TRAITS OF A UPSCALE,HIGH CLASS PROVIDER - Page 12

Exactly, but I do in fact provide ALL of those things, and don't consider myself a "high class" provider...maybe upscale or luxury services, but not "high class." Originally Posted by London Rayne

I get ya'. In my eyes, upscale = high class.

This is very different than expensive, although expensive is generally expected from a high class provider.

I just prefer the word "caliber" vs. "class."

Class sounds a bit too pretentious. High class does not equal upscale...two different things. I can provide an upscale "service" without being a "high class" individual...I am living proof of that.

I might stay at 4 star hotels when I entertain, but I am fine with a Holiday Inn if I have to pull off the road late night...a high class person would be far too good for that. I am just as comfy at a Ruby Tues. as a 5 star Italian place with certain guys from the country, yet the majority of my clients don't want that...I simply adjust to provide that upscale service. It's not who I am though. I may come across as some princess to some, but that's simply marketing. I am very laid back, down to earth and adaptable.

A nice hotel, great convo, a nice outfit, and all the extra perks can be "provided" by anyone of any class level here. Even the street walker or the girl from the trailer park can "provide" that upscale service if she decides to...does not make her high class just because she did it. It simply means she had the means to do so on a few occasions.

According to the University I attended anyone from Penn State or UCF is of lower class because they went to a public school, but the degree is the same. I am about as ditzy as they come, yet I have credentials that say otherwise and connote a certain status level...means nothing. Does not change the fact that I am just as ditzy as I was before I graduated lol.

Let me tell you that while all that maybe true, we are all human beings at heart doing the best we can do. That street walker maybe trying to put her kid through college and is willing to put up with more shit than a woman with a booker. Is she more classy? In my book she is. Who knows but I do know that empathy is the mountaintop of class in my book. What we country boys call a good heart. I know that when I'm around it and I see it in every different social level. So I am not sure why we feel the need to distinguish those differences.

Some of us were delt a better hand than most and should take that into consideration when discussing all this caca.

That streetwalker may have reached the highest lot in life she can reach. The HDH may have stooped as low as one can go given their background, you just never know.

Carry on folks, I'm off to go get me a classy blowjob. Originally Posted by WTF

Coming from you, wow!

LOL @ Classy blowjob!

I think it has to do with how one was raised/the type of family they come from.

@ London: <3 I try. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

That is why i say it is inherint. Our family teaches us this and so in a sencse we are born with it. It takes our families to send us to the Sorbonne and so on. Our families allow us a Gapier. I imagine it would be really hard to unlearn what you were taught as a child and re-teach yourself a different way of being. IDK, if ladies have good for you! I imagine that would be very difficult.

Our families allow us a Gapier. Originally Posted by sofiaofhouston

I don't know if I was allowed to have one of those. What is it?

I am in the same boat as Ansley, what is Gapier?

I mentioned earlier that the way a provider conduct yourself, determines her being upscale/high class provider. Actually where i may have been misunderstood, is when i spoke of being able to show class even behind close doors, what i meant is, that class isn't shown only in public, but in whatever you do, no matter where you are. I realize after reading others point of view on this thread, that i mistakenly confused class with being upscale, and the two are not the same, but what is a fact is class can't be bought.

Let me tell you that while all that maybe true, we are all human beings at heart doing the best we can do. That street walker maybe trying to put her kid through college and is willing to put up with more shit than a woman with a booker. Is she more classy? In my book she is. Who knows but I do know that empathy is the mountaintop of class in my book. What we country boys call a good heart. I know that when I'm around it and I see it in every different social level. So I am not sure why we feel the need to distinguish those differences.

Some of us were delt a better hand than most and should take that into consideration when discussing all this caca.

That streetwalker may have reached the highest lot in life she can reach. The HDH may have stooped as low as one can go given their background, you just never know.

Carry on folks, I'm off to go get me a classy blowjob. Originally Posted by WTF

Well said. We are using the word class which can be a behavior interchangeably with a socio economic status. It is not working well.

I find it odd that most here don't know how to utilize google. Thank you, Ed. I don't think that is the word Sofia meant to use.

I find it odd that most here don't know how to utilize google. Thank you, Ed. I don't think that is the word Sofia meant to use. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Unless she was just trying to be Gapier than both Anita and Ansley....

Unless she was just trying to be Gapier than both Anita and Ansley.... Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

Gapier is not a form of the verb "gape". So asking the question was completely fine. "Gaper" is a different word but doesn't follow what would appear to be the correct word usage in Sophia's initial statement.

Sophia probably just misspelled what she intended to write. But if you wish to turn the question about a simple word into a written sparing match, wait until I get into Chicago, I'll be glad to participate.

There isn't a need to get ugly about a simple question asked. I was curious what the word was, too, initially. Naomi's second sentence is probably correct. A wrong word was used inadvertently.

Elisabeth

the incredible physical attributes its the attitude that makes you such a desired woman. you do not put on pretenses and you give the feeling you dont think your too good for us to bang you. a woman of your looks is not something the average guy usually gets to experience so that makes for an exciting possibility. you know its funny about the high volume thing guys look down on high volume girls. really what they say is you should be inexpensive you should offer all menu options you should tour my area and you should only bang me. when i read a review from someone like sonya playmate or shayla i feel so good for the guy that he got to experience such women i wish every man on earth myself included could have such fortune. if shayla was to come to buffalo i would hope 100 of my board brothers would enjoy and experience her because that would mean 100 guys lives were that much richer. as long as a provider is clean fresh and into the appointment whether i was the only guy that week or the 4th of the day is not a big concern.

I would never consider myself classy! Sure... I could probably fake it to an extent but it's not who I am genuinely... I'll admit that. It'd be way too obvious anyway. I'm more tomboy/casual and less chic and stylish.
Well the rates that were posted is basically average here and yes I am, by most people's standards high(er) volume. When I tour they change a little bit but not much. I cater to all... Even the peons. Originally Posted by Shayla

This is interesting. I am the total opposite of a tomboy but I'm sure we'd have a blast hanging out together. We can learn from each other

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Are all the classy ladies denying that they are classy?

A classy lady would just accept the compliment.

That is why i say it is inherint. Our family teaches us this and so in a sencse we are born with it. It takes our families to send us to the Sorbonne and so on. Our families allow us a Gapier. I imagine it would be really hard to unlearn what you were taught as a child and re-teach yourself a different way of being. IDK, if ladies have good for you! I imagine that would be very difficult. Originally Posted by sofiaofhouston

I don't know if I was allowed to have one of those. What is it? Originally Posted by Ansley

I am in the same boat as Ansley, what is Gapier? Originally Posted by Anita Lay

When I initially read this, I was a little taken aback that a lady from Houston would reference the Sorbonne. However, so be it.

I didn't know what Gapier was either. So I Googled it and found this: http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/Gapier. One of the definitions was "a fit of yawning."

In context it seemed to me that Sophia was saying that it takes families to send one to a world class university, or to allow kids to be laid back and do nothing (yawning).

Just my inference. Probly very wrong.