I think the main issue at the core of this discussion is whether this community truly cares about the safety of its members (both providers and hobbyists). The ladies have raised legitimate concerns that according to them endangers their safety,privacy and livelihood. To dismiss these concerns as simply "drama" does a great disservice to the entire community.
The ladies have claimed they have evidence that proves their concerns. Well then, I think it's only appropriate that the moderators and administrators review this evidence and render a decision. If Doc is found to have harassed this women, he should face a suspension or ban. If the evidence shows that there was no wrongdoing, then Doc's name should be cleared. Originally Posted by EMZ1215
Polarizing as it may be, it started off as an attack on one of our members,Sure you can! Who is stopping you? Dik Doc is the only one that invited you to this party.
Dik Doc Marshmallow deserves this so called attack.
I understand that some of the providers that have spoken up have issues with him but thats what the alerts section and the moderators are for,
last time I checked, you don't have the authority to decide where "issues" are handled. Ask Dik Doc Marshmallow, he knows everything about this board
they say they have proof then show a moderator and be done with it.
That was done a year ago. Moderators and administrators felt the information that was provided was enough to dismiss him from being a mod
As for our fellow hobbyists, those that are seeking drama or stoking the flames, I hope I never meet any of you, I don't need that kind of crap in my life.
Bet ya the feeling is mutual
Doc has never bothered me and vice versa,
Many wish they could say the same
hell I've never even heard of a few of the members speaking out about him, where have you all been hiding?
Hiding? Asks the guy that's been present 1 year
Can we just get back to seeing the fine women on the board and writing our reviews about the good times we have. This is ECCIE not The South Texas Whine Board. Originally Posted by perfectdevil
It is others that have disgusted me into retirement Originally Posted by EveParadiseI am sorry to hear that.
actually i am not accepting appointments. i have made a previous attempt at retiring but this time i have an extremely important and special reason to continue retirement. a reason that is very precious and starting in june will occupy most of grandma's time. even the most adored hobbyists can't compete with this little bundle of joy. though we miss each other they all understand how precious this gift is to me. nothing can interfere with that. My precious grandson deserves a grandmother that is devoted to him. He is my world. I WILL NOT disappoint him or my son. I understand why people say I will not stay retired.... Aparrently they don't know me because that bundle of joy is all i need. I can't wait to see him and hold him and spoil him. I will always care for these gentlemen, but everyone of them support my decision. Originally Posted by EveParadise