The reality of high-end escorting

Hell some guys here think $100 is expensive... Lmao!

Well for me it IS about the money overall yet I am still low volume, and make what I need. I have another job, attend school full time, and I still would not raise my rate to a grand in every city knowing it would not allow me to save and invest AS MUCH.

I don't pay rent, have never paid a car note in MY LIFE, and since I was around 21 have been very savvy with investing and saving. When I am done here the biggest debt I will have are my student loans, and my child will never have to worry about money as long as I am alive....even less when I am gone.

I want to make a certain amount of money, and I really don't care to spend long periods of time with the same one or two people over and over. Quite frankly, I can't be nice that freaking long lol. If I wanted that type of relationship, I would have a Sugar Daddy or just get married again. I am not even 30 and already own my own home, and am a partner in a few other properties. I see this as a business and my goals are clear.

Rates are not always based on what someone can or can't do....sometimes they are based on what they want to do. I love offering an hour to tell you the truth...love it! Some love longer dates, and more power to them lol. I know I am a small doses type gal, and trust me I get annoyed pretty quick if I have to be with someone I don't like for any amount of money.

Good thing there are all kinds of women and men in this business, or we would all be bored to tears trying to fit one mold. Originally Posted by London Rayne

OK, people wanted an explanation, so I'll take a shot at it. But I'm sure I'll be the target of some shots myself. Especially from your parrot, Naomi.

In this post, you pretty much laid yourself bare, not that that is a terrible thing. But it's pretty clear that your goal in life (maybe your single most important goal) is to amass as much cash as you can. And you really don't care who you play or manipulate in order to reach this goal. You leave your child alone for long periods of time to achieve your goal.

You really have no connections to people other than to use them to generate cash.

Now, IMHO, there are more important things in the world than money. More things that need work than the effort it takes to amass a fortune. Even the wealthiest people in the world have acknowledged this: Warren Buffett, Bill Gates, Ted Turner.

Now, I know you're going to say I got it all wrong. Go ahead and say so, but I think your post proves otherwise. Living life for the sole purpose of amassing wealth gives one a very shallow life.

Hell some guys here think $100 is expensive... Lmao! Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Yeah, and for some guys it is. It all depends on your POV.

And, I've paid some providers several hundred dollars, and felt like I got royally gypped. Those providers were barely worth $100, and if the truth were told, $100 would have been overcharging.

There is no provider in the country (or world for that matter) that advertises they provide lousy service and the guys always leave with a frown. 100% of providers advertise exceptional service where they guys always leave with a smile. And it ain't true...at least for a 100% of providers.

OK, people wanted an explanation, so I'll take a shot at it. But I'm sure I'll be the target of some shots myself. Especially from your parrot, Naomi. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

I think it is safe to say I agree with just about everything she's posted so far. Wanna call me her Parrot? fine. Name calling is not cool Charles. How old are you again?

Uh yea as usual you DO have it all wrong Charles. You know nothing about me or my child lol. She would be left alone a lot more if I worked every day, all day. By the time MY child starts regular school she will have me where I need to be...not always working around the clock to pay bills. I made a conscious decision when I decided to raise a child on my own what my goals were to be for her and myself, and all of this is for her so I suggest you keep your mouth shut about how other people raise their children.

I don't work 24/7, and in fact ONLY work Mon. and Tues. evenings when I am home lol. I travel, work, and it's done with. I am not globe trotting all over the place every single week dude...you need help. EVERY thing I do is for HER! FYI she is not at some daycare or with a random sitter either brainiac...she is with her grandparents who normally get her 10 days a month! That's WHEN I travel!

I work maybe 40 hours A MONTH not a week, and I am also in school so if I was all about making tons of cash I would be on my back 24/7 seeing every age, race, and size...don't think so! I am not married to, or cheating on her father either lol. I don't bring home random men from my personal life, nor will I.

In this business yes it is about the money..duh what a brain wave! I don't want to marry you, date you for free, or think about you when I am with my family..that's not selfish it's freakin reality! You of all people should know that. As for connections...are you kidding? I have connections with people who are NOT paying me to be nice to them or have sex with them..what's your point? I don't want money from someone I love and I don't use people to get it!! That's WHY I am an escort...geez. I don't want any type of romantic connection with a married man! Get over it! I have a conscience that is easier in peace when you leave after and DON'T give me a second thought.

