The ladies, and many discerning gents, realize the effort some of us have put into being successful at our craft. I certainly know a lot of my time has been spent outside of the bedroom.
Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
I don't want to be disrespectful but most guys see providers for the action and not for anything else. Some guys do enjoy some light conversation but in the end they want to get to the good stuff. Sucking cock isn't craft. Do you put on a naked ballet to get the guy to take his trousers off? Is that what you mean by craft? What does your spending a lot of your time outside of business has to do with the business unless you mean buying matching towels and lotions and other gift packages for customers. Do you mean personality? All it really takes is to be nice and sexy. Men who are asking for more details than sex might want to see a counselor or a pastor to get his head checked. Something is going on inside. Men want good action and want to pretend that the woman is attracted to him. No real craft there but good old fashion acting.