Drama, Highly Vocal posters, Disrespect, Trash Talk?... Why do YOU perceive ECCIE to not be a "friendly" place?

I read this thread. Its interesting, and I was going to comment, but im old, my eyes hurt, and I just dont have that much time on my hands. I will check back another time. Ranch

Oh you mean the photos where I was photographed for Playboy Magazine by famed photographer Sammy Maxwell? They are still here…and while I would like to take the time to hold your hand and teach you how to use the search functions of this site…I'm afraid you're on your own this morning because I have to dance now until 7pm and I just don't have the time now, sorry darlin! Originally Posted by Ivory

OH Well! I tried but WAY too many threads with IVORY to look through them all!
I know!
What year was your pics in Playboy?
I can search there!
best
Hark

Do you think you're nice?
Originally Posted by Rand Al'Thor

I Couldn't say.

Her pics weren't in Playboy.....they were taken by a Playboy photographer...I'm sure every time Playboy does a "Girls of the Southwest" spread, there are hundreds of girls posing for pictures.

Getting back on topic let me take a stab at the original thread topic. If I were to think about this community from an outside perspective I would expect it was filled with a bunch of open minded individuals looking to share information and have good safe fun. What I find in many of the threads is hobbyist and providers that are closed minded and quick to insults and arguments. I guess when money and ego's are involved it becomes like any other group of people with differing opinions. An example of this was in a thread about sugar daddies I was reading last week. There was a provider who said a sugar daddie is someone who fully supports their sugar baby so that she has no other concerns or worries. She went on to basically call out all the sd on this site saying they were just broke ass hobbyist looking for cheap ass. A few hobbyist hatters then chimed in saying all the sugar daddie stories were made up because there is no way you can get girls that inexpensively on a regular basis. I think it's this close mindedness that leads to the site becoming combative and un-nice. Everyone has an opinion, its when the close mindedness causes these opinions to be the only excepted reality for these individuals that makes for the heated debates that are considered unfriendly. Another thing I notice is that sweeping generalities in topic discussions cause arguments when the one posting these generalities is then called out and their ego's puts them in combat mode.

We all have different experiences and feel that we can offer insight and stories in different threads or topic discussions. Maybe a little more tact or open-mindedness can lead to less insults and heated discussions. After all most of us are here to share and learn from those who have had success in the hobby. I don't spend a ton of time in the locker room but when I do I don't see as many arguments. I would guess the ladies only areas are similar so it seems that when the guys and gals are together in the coed and other sections is when the WK syndrome kicks in or when the non PA members who have less post or insights chime in with generalities that the issue's pop up. And of course in these sections there are always providers with strong opinions who enjoy the heated debates because it gives them attention they wouldn't otherwise be getting.

Personally, one of my goals as the new year approaches is to work on my tact when stating things in a public forum to insure I get my point across without coming off in a manner that will alienate my audience.

Personally, one of my goals as the new year approaches is to work on my tact when stating things in a public forum to insure I get my point across without coming off in a manner that will alienate my audience. Originally Posted by Reya Sunshine

Are you eluding to my tacky post in COED, Lol?

Are you eluding to my tacky post in COED, Lol? Originally Posted by magnetico

I think she was just pointing out my spelling error which I went back and fixed. It felt wrong when I typed it but I figured the point wouldn't be missed.

Personally, one of my goals as the new year approaches is to work on my tact when stating things in a public forum to insure I get my point across without coming off in a manner that will alienate my audience. Originally Posted by Reya Sunshine

Ah, what fun is that? Stay the way you are....

sixx

And exactly what came of that photo shoot? ALl the money over all the years and you strip for $5 in a seedy joint all these years later.....

I tried to let it all go and told them you were not worth the effort anymore.

You lack any relevance on this site or within the community.

You trash women and men alike. You contribute absolutely nothing new or positive. Your only contributions here any longer are in controversial threads as you try to show what a strong and independent person you are.

Anything to try to keep yourself "noticed"....

