There's really no way to sugarcoat a guy's ego if his dick is small. All this 'motion in the ocean' jive. Guys know when they're big, average, small, and anything beyond. We, I should say. No matter what ladies say, bigger is better, even if you 'don't know how to use it'. Can always learn. If you're small, as straightforward as this may sound, you might as well just learn to accept it and work with what you've got.
Originally Posted by Rambro Creed
This type of thread seems to devolve into slamming guys with big dicks.
While I think to idea of bigger dicks being every woman's fantasy is mostly fiction that TV, movies and porn perpetuate, I do agree that "motion of the ocean" stuff is overly simplistic nonsense to boost egos. It implies that some singular "magic" motion would satisfy every woman equally irregardless of size.
Keep in mind the motion of the ocean makes some seasick. If I've learned anything is that different women like different things. Some like it fast and rough, some like it slow and gentle. Some like Greek, some don't. Some like big dicks, other don't. Not to mention the preference of positions. So the exact same motion that may curl the toes
of one woman may not distract others from thinking about what's for dinner.
And does the woman just lie there like a dead fish while the this one-size-fits-all motion is happening? IMHO it's more about
both partners ability to find a good rhythm not just one.
Being well endowed doesn't guarantee you will be better but it doesn't mean you don't know what you doing either or can't or won't figure it out. But if you aren't getting any feedback or direction from you partner then it is just as much their fault. Who assumes they are doing something wrong and spontaneously changes without being prompted? So if a guy didn't know what he was doing or a girl is giving a lousy BJ why would you expect them to magically know they are doing anything wrong or what you'd like them to do instead?
