In a Serious Relationship With an ASP? Guys, Could You Handle It?

In a word: Yes.

In more words...

I signed up here specifically to ask if escorts having boyfriends or husbands is rare, and I found this thread.

I like the idea for several reasons.

+ If I was a woman, I would be in that line of work myself.
+ It turns me on when I have a girlfriend who plays with others.
+ She would have a flexible work schedule, so we could go do things.
+ I would know she was with me because she liked me, since that is all she would be getting out of it.
+ She would probably like sex and be comfortable with her body, plus know what men like sexually.
+ It would actually mean something when she said I was the best she ever had...ha ha.
+ She might well be smart and self aware when it comes to sex and relationships, unlike women with little experience and only a fairy tale ideal of romance to go by.

I have some doubts about it.

- If she brings her work home with her, will my power tools be safe?
- She might be shut off emotionally during sex, out of habit.
- Like above, she might be thinking she is giving me free sex, instead of having sex with me. The difference matters.

I figure it depends on the individuals, like for any relationship, but I also know that for a given type of situation there will be more or less of a tendency for things to go a certain way. I am wondering then if it would be unlikely and an uphill battle, or if it happens all the time and things go well as often as not, like with relationships generally.

The comments here about gals not wanting to stay in the biz if they had a relationship were interesting. I hadn't thought of it being either-or like that. I won't pretend to understand how women might think of sex differently for pay or romance. That always seemed to me like a dichotomy that doesn't occur in the male mind. I'll admit that by male mind, I mean mine. I have not researched the subject any farther than wondering about it while smoking a cigarette.

Admit it.. so you could fuck her for free nonstop while everyone pays right? I see how it could be an ego boost . Great question OP! Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Ha Ha Ha, I have to admitt I like the way you think, lol. Thanks for the early morning laugh.

Yes I could and have. I don't really see it as any different from swinging.

Yes I could and have. I don't really see it as any different from swinging. Originally Posted by silverfox52

LOL. You're kidding...

Yeah.. I can see it now, "hey honey!" How was work today?.. "It sucked!"..well actually I sucked, this guys big ass ***k!! for about an hour, an when he was finally ready to cum he rammed his ***k down my throat an the milk shot out of my nose, he had a finger up my ass while we were screwing because I wouldnt do greek cause his ***k is 3x's bigger than yours..he literally f**ked the shit! out of me, whew!..an now that im thinking about it I actually kinda liked it ..whats for dinner?"...

I dont think so..

Yeah.. I can see it now, "hey honey!" How was work today?.. "It sucked!"..well actually I sucked, this guys big ass ***k!! for about an hour,an when he was finally ready to cum he rammed his ***k down my throat an the milk shot out of my nose, he had a finger up my ass while we were screwing because I wouldnt do greek cause his ***k is 3x's bigger than yours..he literally f**ked the shit! out of me, whew!..an now that im thinking about it I actually kinda liked it ..whats for dinner?"...

I dont think so.. Originally Posted by ralph lauren

Priceless!

But it does add a new dimension to the "leave it to beaver" line, if you know what I mean.

Amazing how perceptive you are my dear! That being said, what does that say about the guys who would be OK with it? Hummmm.... Originally Posted by Still Looking

+2 ..good thread destiny!

not explination. Sometimes you have interesting points but your spelling makes it hard to read.

You don't have a problem lying to your wife? What if she found out and wanted to leave? Is that not why you LIE in the first place? Why do you lie if you "have no problem with it?" Is it fear? Then that's an emotion you feel about what you are doing.

You're not being real here. If you are lying to do what you do, then you obviously know there would be an issue if you were caught. In that sense, you do in fact feel some sort of guilt, emotion, or just plain scared of what would happen if your wife found out. It may not be guilt, but you feel some sort of emotion or you would just do what you wanted and let your wife leave.

You are doing the very same thing I do but for different reasons. You are not in an open relationship like those who don't lie to each other, so either you are afraid of what society thinks or what your wife would think...probably both by your own addition. Of course you like what you're doing lol. You are a guy with a d*ck, but I wonder how much you would still like it if you lost everything you have in the real world?

My point is we all have issues to deal with when we participate in this type of business, so telling someone to stop doing what they enjoy is rather moot when you can't do it yourself. Originally Posted by London Rayne

not explination. Sometimes you have interesting points but your spelling makes it hard to read. Originally Posted by petiteassman

Are you bored and trying to pick a fight?

Actually, my spelling is about 10 grade levels up from his and so is my sentence structure. He can't even use proper punctuation and spaces and wants to talk about someone else's writing lol. I have heard it all!

Admition or Admission like in the movies dude? You are so warped you didn't even get the insult right, and made yourself look dumber in the process! WRONG THREAD!

Yea, come back when you pass 4th grade. I used the word "Addition"not "Explanation" because something was "added" by him/her to the conversation. Duh....English 101 dear....try that again.

This makes SIX threads you have followed me, quoted me, added nothing about the topic, and made zero sense on top of it. Can you be more original or less obvious!

FOR THE LAST TIME, STOP BRINGING YOUR IMMATURE CRAP INTO OTHER PEOPLE'S THREADS! BE A BIG BOY AND PM ME IF YOU CAN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT ME LOL!

I think, what he might have meant was... your correct spelling makes things difficult for him to read!

I think, what he might have meant was... your correct spelling makes things difficult for him to read! Originally Posted by MrGiz

Uhhh good catch lol. My spaces and paragraphs probably do as well. Some meds make people's reading ability diminish lol.

He even got the wrong thread too. He said the same thing again in another one where the word actually was misspelled. Damn..London on the brain has this one dizzy! He can't even remember what insult goes with what thread lol. Priceless!

Jesus loved Mary Magdalene, she was a provider and any reality to this relationship was washed out of the story by religious authorities. There is no real evidence Jesus was celebate, and no real evidense he and Mry Magdalene hooked up, but what does reality tell us? I don't hold the bible as an authority on what real love is. If it means anything I went to a Southern Baptist church 3xs a week for over 20 years. Originally Posted by buzzworm86

you're part right about mary magdalene, however, she was never a prostitute.

Are you bored and trying to pick a fight? Originally Posted by Laz

He is ALSO stalking me all over the board. He started to pick a fight with me in Diamonds and Tuxedos and I ignored his ass. Now WHY the hell would he be on THAT board KNOWING he can't afford more than $200 for pussy?

Did he not read the header on D&T: Glamour, elegance, and sophistication. That's what it's all about here in ECCIE's newest forum which caters to those with expensive tastes, lavish lifestyles, and an appetite for upscale entertainment.

And.....he comes in there to cause trouble with me because he's a little butt hurt. Whatever. Who cares.

It's the most pathetic move I've seen by a hobbyist.