No Black Men

Eccie Addict's Avatar
Whatever you heard...lies I tell ya, all LIES Originally Posted by DickEmDown
Even when you are saying it? LMAO!!

DED you mean you agree with Brooke's statement that NBA = Pimp and if they work in an hourly incal that they have a pimp lol.
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Hannah I see that you like to take free shot and you won't just allow anyone to speak their mind.

I have no problem with providers who don't see AA (technically I am not an "AA" anyway)and I won't generalize, but I would say this:

NBA policy = I do not like black people, but I won't say out loud. So I am just using behind the term "preference" to hide the fact that I am a possible racist.
But then again, you see "sista" who also have this policy, so u gotta wonder.

....Now go ahead a take a shot at me, I am ready for whatever
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So you are able to see in a person's heart and "know" there reasons for doing things now. That's interesting. Most people who feel that is a race issue are the ones that feel it's a race thing all the time every time whether in the hobby or not. Originally Posted by Eccie Addict
No I don't read people's mind but what they write
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So if people socialize with other races but won't sleep with them that makes them racist?
Even when you are saying it? LMAO!!

DED you mean you agree with Brooke's statement that NBA = Pimp and if they work in an hourly incal that they have a pimp lol. Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

EA...if you are gonna quote me, at least get it right.

I was talking to Naomi, not Brooke...and no I don't totally agree with Brooke's statement although there is some validity to it.

I'm pretty sure some girls on BP/Eccie/Etc that have NBA in their ads have pimps, but not all of them.
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I did get it right. I just didn't clarify it. That's why I put my first statement right under your quote....

Actually I was just wanting you to agree with me on more than one post.... that's all LMAO.
Everyone's entitled, even providers, to their own choices. That's all I'm saying on the topic.

Sixxbach.... DO NOT write any more reviews! 69........
TheFrenchGuy,

I'm Mexican, Native American Indian and French....but, if a guy doesn't want to see me is that considered racist? Or could it be that I'm just not his type, but then again that would be discrimination no?

As I stated previously, I usually have a NBA policy, but do see one AA man who is a dream guy in general. I'm far from racist though. My reasons stem from previous experiences. Just like my previous experiences with guys under the age of 30. I won't see guys under the age of 30 anymore.

BUT, exceptions can be made on a client by client basis...at least by me. I can't speak for other ladies.

We all have our reasons on why we choose to see who we see. Why can't people just accept that and not read more into it? I don't get mad at guys who love my online personality and love talking to me, but won't see me because I'm not their type.

To each his own baby. You'll live with or without my pussy just like I'll live with or without your money. Of course I'm speaking in general.

I do appreciate everyone's opinions on this though. Its an interesting read from the psychology point of view.
well i just gotta say this. its not only providers choice not to black men. there is a guy in dallas that emails girls an ask us providers if we see black me because he has emailed me an a few other providers. if you tell him yes. he emails you back an says that he doesn't see providers that see black men. so its not just providers that choose not to see them. there are some guys out there that wont see girls that see black men.
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  • Tulsa
  • 04-08-2011, 08:28 AM
Great subject, I've always heard: "once you go black you never come back?" also heard "some porn stars don't do black guys for issues relating to value", in watching the hobby, BP and conversation I reached the conclusion that often times "no black gentlemen" is a statement to other pimps. Some guys will hire black guys to do their wife.
However, in the army I learned there are no black soldiers or white ones, only GREEN ones$
Hmm, I admit to not reading all 13(!!) pages of this.

But I will say that I have two hard and fast rules.

1. If you cannot put together a decent sentence when contacting me (with punctuation, reasonably good spelling) then I won't see you. Does this mean I have an educated pimp?

2. NBA. Based on an incident that happened 7 years ago (6 years before I started doing this). And the few AA men that have contacted me and asked were very sweet about it. If it had anything to do with projecting other people's behavior onto them I would have given them a chance. But I cannot and will not ever again be in the same room with a naked black guy. If it had been an Indian, Asian, Native, White guy then I guess my policy would instead be for one of those. Which sucks. My first kiss was with a black guy. My mom has been dating a black guy for the last year. But that door is closed for me.

You don't know the reasons that people make these decisions.
Wow. It's really gotta suck for the upstanding and professional black men to always be held responsible for the knuckle-headed actions of a few. I never knew such a large number of the female posting community felt this way. Very enlightening indeed.
Sorry I forgot to mention when I saw Black men and Hispanics I mean they have to be American. I am not opposed to a race but rather to the culture itself.
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Blacks have more STDs. It's just a fact. Look it up at the CDC. So that could be one reason.
Sorry I forgot to mention when I saw Black men and Hispanics I mean they have to be American. I am not opposed to a race but rather to the culture itself. Originally Posted by CarlaBrazil
Thanks for the clarification.