When you and a client *really* disagree

That is very true. There are always plenty of other ways that a person can get their point across without making another feel weak, or stupid .Natalie has always been a very considerate poster here. She did not deserve some of the comments on this thread.
Originally Posted by Becky

This is a very touchy subject. You have to know that going in. No different than if one was to ask, "I have an escort friend that will not see blacks. What should I do?''

She is asking a moral question.

Now while I agree that Natalie has always been (mostly) considerate, that is a totally different subject matter. Also not all know Natalie's history, they just know she posed a highly charged question.

It is the nature of the beast.

That said ''Are any of you ladies friendly with any peers who do not see blacks?"" See, it is a highly personal question she posed, those ignite passion.

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Let me just add that the advice I have gotten did not come with the caveat that it had to be sweet, I do not ask for sugar coated only advice. I want honest advice period. Originally Posted by WTF

yes so much for being able to handle people who are not in the same mindframe. Sorry but what is rude for one person is not rude for another one. I consider it rude to screw racists for money and avoid the topic by simply not talking about it. It makes my toes curl.

WTF, this last round of comments is a stretch even by your loose standards.

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That said ''Are any of you ladies friendly with any peers who do not see blacks?"" See, it is a highly personal question she posed, those ignite passion. Originally Posted by WTF

I see people of all colours and financial backgrounds. I am also a person who is not so obsessed with money. If i like a guy, i often leave it at my 4 hours rate even if we spend more time but i enjoy myself. It all depends.
I do not see people with inflated sense of self and ones that think they are superiour to others (racists that is or HDHs who think they are smarter than the ones who charge less - hell some even post on their homepage they offer quality over quantity. How judgemental!! Maybe i am capable to screw more than one person a week and still offer quality? I do not need a week of spa treatment after every client, sorry :-))..And i mean what kind of quality are people offering anyway if they ask such questions? Hello? and then the statement about CATERING TO THE ELITE?? who is that?? elitist racism? Who is elite? construction worker does not get treatment?

If you put away the facades of som e of these HDHs who think they are so much better and superiour (some really think they are smarter than the rest of the escort world - i have heard them tell such things to me......- how a guy won`t find anyone better because they are the epithome of smartness and beauty,seriously? i have heard women tell that in my face - but of course they would never dare to post such an attitude on a board here, right? .....that women who charge less do so because they are not smart or beautiful enough to ask for more .... ha ha ha.... that is why i avoid most of these HDHs thoroughly enough, because it makes me ick all this inflated sense of self....) and then hearing that they prostitute themselves to racists and are not capable of making a decision even a 100 dollar streetwalker can make ? Or some HDHs even market their own homepage in their REAL name ( to be looked up on whois) and then wonder how someone finds out they are escorts? Hello? I have seen that with my OWN EYES, so no story only! so much about being smart? and offering quality? Even the dumbest streetwalker knows so much about escorting ? So you might reconsider what quality really is then, right?


and don`t even start talking to me about ladies that do not see people of colour !!!
WOW!!! Talk about Nazi Germany! Of course they all are too weak minded to at least put it honestly on their page, because they could not handle the backlash that this would cater to...... same like many HDHs have two stage names and go touring for cheap too, because they know themselves that not many people are willing to pay so much money for not really anything more :-).....When they are broke that is......putting up a second stage name and touring for the oh so offensive 300 themselves :-)... God beware if the twain shall meet or anyone finds out :-). Why not simply posting on the homepage that NOW ITS 300 an hour week ?? :-)) and save yourself the hassle :-)

I know many of them don`t! I have heard black people telling me how grateful they are i see them? Hello? What is that? Its really disgusting! My friends are gay, people of colour, and polyamorists. Anyone who has issues with the above mentioned i do not see as client! Talk to me about racists then again! Or people with inflated sense of self who think they are better than the rest. Yikes!!

WTF, this last round of comments is a stretch even by your loose standards. Originally Posted by pjorourke

Can you be a tad more specific PJ

Nina, you are confusing marketing with reality. Most of the posters here realize the difference.

Can you be a tad more specific PJ Originally Posted by WTF

Yes, but it would just encourage you.

Yes, but it would just encourage you. Originally Posted by pjorourke

You are such a tease

Nina, you are confusing marketing with reality. Most of the posters here realize the difference. Originally Posted by pjorourke

yes but than its bad marketing right? If i were a guy i would only see 300$ an hour escorts. Most of them are the smartest and most beautiful. ANd they use the same marketing strategies. Sorry but if someone uses the same style and same photos for advertising for 200 bucks more then they are not really placing in a different league, are they? Real high dollar hotties do not even advertise as escorts. Most of them are ... well .... celebrities of some sort. And they have super perfect photos on their page. Hell even my photos cost me 5000 dollar. SO much for branding! A marketing strategy is there to make you stand out and not to have a ton of similar pages with the same rates and same style of photos ? that is not good marketing. Some of the women that claim to be "quality over quantity" look as if they are so broke they can`t even afford a good webdesigner or a good photographer? so they might have to reconsider their marketing strategy? And they cannot afford to loose racists? wow?

And Walmart has job offers too? I mean no one HAS TO BE an escort these days too?

As far as i am concerned only REAL models are capable of charging REAL money and getting away with it. Thats the league of the "10.000 per session" women. But anything here? I`d not classify any of these women as HDHs in the first place? 300 an hour vs 500 an hour? That is not really so much different, and most of them can be bargained down anyway. Also know for a fact.

So talking about HDHs? Then lets start talking about women who charge 10.000 an hour , right? But that are not the ones who post here or on Eros....:-)
and we all know that.

Oh My! My head is spinning from all the changes in topic.

You can hate them for putting you in that position, you can hate yourself for getting in that position or you can embrace the experience of the position.

The first option gives them way to much power and the second option gives you way to little....the third is how enlightened people operate. Originally Posted by WTF

You're not someone I would look to for advice on being enlightened.

You are such a tease Originally Posted by WTF

I heard you liked that.

yes but than its bad marketing right? Originally Posted by ninasastri

I didn't make any qualitative judgments. I just pointed out that there is a difference between what someone says for marketing and what they believe.

Denny's says its food is delicious.

Oh My! My head is spinning from all the changes in topic. Originally Posted by John Bull

yes that is because i am ONLY CATERING TO THE ELITE and offer QUALITY OVER QUANTITY
(that is when i am not broke - when i am broke its exactly the other way round - then i cater to the rest of the bastards and offer quantity over quality :-))) hahahahahaha) (just joking)

i cater to everyone. if a nice gent can`t afford my rates and has proof of it i even lower them. ha,.
and construction workers welcome! I consider them elite!!

Denny's says its food is delicious. Originally Posted by pjorourke

and Starbucks thinks they know how to make coffee!