-- Use party badges; its like collecting beads during Mardi Gras or mini-scavenger hunt. It's a momento you collect if your complete a set of designated tasks. The idea is to give people an excuse to be more social; so, don't focus on performance of sex acts, rather focus on real social activity. I still keep mine in a glass jar...great memories! Originally Posted by txswing99This is an exellent idea for any party. I host a very private and exclusive, in my elegant incall, party every once in a while. Top shelf women, hors d'oeuvres and liquer and wines. I am just the host, and I keep the ratio 1:1 or 1:1.5 (women : men) at times. There are no swords crossing as there are rooms for ones' private affairs . It's always great fun.