Little Things

WTF...my last response to MM had little to do with you, and little to do with requests to be first of the day. Like I've said before, I actually like you. You stimulate my brain. FG on the other hand makes me want to bash my head against the wall. For all of his eloquence, the man has no understanding of tact, and has repeatedly dismissed contrary opinions of women as those of a lesser mind. You, while being exhausting with your devil's advocate game at times, are an entirely different animal from FG. For what it's worth, you may or may not choose to accept that as a slight compliment. Originally Posted by YummyMarie

Why are you letting him or anyone else for that matter get inside your head? This is a Hooker board....used for marketing. Unless you are doing this feminist crap to show support for your sister in arms, the true feminist wacko CD, then I think it serves no purpose. In fact most men do not want to hear that crap.

From my observation , FG asked a simple question and some of you came back a tad strong, he returned in kind and now y'all are trying to paint him as the bad guy. Instead of concentrating on the subject at hand you and others are trying to make this a personality driven discussion.

By not staying on point , you become the puppet instead of the puppeteer.

Here is a free observation or what we in the Poker world call a Tell , anytime a provider starts with the feminist crap it shows her disdain for the job. An actress that no longer likes to act. Nothing wrong with that but from a clients perspective , there is nothing worse than hiring a temperamental actress.

Fast Goon is harmless, in fact he is the potential WK for you ladies. None of you ladies should be letting him of all people inside your head. A couple of kind words and he'll be a lap dog. All he wants is attention from a female(s). Poor fellow just needs to be loved. Be nice to him, you'll find it less exhausting.

I don't mind having someone else warm up a taco for me, although I prefer to apply salsa myself. Originally Posted by chicagoboy

Good , you can have me warm it up first!

WTF,
Btw....you do in fact, have control on whether you purposely offend another, as evidenced by your intentional offensive remarks all over the board. Reach up and straighten that halo, Mister! LOL You're an intelligent fella, just as Marie is an intelligent woman, as well as, many many of the ladies here are intelligent. Don't even feign innocence or pass it off as being one of those who "knows not what he does". I imagine there are few instances when your offensive statements are not meant to be, exactly that. Your motivation? Well..... admittedly, I have yet to determine that and may never. LOL However, I do love a challenge....:-). Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

My motivation?....To teach the escort world one hooker at a time that one can choose to say something offensive but you and only you have the power to choose to be offended by it. Once you understand that concept, this board and life in general will be much easier to navigate.

If you choose to try and say something offensive but I am not offended, who is the winner?

That is why this feminist/chauvinist war of words is for losers, it is a mindset for folks looking to be offended.

WTF,
One more thing, I actually imagine you are first or even the best at many things you attempt. Or, at the very least, always striving to be. About this, I'm fairly certain, I'm right... Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

Now you are doing that savvy marketing we have been talking about.

My motivation?....To teach the escort world one hooker at a time that one can choose to say something offensive but you and only you have the power to choose to be offended by it. Once you understand that concept, this board and life in general will be much easier to navigate.

Truth about it being choice. Then why antagonize in what you must know and comprehend, is an offensive manner? You refer to teaching the escort world, yet qualify it in small letters as being only the ladies you teach and by using a term many of the ladies find to be as offensive, whether rightly so, or not.

If you choose to try and say something offensive but I am not offended, who is the winner?


Everything is not a contest to me, but I now have better insight into your comments. You also must win. We also learn from not winning, and no, it's not do and/or say whatever it takes to win....lol


That is why this feminist/chauvinist war of words is for losers, it is a mindset for folks looking to be offended.


It can be, and I actually realize you say certain things for the amusement of self, I often self-amuse as well....but hopefully, it also gives both parties the opportunity to understand that other than anatomically, there are not a whole lot of differences between us, other than those we have allowed to influence us as issues of boy vs girl. We all face challenges, we've all made mistakes, and we all have something of value to teach and learn from one another. I'm seriously beginning to doubt FG's ability to do so at this point though. :-(. However, folks often surprise me and maybe someday, he'll have his "Eureka" moment. '\_(**)_/'

Now you are doing that savvy marketing we have been talking about.
Originally Posted by WTF

Well.....know thyself, ya know? My sig line doesn't say "stroking one ego at a time" for just any ole reason, or even just for the sake of advertising.....lol.

Why is it so difficult to have a productive conversation on this board?

