the more she does to show that she's skilled and committed to the encounter Originally Posted by pmdelites
thanks for taking the time to contribute such an insightful post. That was awesome and the 'sub-categories' you detailed...its the little things that make a huge difference.
- her communication in setting up the appt (or her manager, booker, whatever) - the more responsive, the better. (part of your Attentive attribute)
- her physical location - closer is better for me.
- the kind of and ambiance of her location - an above average room/house that is tidy and nice, w/ appropriate level of lights, nice music (i guess some folks can have sex while hard-core rap is being played, but it's not for me), bathroom & shower accessories, decent bed all add to a much better experience.
- her looks - not just physically attractive to me but nicely dressed; visually stimulating as that does affect how lil delites and i respond to her.
- her range of activities - the more she does the kind of things i like to do, the better.
- her skill level in those activities - the higher her skill level, the better.
(this and the one above are part of your Affectionate attribute)- her range & level of communication - the more we connect, the better.
- her level of confidence and assuredness in herself - the more she has, the better.
- how she treats me before, during, and after the encounter (this is your appreciative attribute; like undressing me, setting my clothes aside nicely, and helping me dress)
What kills me is the difference between dogshit and excellence is just a tiny bit of intentional effort. Even a smile isn't that hard to execute, but goddamn if it isn't so fucking rare these days. I'd take it personal if I wasn't confident in what I provide as a trickass john
I had one girl I saw early on, she was sweet, had a killer natural body but a knarly face...we'd have good time, one time (last session, in fact) where she knew I was coming over. I get there we chat, have a drink, then she excuses herself to the bathroom which is maybe 10 feet from her bed and starts plopping loud splashing logs in this shitter.
I only wanted a blowjob after that. Another girl that I saw a half dozen times, with $700/hr rates. She was a natural knockout and fun-sized. The first time I see her at my suite, she arrives and greets me like we were old college friends...immediately, first impression - with a vibrant personality, engaging, and full of energy to carry on all kinds of conversations (this is a great time killer, too). She was ALWAYS attentive and trying to make sure I was completely satisfied even afterwards, like egging me on to receive more. Again, this shit doesn't take any real effort to do and you don't even have to mean it. Another time, I'm at a hotel that requires a keypass to get to the rooms, so i have to meet her in the lobby. The lobby is jam packed with people/families in for a convention. I'm sitting there in a new suit that I feel pretty proud about the fit and she shows up in a deep blue bodycon dress that she's just poured into. It was like something out of the "woman in the red dress" moments in the Matrix. EVERYONE knew she was 'here' and greets me like I saved her life. These are lifetime moments that you'd pay to have in something like a "Westworld" scenario. There is no price tag on what those sensations are like......Another time, same girl she hosts me at her cozy French Quarter apartment, greets me in lingerie and night ware with wine and serves and treats me like a king for the entire night. Time was NEVER an issue (at $700/hr who needs to stack clients) and never clock watched. She would keep up comms about personal stuff (a good business practice, no doubt), but it was reciprocal where we both were going through parents with dementia. This went on for 2.5 years....
the amount of experience provided was other worldly....the amount of effort to make happen? minimal
