out she was a post-op transsexual. ... Originally Posted by EmilyHemingway

In the name of thread hijacking (appropriate for this thread) does that make him bisexual for doing the post op TS? Or did he do a hot woman? Or is he just plain gay? One can assume that the POTS knows all too well how to please a man. No sword fighting was involved.

Moving right along to hijack the hijack of this hijacked thread -- which began, I think, discussing the Dallas availability and price levels, I fail to see how, aside from the legal aspects and, to some people, the "moral" aspects, the hobby business is different from any other business, and particularly from any other service business.

The service provider has the rights to (1) set whatever fees she wants to set, (2) see whomever she wishes to see, (3) establish such rules and guidelines as she thinks appropriate, and (4) generally, run her business as she see fit. That's no different than a lawyer or accountant or doctor or dentist or whomever saying (1) "My rate is $X/ hour or $Y/procedure", (2) "I only see [identify certain clientele]", and (3) "I reserve the right to change what I charge or whom I see or how many clients I see in a day, whenever I want to do so."

Similarly, the prospective clients always can say, "I'll see lawyer so-and-so because he/she has lower rates, is a better lawyer, whatever." Or, "I prefer to see provider so-and-so because her rate is what I want to pay, or she has blonde hair, or whatever."

In many ways, the hobby business is a lot more transparent than many others, because the rate is published, and the client can control the expense. That sure as hell ain't true with certain other service providers.

So, IMHO, no one has any right to complain that "Provider x has a ridiculous rate", anymore that someone can complain that, for example, some lawyers are charging $700+/hour. It's like a TV show: If you don't like it, turn it off. WALDT.

I believe it's well known that Texas has the most providers and the rates are client friendly.
Why is this?
Is LE different there?
There must be some reason why girls feel more open to the idea. Or gents feel more open to it.
Any thoughts? Originally Posted by Marcus Aurelius

I had read this yesterday but am replying to you now. I often wonder the same thing and I believe it has to do with what works for each individual lady. Being from Pittsburgh and in the business long enough, I have found what works for me. One thing I have learned about rates and it seems to stand true anywhere, never lower your rates with intent to raise them back later. I feel that it is to risky to chance losing those you gained in that exchange. Although, if you are looking for less clientele I believe raising one's rates would be appropriate and something I feel all ladies have thought of and/or have planned for.

After reading this back to myself, I feel I may sound like I am rambling. Enjoy!

So, how many other WKs are out there? Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Not enough. When did being a gentlemen who took others into consideration, and wasn't too cowardly to stand up to someone and for someone turn into bad thing?

We hardly need more people without honour on this earth.

Not enough. When did being a gentlemen who took others into consideration, and wasn't too cowardly to stand up to someone and for someone turn into bad thing? Originally Posted by Lauren Summerhill

Thanks Lauren [blushing]

Moving right along to hijack the hijack of this hijacked thread Originally Posted by notdeadyet

Hey, I'll do the hijacking here!