Keep the hell away from PhuckToi

No, it's phucktoi, from the Swedish for "obese car thief and liar".

You guys do realize that she logged as late as this morning. So she IS still around

Ok, need's to just be put this out there, this kind of dram pops up with her every couple of years, Last time, if you search back through the forum and use key word Lido, you will see what I mean. Another thing If you do a deep web (Not Dark Web) photo search via a good search engine you will stumble across the photos just to prove I know what I'm talking about and not just making this up or trying to kill her business, last time the photos showed up they were on 'triple W. imagefap. com.
To all: I was friends with her outside of the game or at least I though I was and actually got the webmaster from that site to pull the photos down for her. We did date for a bit meeting her family, and she wasn't like what we are all pissed about. I'm not trying to get into this, actually Im trying to stay as far away from it as I can.
To Toi if she's reading this thread: I'm not pissed off, this all is info that is out there so people with any knowledge can find/figure it out on there own. I'm trying to be a non-bias and fair to both sides as I can be.. Im really not in the mood to deal with her/you getting pissed off at me, and Im sorry and apologize to her/you in advance, but this all needs to be said so maybe she/you can finally see she/you really need to become so she/you tried to be a couple of years ago, when she/you tried slowdown and get out of the game with help from she/your friends, which I honestly thought you did. Truly she/you need quit the same old lines she/you are starting to become what she/you said what happened with you old doubles partner. She/you need to stop manipulation she/you have been playing. It is truly the same thing every time. "The I'm stuck in FW living on streets come get me" "I really want to be with you as more than a client, I truly am falling in love with you" "I need you to help me get a room, ride, money for food and I'll pay you back." "I'm stuck out of town and have no way to get back so I can come home and make a clean break from this life, can you get me a bus ticket" & the topper that really kind of pissed me off and made me sick to my stomach after reading meredcat43 post again causing me to post this, the "CANCER" thing this was to far and way fucked up, It's that same plays she/you have pull on the heart strings of the clients you have started to really get caught up in your web and have under your finger. It was that last one that got me thinking, She/you and I both know why and the reasons I don't want to openly post that out in the open.
!To all: Its not anything bizarre, Its just has to do with my old life in the service, and things I don't let known openly....
Another bit of knowledge, Toi and mines relationship/knowing each other never started as a session thing, I was for a photoshoot. I was trying to work on my portfolio and needed models, plus a lot of the providers need true professional work done, the selfies usually posted are always shot with crappy cell cameras mainly in a bathroom mirrors which in my opinion is really not a good way to show yourself off to clients...

Off the soapbox now.


Hat.

oh boy, guess who's coming to visit!!

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2064194

lol someone about to get a lesson in life.

("if you search back through the forum and use key word Lido,")

Is it wrong that I want to see these infamous photo's?

I'm confused... Am I better off lending my hard earned money to a hooker or a stripper? At my age it's hard to keep this stuff straight.

Anybody else think it was purely coincidence that a lido review pops up a DAY after her ad shows up.

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2064783

Anybody else think it was purely coincidence that a lido review pops up a DAY after her ad shows up.

https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2064783 Originally Posted by mrredcat43

Damn!!!

At least you are safe and in one piece. She did not turn you into an addict and hopefully you still have your job and everything else.

In conclusion: If this tale has taught anybody anything, DON'T TRUST HOOKERS, DON'T GIVE THEM THE BENEFIT OF THE DOUBT, AND DON'T BE BRAINWASHED LIKE I WAS!! Originally Posted by mrredcat43

MrRedCat, Sir, I would like to suggest, for your sake, try to apply this lesson pretty much across the whole spectrum and dont limit it to just Hookers.
One of the most well defined relationship in terms of expectation between a man and a woman IMHO is that of a Hooker and a John, and if a hooker was able to scam you like this then what about a lady whom you dont see as a Hooker? But then again, as I read your long post, it became clear that she was actually not a hooker anymore to you. You will probably object with semantics, but you had elevated her to a family member status and that is why she was able to do what she did. As long as the relationship is clearly that of a hooker/john, I would say hookers are probably more trustworthy than a lot of "good" people we work with in our RW jobs (just think about the BS politics and backstabbing in whatever industry you are in).

Now, I am sorry but I have to ask, is her Pussy lined with Diamonds?

At some point in there, no one knows where, reality just blends with hobby, just like where I am, the strip club illusion is still inside my head.

Though, the waitresses, bless these girls, they keep me where I should be at.

One waitress always tell these girls the thing they do are not real.

I would say hookers are probably more trustworthy than a lot of "good" people we work with in our RW jobs

I don't think so.

You just went 180 on that statement you made.

You left this part out - "As long as the relationship is clearly that of a hooker/john, "

I don't think so.

You just went 180 on that statement you made. Originally Posted by PetrusMaximus

Thank you johnspice, well said.

Here's my new thinking on people in general, in and out of the game: EVERY PERSON IS OUT TO SCREW YOU OVER, OR GET THE BETTER OF YOU, UNLESS THEY PROVE YOU OTHERWISE.

Well, not trusting everyone so much that you are allowing yourself to be vulnerable is one thing, but thinking everyone is out to screw you over is definitely not healthy - you will stop "living" that way. Anytime you are party to a contract (seeing a hooker is essentially a contract to complete a "project"- both parties are agreeing to deliver and receive services of some expected quality/quantity at a set price under certain terms - and there is a set start and completion time!) just be cognizant and try not to get the short end of the stick (most of the time) and don't allow yourself or anyone else to violate the terms of the contract or blur the boundaries.

I wish you well and I apologize in advance if I came across as patronizing, that is not my intent. Its not like I have everything figured out myself either!