Falling in love with your provider.

Russ38's Avatar
That was the agreement and that is what has happened. Originally Posted by SD7
Heh.....so she says......

I confess to having harbored some...unprofessional...feelin gs for a client. Total sneak attack too. I didn't have that sense that there was a budding romance in the midst, or if I did, I subconsciously ignored it. If I had be aware I was beginning to have feelings for a clients, I'd have been on guard, and surely not have allowed them to grow. Alas, it was more like I just looked up one day, already in the throws of a bona fide case of lovey-doveys, and said to myself, "oh my god, no!"

It's not that this is the worst thing that could happen, and given the intimate dynamic inherent of provider/client relationships, it's not exactly a huge surprise when it does.

The real predicament falling for a client creates for me is that is lose the client. If it's unrequited love, then I can't give him what he's paying for. If it's requited, then he can't be my client, because (ahem) money can't buy love.
LadyMoxie's Avatar
It happens more often than anyone thinks. I met my boyfriend on BP about 9 years ago. Yes, we are still together! It happens and it's inevitable in some cases. ... I wish her nothing but good things and mostly happiness....
Wakeup's Avatar
Whores love them some Wakeup...just sayin'...
LadyMoxie's Avatar
Wakeup, I'd marry you in a heartbeat!
Wakeup's Avatar
Already got a wife, as you can see from my avatar. Got a mistress as well, but she's rapidly approaching sister-wife territory.

Not much room for more women in my life right now...but see...whores love them some Wakeup!
LadyMoxie's Avatar
LOL!!! I am hurt... But I am in the same position lol!!
pyramider's Avatar
I bet if you post some taint photos Wakeup can be swayed.
Wakeup's Avatar
Nope...
pyramider's Avatar
Work with me ...
jbravo_123's Avatar
Awwwwww......I just saw this. Ditto baby, ditto! We're going on almost two years. Time to plan a celebration!

:t hrob: Originally Posted by YummyMarie
Get a room, you two!
Work with me ... Originally Posted by pyramider

Whore Mongers gots some serious rules.
Already got a wife, as you can see from my avatar. Got a mistress as well, but she's rapidly approaching sister-wife territory.
Originally Posted by Wakeup
Sister wife... Never gonna happen, I don't share.
Wakeup's Avatar
I know babe, and that's why I love you.
5T3V3's Avatar
  • 5T3V3
  • 12-10-2014, 10:15 AM
What is love, but taking care of each others needs? If your client relationship has gone on for any length of time, you were taking care of one need for sure and probably other in the process As long as you are both meeting on equal ground (ie- no one is looking down on the other or holding the past over the other) then why couldn't it work. The 2 biggest things that break up a marriage are sexual issues and money issues ... so why couldn't it work ... FYI in a relationship monetary consideration is called and allowance and not a donation!