You probably WILL be someone someday... Gain some historical significance on the website..... You will probably to be known as the one that simply could not let go of her youth when she hit her senior years..... couldn't let go of her memories of being slim and fit as she swelled and bloated....

4/5 years ago as I planned on returning to Texas there was no provider/stripper on the Austin scene I wanted to meet and get to know more than Ivory.....

It was the single biggest let down I experienced in the Adult Industry..... She has lost her looks, lost her hygiene, lost her wit.... and refuses to age gracefully....

Noone asks about her....

Noone brings her up except as a joke anymore....

Ivory used to be the Best known as well as one of the most sought after dancers in her day.....

Now she sadly thinks those days are still with her...

There ARE dancers of her age at the better clubs...... But those ladies have taken care of themselves.... worked to keep their appearance...... worked to adapt to a changing clientele....

Ivory has been shoved off to the only couple of clubs that will let her... Originally Posted by Whispers

Ivory sounds like the Evander Holyfield of strippers. Washed up, delusional, and thinking they are still relevant

sixx

Everyone here has been so welcoming and nice im really glad i joined this communoty .i know one cant make everyone happy and sometimes ppl. can say mean and hurtful things *but shrug it off .. i want to say Welcome to u and glad ur here!!!!!!!!!

"Drama, Highly Vocal posters, Disrespect, Trash Talk?... Why do YOU perceive ECCIE to not be a "friendly" place?" - Whispers


So these are just my "opinions" and "thoughts"....dont beat me up...or down....because I may go sit in a dark corner and eat the 10 cans of Cheese Whiz I just bought and develop a complex of pitiful depression and self worthlessness.........LOL!

There are 4 groups that inhabit this hobby board....and that is what this place is---- be mindful of this.

First Group: Those who fuck and pay

Second Group: Those who fuck and get paid

Third Group: Those who sit behind their keyboards being entertained by us thus living out their fantasy from their 5X5 home office, say nothing and contributing nothing....and those who contribute too much of nothing.

Fourth Group: LE- Those who have nothing better to do than to come down on our world and hobby because they are too damn lazy to do any real work or fight any real crime.


Everyone fits into one of the above groups. Period. It is when a person loses their self control, confidence, esteem, and lets other people make them feel insignificant by what another may say, that makes a person begin to whine and cry and act like a total moron saying stupid shit like "He/She hurt my feelings" Etc.


If you are dumb enough to get your widdle ole feewings hurt on a damn Hooker Board then you need not be here in the first place. It is all the whining and BS that makes this place, if at all in the least, unfriendly. It pisses people off or if you're like me- amuses them and gives them something to poke at. It your fucking fault!

Remember where the hell you are before you make a public spectacle of yourself and act like a damn fool. Nothing said here is really worth becoming unhinged over. If you do, then the problem is with you- not with what was said or done here. Grow some balls and have a ball- or two!

Just thinking out loud- as always!


.....now where did I put my cheese whiz....?



KKA
XOXO

When he calls out a provider for lying about her age for at least 4 or 5 years is that mean?
I don't know. I mean its a fantasy board and in her head she is 25 so there is that.

I've been lying about my age for at least 4 or 5 years???, Wtf are you talking about? I have been an escort for TWO YEARS. I am not 25 in my head, I said that I don't look or feel a day over 25, which is what I am told quite regularly in my business and personal life. Speak about something that you actually have knowledge of.

I've been lying about my age for at least 4 or 5 years???, Wtf are you talking about? I have been an escort for TWO YEARS. I am not 25 in my head, I said that I don't look or feel a day over 25, which is what I am told quite regularly in my business and personal life. Speak about something that you actually have knowledge of. Originally Posted by MilfAmy

My Bad then Amy!

If you are dumb enough to get your widdle ole feewings hurt on a damn Hooker Board then you need not be here in the first place.

It is all the whining and BS that makes this place, if at all in the least, unfriendly. It pisses people off or if you're like me- amuses them and gives them something to poke at. It your fucking fault!

Remember where the hell you are before you make a public spectacle of yourself and act like a damn fool. Originally Posted by KlassyKelliAnn

There is an opinion I can agree with!