So..how many of us hookers have morals?

That was an insult directed at you, you had in comming. Originally Posted by acp5762

Well, look at that! Progress!

You know, admitting you have a problem is the first step. Congratulations.

If you're paying taxes on it, it's a real job. That's my stance.
Now let's all kiss and makeup, This one has gotten pretty ugly.
Chica is probably out playing golf somewhere but it'll be closed soon.

If you're paying taxes on it, it's a real job. That's my stance.
Now let's all kiss and makeup, This one has gotten pretty ugly.
Chica is probably out playing golf somewhere but it'll be closed soon. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Hey I agree. Best advice I've heard yet. Way to many threads become one sided anyway. So to say prostitition wasn't a legitimate job, insulted a lot of you. Why insulted. If its legit why keep it under wraps, why screen for LE. Geesh I never bashed none of your integrity or your legitimacy as a person. Other than Miss " Ginger Doll" who called me an asshole.

I have read this thread many times but I will tell you this, IMO, I respect providers very much, I think most of you take and put up with a lot of crap from guys, but you just keep smiling and go on..Thats what you call good customer service and as long as your giving good customer service you will be very successful. Any business that even during this bad economy gives good customer service will always get repeat business, plain and simple.

Now good customer service does not mean that you have to do everything that the customer wants even if its very unsafe. NOPE. Now most guys will judge how they get serviced and that will determine what kind of a review they will give of the provider, I've been around along time and guys talk just as much as girls do. If the appointment is for an hour and the guy is greeted nicely and has good time for 60min he's going to come back ladys everytime.

Even though this goes on behind closed doors, mostly. Honesty is still the best policy. I think there are alot of really good girls left in this business, BUT they are being replaced with very bad girls who will do anything to get a buck.

BTW, I heard vice was stepping it up for the last 2 weeks in VA. Especially in a few city's. PM for more info.

I am very glad to know that you aren't insulting anyone, otherwise I would have been stupid enough to think you were.

Admit it, your post several pages back DID insult a whole lot of people:

--you said to every lady on here "It's not really a legitimate job". Kind of hard to take that as anything but an insult. Sorry, but two years on a practice squad is no more a "legitimate job"--both are in the entertainment business, and as someone who finds far less enjoyment in watching the NFL than I do spending time with some interesting ladies I would say YOUR "job" was less legitimate and produced much less value to the good of the universe.

--you originally said "Our jobs define us", now after being called on it you say what you MEANT to say was it is one aspect of us. A significant improvemnet, but no appology that you misspoke the first time.

--Then you sign off with, "You say you have morals, ok so you do. But you're still a prostitute", and I for one read that with a lot of scorn and a definate degrading attitude. Again, when called on that you start backpeddling "I didn't mean anything bad by it!". Unfortunately your recent post "Now god dammit you're dumb enough, so I made this shit simple enough" makes it obvious that you DID intend the scorn and degrading insinuations.

If you had admitted your first post was poorly worded and restated it you would have avoided yourself a few spears, but it looks like your ego got in the way of that.
Originally Posted by Old-T

You wrote this for two reasons. One to down play my efforts as an athlete and two to raise the bar on the legitimacy of prostitution. It's really kind of funny how Iam being scorned for being insulting by making one statement and everyone else is directing insults back at me.

You wrote this for two reasons. One to down play my efforts as an athlete and two to raise the bar on the legitimacy of prostitution. It's really kind of funny how Iam being scorned for being insulting by making one statement and everyone else is directing insults back at me. Originally Posted by acp5762

You post degrading insults to "prostitutes" on a hobby board, and you can't understand why you're being scorned and insulted in return?

It's hysterical that you actually think that you're in a position to refer to anyone else as an oblivious dumbass. Hysterical.

You wrote this for two reasons. One to down play my efforts as an athlete and two to raise the bar on the legitimacy of prostitution. It's really kind of funny how Iam being scorned for being insulting by making one statement and everyone else is directing insults back at me. Originally Posted by acp5762

I did not insult you. Your position was that it is not a legitimate job because it is illegal. Shayla took that out of the equation and you still felt it was illegitimate so the legality is not the issue. The only conclusion left is that you feel the ladies are doing something inappropriate. Interestingly they are conflicted on that issue as well in some cases.

Naomi's answer about paying taxes is good. If you are paid to do something it is a job.

As far as whether the job contributes to society as a whole is irrelevant. A professional golfer makes millions at his or her job and they do not enhance society as a whole. An escort makes people happy. You may or may not consider that a benefit to society but it is no less legitimate than any number of other legitimate jobs.

I dont know who you are calling a "hooker", But as a Gentleman's Intimate Companion.... I have morals out the WaaaZzoooo LOL

I did not insult you. Your position was that it is not a legitimate job because it is illegal. Shayla took that out of the equation and you still felt it was illegitimate so the legality is not the issue. The only conclusion left is that you feel the ladies are doing something inappropriate. Interestingly they are conflicted on that issue as well in some cases.