If I was all about only money all the time, I would not be so interested in planning for the future...I would be getting what I want right now, no matter how much debt it yielded. I won't apologize for doing my JOB...wtf get a clue! I also resent that fact that you use the word "manipulate." Who exactly? That's the funniest thing I have ever heard someone say to me ha ha. I am a straight shooter and don't pretend to like someone when I don't just to get their money...pay attention much?

I do and say what I promise to do and nothing more...wow what a concept. You pay my rates and you get what you want WITHOUT all the drama, bs, and pretense...it's that simple. You confuse a working professional and a good business woman with someone who is all about the money...nope just here! You betcha! So sorry to spoil your fantasy lol, but no I really don't want anything from YOU at all.

You are just miserable and it's obvious....sorry not all of us are that way lol.

In this post, you pretty much laid yourself bare, not that that is a terrible thing. But it's pretty clear that your goal in life (maybe your single most important goal) is to amass as much cash as you can. And you really don't care who you play or manipulate in order to reach this goal. You leave your child alone for long periods of time to achieve your goal.
Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Charles, You went toooo fucking far. You need to slow your roll bro. Seriously!

Hell some guys here think $100 is expensive... Lmao! Originally Posted by Naomi4u

If the Euro drops to 50 cent on the dollar it'll be the Europeans that think so!

Look sister girl, everything is relative. To a homeless person a street walker is a HDH so no need to make fun of what certain people can and can't afford. It makes you appear seemly.

Charles, You went toooo fucking far. You need to slow your roll bro. Seriously! Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Agreed.

charles you need to say your sorry. That was way past uncalled for.

Look sister girl, everything is relative. To a homeless person a street walker is a HDH so no need to make fun of what certain people can and can't afford. It makes you appear seemly. Originally Posted by WTF

WTF, wtf? I wasn't making fun. Sorry if you took it that way *hugs*

Like I said, London, I feel sorry for you.

Yeah, and for some guys it is. It all depends on your POV.

And, I've paid some providers several hundred dollars, and felt like I got royally gypped. Those providers were barely worth $100, and if the truth were told, $100 would have been overcharging.

There is no provider in the country (or world for that matter) that advertises they provide lousy service and the guys always leave with a frown. 100% of providers advertise exceptional service where they guys always leave with a smile. And it ain't true...at least for a 100% of providers. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

My dear, They say the customer is always right in THIS case it is.

It also depends on who you're seeing. Please do your research. A good provider is supposed to make
you feel like a million bucks. If you haven't found that yet then I'm sorry.

Oh yea well I feel sorry for your WIFE Charles lmao! You are stubborn, bull headed, and naive dude. Get laid already and stop whining about the price you could be spending on YOUR family. You seriously don't want to get into a battle with me...because what you have between your ears is even less impressive than what's in your pants ha ha. Ouch!

charles you need to say your sorry. That was way past uncalled for. Originally Posted by WTF

At this point if we start with apologies it will take a full thread to get through. I say sit back, get a beer (this one is not worth single malt scotch), popcorn, and enjoy the show until JB steps in.

This might sound weird coming from me but .... hey, Let's be nice.

Like I said, London, I feel sorry for you. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Charles if you really felt sorry for someone you would not say what you said.

You are being an asshole. No biggie. We all have been at some point or other....the bigger question is can you recognize it and say you are sorry and move on.

Oh yea well I feel sorry for your WIFE Charles lmao! You are stubborn, bull headed, and naive dude. Get laid already and stop whining about the price you could be spending on YOUR family. You seriously don't want to get into a battle with me...because what you have between your ears is even less impressive than what's in your pants ha ha. Ouch! Originally Posted by London Rayne

That does not help the situtation...

... I'm sure I'll be the target of some shots myself. Especially from your parrot, Naomi.... Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Charles, I'm curious why you thought it prudent to use the phrase, "your parrot?" Your thoughts and opinions are just as valid without the names. Try this, "Especially from Naomi," and let the reader wonder why you referenced her.