Well, I agree with Kayla that both sites have people associated with them that I respect, and if they get the BCD thing worked out to my satisfaction (i.e., I can earn my status) then I will likely be an active participant.
I really could care less how they got the database; it's not like the prior ownership made arrangements that insured the perpetuation of the site after Amber's death (or maybe they did, as it turns out, if only under a different name).