Naomi's answer about paying taxes is good. If you are paid to do something it is a job.

As far as whether the job contributes to society as a whole is irrelevant. A professional golfer makes millions at his or her job and they do not enhance society as a whole. An escort makes people happy. You may or may not consider that a benefit to society but it is no less legitimate than any number of other legitimate jobs. Originally Posted by Laz

I am going to let you look at this anyway you'd like. Sometimes we step on other peoples toes in the wake of proveing a point. Not everyone will agree, thats whats happened here. If my point of view isn't good enough for anyone, well then it's not. In your mind if prostitution is a legitimate buisness that contributes to the well being of society then you can live in that notion. If you feel that all your encounters with prostitutes have been an essential factor to your personal happiness then patronizing prostitutes has become or is becomming a necessary part of your life. But you must consider this last point. No legitimate buisness would intentionally expose any client or patron to any danger or adversitiy.

If you're paying taxes on it, it's a real job. That's my stance.
Now let's all kiss and makeup, This one has gotten pretty ugly.
Chica is probably out playing golf somewhere but it'll be closed soon. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Nope no golf today. Just changing planes. I'll be back in touch with a few of you later tonight...please carry on, and keep racking them up. Lets see who else wants to get in few more shots.

Personally, I understand where he is coming from (see definition below). I am not offended. I was a "ho" before I was a "whore", provider, hooker, whatever you want to call me. It wouldn't bother me. Just don't call me a "hooktard", because I am not stupid. I am; however, a prostitute. I am also a nice person. I am also (insert real job here). Here, I am a provider, in real life, I am the boss.

Let's face it, the world is judgemental. Why do you think one of the first questions people ask is "what do you do for a living?" If you are offended by facts or the reality that the rest of the country doesn't accept what we do, you are in denial.

It's just not that serious.

le·git·i·mate
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adjective 1. according to law; lawful: the property's legitimate owner.

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I am going to let you look at this anyway you'd like. Sometimes we step on other peoples toes in the wake of proveing a point. Not everyone will agree, thats whats happened here. If my point of view isn't good enough for anyone, well then it's not. In your mind if prostitution is a legitimate buisness that contributes to the well being of society then you can live in that notion. If you feel that all your encounters with prostitutes have been an essential factor to your personal happiness then patronizing prostitutes has become or is becomming a necessary part of your life. But you must consider this last point. No legitimate buisness would intentionally expose any client or patron to any danger or adversitiy. Originally Posted by acp5762

Ever hear of the Armed Forces? Turned out to be a pretty legitimate job that exposed me (and many others) to danger and adversity fairly often in the 22 years I was in.

Ever hear of the Armed Forces? Turned out to be a pretty legitimate job that exposed me (and many others) to danger and adversity fairly often in the 22 years I was in. Originally Posted by Wheretonow

You aren't a patron or a client you are an employee, trained and equiped to handle danger and adversity. Same thing with a clerk at a store, he is subject to being robbed. He or she is also trained or instructed in store procedures on what to do in that situation in hopes of minimizing the danger. But does the clerk expose a patron or customer intentionally to danger. I would think not.

You aren't a patron or a client you are an employee, trained and equiped to handle danger and adversity. Same thing with a clerk at a store, he is subject to being robbed. He or she is also trained or instructed in store procedures on what to do in that situation in hopes of minimizing the danger. But does the clerk expose a patron or customer intentionally to danger. I would think not. Originally Posted by acp5762

Actually we were the patrons and clients in all of our country's recent nation-building efforts. We were there as "guests" and at the invitation of the host country. But your whole argument is specious and convoluted on some many levels that it's not worth rebutting.

Actually we were the patrons and clients in all of our country's recent nation-building efforts. We were there as "guests" and at the invitation of the host country. But your whole argument is specious and convoluted on some many levels that it's not worth rebutting. Originally Posted by Wheretonow

No, my arguement is not convoluted on any level. It just so happens everything here is one sided. You know what your situation was in the military you know what you were there for. You are an employee of the United States Armed Forces. Even if you were a guest of a host country you were briefed on possible problems and the host country didn't intentionally place you in harms way. Everyone here absolutely must be right and they come up with off the wall possibilities of rebuttal like you just did. But apparently you some clarification to what would be danger. A client arriving at a prostitutes incall is not in any way prevy or aware of any adversities before hand he's only equiped with a donation. As he is entering the room and lays down the donation a hidden subject( Possibly a Pimp) appears from behind a door and throws him out keeping the donation. The provider is there knowing all this would be taking place. She knowingly, willingly placed the client in harms way through deception, resulting in the client being robbed.