I think we are too quick to gang tackle here.. yes, I was skeptical at first, but I backed off after asking for evidence.. and being supplied with all the communication.. Slim Goddess offered everyone that chance, and after review, while I can't say it was or was not DallasDoc.. no one can.. I can say she had reasonable suspicion..
then LeeBeezy posts an alert, and is also gang-tackled.. because the collective Board decided he jumped to conclusions.. all he said was what he saw.. trying to alert us to possible LE.. once the Provider disagreed, LeeBeezy was marked for derision.
now, while it's true that both DallasDoc and Nicole Cox have stellar reputations dating back years, not everybody is equally informed.. all Beezy and Slim did was make a good faith effort at an alert.. and we shit all over them..
Originally Posted by Chung Tran
I dunno, I have compassion for both parties. Each for different reasons. I wish the lady had made a better case and understood that while you can say anything you like about anyone, you really need to have proof when it's something that would harm another in any type of community. The alleged statements made to her are inflammatory, no doubt. Many of us, males and females, are talked to inappropriately concerning politically correct or incorrect stances. But, a whole forum wouldn't be big enough for all of us to use in order to tattletale on those who make them. If you're going to alert folks to anything you should understand the importance of proof, otherwise, you are responsible for any unwarranted fallout. Karma, she's a B, ya know?
I hope she has also learned the need for discretion concerning sharing personal information as she did in a public forum, no matter how she obtained it or what the situation was. It's not like she was stabbed or shot with an actual weapon. She was verbally assaulted and unfortunately it happens and it will continue to occur in this world. I'm hard pressed to believe anything she said, other than someone used hurtful and inappropriate comments. If we were to take a scale and weigh the info she made available and we could use as proof, I guarantee the weight of truth does not balance in her direction. It's hard to imagine she didn't realize that, even if she does not communicate as effectively as others via the written word.