When you and a client *really* disagree

yes he seems to have my level of intellect, ....(so, now...its up to him if he sees that as an insult or a compliment ) Originally Posted by ninasastri

I think you sell yourself short...

...but then you are both long-winded...

Long-winded can sometimes be a good thing....one need not come up for air as often.

I think you sell yourself short...

...but then you are both long-winded... Originally Posted by atlcomedy

what does long winded mean? sorry my english is not that perfect :-)

It means you talk/write a lot he he.

It means you talk/write a lot he he. Originally Posted by London Rayne

aaaah ok i see that. how true :-)

Well Hi Natalie, yes you explained it and then another poster entered the fray....I was posting for her information too not only yours. I was hoping to convey that your friend had no limbs, is an escort and might not be able to walk away from the racial uncomfort as easily as other might.
And yes lets give thanks to all posters who ask sincere questions and sincere responses, and the wisdom to know the difference as they say in AA. Originally Posted by WTF

hahahahahahahaa
you are funny WTF!!!
you made my day! seriously.....;-) i haven`t had a good laugh like this in a long time....(and the last was when i fell on my mouth during vacation sex with a lover - oh no, don`t ask....)

and the last was when i fell on my mouth during vacation sex with a lover - oh no, don`t ask....) Originally Posted by ninasastri

I'm sorry you HAVE to tell, now. But we're all friends here so we won't tell a soul.

I'm sorry you HAVE to tell, now. But we're all friends here so we won't tell a soul. Originally Posted by SR Only

well , the bed. .. you know.... ..... it just broke... the bed not his dick...... ..... and that was when i tried to be as plain vanilla romantic as possible......what a dissappointment.... I should stick to kink and bondage rooms instead....much safer.....;-))))

At least with ropes and stuff (silk ties?) you can put the bed back together.

well , the bed. .. you know.... ..... it just broke... the bed not his dick...... ..... and that was when i tried to be as plain vanilla romantic as possible......what a dissappointment.... I should stick to kink and bondage rooms instead....much safer.....;-)))) Originally Posted by ninasastri

WTF is Kewl. Originally Posted by London Rayne

Please don't encourage him

There was similar advice given in a much more civil way. I have found that generally speaking advice is better received when the tone is more civil. If the person giving advice wants to be listened to tone can make a difference. Perhaps your experience is different. Originally Posted by discreetgent

That is very true. There are always plenty of other ways that a person can get their point across without making another feel weak, or stupid .Natalie has always been a very considerate poster here. She did not deserve some of the comments on this thread.

I can only speak for me but tell your limbless friend , that is who you were asking for correct?, that I do not think any answer(s) dumb. I thought that there would be many different reasons discussed but only one answer would be correct for her and you and you and and you and and you!.....if a person did not know the answer and had to ask, well then I thought there might be something wrong with that person that they had to take a poll to see what was right for them. How can any person know you better than yourself? The person that ask the question is the only one with the answer for herself. You do not have to be a HDH to know answers like these but you can't be one and not. Originally Posted by WTF

The gardening accident was a reference to Spinal Tap, which I was watching at the time (one of my favorite movies, if you haven't seen it). As for your last line ("you can't be one and not") I've already explained in previous posts why this is false (if it were true, there would have been a consensus in responses). Next time I have a question, I'll just PM you, WTF, the highest dollar hottie of them all. Anyway, thanks again for being so sweet and helpful-- I can only imagine (envy!) the success you've had in this business. And to have done so without any advice, too!

To be honest, I can't quite think of any problem in life that's best solved by taking an internet poll. I wanted to start a conversation--is that really so odd or unheard of, or a big deal? The people who want to repeat over and over that "anyone who finds themself in that situation should alreay know what to do" could spout the same thing to anyone who's asked or advice (really, almost anyone who has asked a complicated, non-factual question).

To be honest, I can't quite think of any problem in life that's best solved by taking an internet poll. I wanted to start a conversation--is that really so odd or unheard of, or a big deal? The people who want to repeat over and over that "anyone who finds themself in that situation should alreay know what to do" could spout the same thing to anyone who's asked or advice (really, almost anyone who has asked a complicated, non-factual question). Originally Posted by Natalie

true too. If we were capable of having all answers ready then we would not need to learn and age. but then again i think escorting in the USA is easy as cream pie in comparison to europe. So - sorry for my lack of empathy :-).

As for your last line ("you can't be one and not") I've already explained in previous posts why this is false (if it were true, there would have been a consensus in responses). ! Originally Posted by Natalie

Yes you explained why you thought it was false and quite frankly I am surprised why I am having to explain again to you why that is false logic. Let me try again. Say you were to ask this group the best way to San Francisco. Some may have no desire to ever go there. They do not like what they have heard about it. The vast majority would give you hundreds of different ways and reasons to get there. It really depends on where you are/at in life. None of the answers are wrong. They depend on each person's preference or circumstances. But only you know where you are at in life. Nobody can stand in your shoes and experience your past history or know your future goals. That is why I have said what I have.

Next time I have a question, I'll just PM you, WTF, the highest dollar hottie of them all. Anyway, thanks again for being so sweet and helpful-- I can only imagine (envy!) the success you've had in this business. And to have done so without any advice, too! Originally Posted by Natalie

That is probably not a bad idea if you can not stand for all the different type of answers that one gets when they ask a question on the internet.

Let me just add that the advice I have gotten did not come with the caveat that it had to be sweet, I do not ask for sugar coated only advice. I want honest advice period. You seem to have gotten plent of the latter while prefering the former.