AveryMoore, did you stop and think that maybe this gentlemen visited this lady before she had used a rebel flag as one of her pics?
Originally Posted by whizard of Oz
What exactly would I have to stop doing in order to start thinking? Perhaps I'm among the lucky few who thinks as she breathes, in the background of all other activities!
So, yes, whizard. As I've said at least once so far, I didn't refuse the gentleman's request because of this other provider. Nor did I broach the topic with him as it seemed a potential contentious way to further our introduction. And given that this post has gotten quite contentious in spite of my best efforts to be courteous and clear, I think my fears were founded! Some subjects are probably too sensitive to be the launching off point of a first conversation, since more reliably than not, one or both participants may lack the sense of humor and open-mindness to make such discussions successful.