Every thread soon descends into chaos of hurled insults, labels and inflammatory remarks that do nothing whatsoever to enlighten.

Of course, I practice asking politely, but even a polite question can be met with sudden acrimony if the other party automatically imputes ill motives to your inquiry no matter how well stated.

I merely asked what other little things might anger providers merely for asking, but instead I get attacked by a pack of wild dogs!

I am actually seriously considering leaving this insane board and all its endless and mindless bickering that makes me feel like Charlton Heston in Planet of the Apes when he's being hostility treated by the crazy apes who don't understand him.

. . . It's a mad house!

FG.....do you not have practice asking for things politely?

"I like early morning appointments. So may I have your first appointment of the day? I'm not sure how early you can meet."

By framing your request as a preference or an early time slot you negate the connotation that you are worried she doesn't clean herself well and won't give you a good performance.

Other "little things" that you may ask that might annoy a provider, with my thoughts following.

"Can you freshly shave your legs before you see me?" - No really? I thought stubble was sexy.

"Try to look nice for me. I'm paying for it." - Yeeeeaaaah.....I suddenly had something come up. This guy is a douchebag and most likely will be a cheap bastard that will try the "I only have $$, is that ok?" or "How much for (something never on my menu)."

"I don't like girls with attitude. Be nice." - I don't like guys without tact. Goodbye.

The exact same requests can be made like this....

"I'm looking forward to meeting you. You seem like such a sweet girl that I'm sure we will have a wonderful time. I'm imagining you beautifully made up in a dress that shows off your beautiful smooth legs. I plan on rubbing them and feeling your soft skin."

That message clearly states your expectations in a complimentary way. Unless she a real piece of work, she'll take the hints offered and make sure you both have a good time. Seriously gentlemen, honey versus vinegar.

As a side note....FG you really come off as a misogynist. I have not met you so I reserve judgement but online personas do matter to many ladies. Originally Posted by SAangel27

Why is it so difficult to have a productive conversation on this board?

Every one of my threads soon descend into chaos ... Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

Are you familiar with the concept of the "Geographical Cure"? Everywhere YOU go, there YOU are. YOU're the one constant. That's why.

Are you familiar with the concept of the "Geographical Cure"? Everywhere YOU go, there YOU are. YOU're the one constant. That's why. Originally Posted by inspector farquar

Actually he started off asking in a nice manner. He got a bunch of cunty replies and responded in kind. Can't say as I blame him but that did torpedo the original question. Maybe that was his objective, who knows.

I'm late to the party as usual. I'll just say this: we're all damaged goods. I refuse to argue semantics. I've never had anyone ask me that.

I learned a long time ago to not respond to Fast Gunn's posts because the line of questioning is meant to be borderline offensive, using padded phrasing (i.e. 'reasonable request' and 'innocent question'. There are no innocent questions in p4p) and turns the table on you as the idiot. But because the subject matter is attractive, since he's such a smart man, it's hard to resist. So here I am to let you know that you've fed the biggest troll this board has.

The moral of this post is 'You're a whore. You do too many fucked up things to too many people to get offended about a question.' Took notes. Lesson learned.

What should be taken from this? ALL whores should start getting more selective in their clientele. Some men should not be allowed to buy pussy for any amount of money.

Why is it whenever I see the title of this thread I thinck someone is mentioning my 1.3" of dangling death?

Why is it whenever I see the title of this thread I thinck someone is mentioning my 1.3" of dangling death? Originally Posted by pyramider

Yeah, I figured it was about Li'l Three Sides the first time I saw that title.

...Some men should not be allowed to buy pussy for any amount of money. Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

We're about to have one of those 'supply and demand' discussions here I'll bet...

Why are you letting him or anyone else for that matter get inside your head? This is a Hooker board....used for marketing.

... A couple of kind words and he'll be a lap dog. Originally Posted by WTF

1. Exactly, my responses here actually actract the clientele I want, and weed out the ones I don't.

2. Even as a lap dog, he would require too much training.

We're about to have one of those 'supply and demand' discussions here I'll bet... Originally Posted by JustCause

No need. There will never be any solidarity in this industry. But just saying...

Truth about it being choice. Then why antagonize in what you must know and comprehend, is an offensive manner? You refer to teaching the escort world, yet qualify it in small letters as being only the ladies you teach and by using a term many of the ladies find to be as offensive, whether rightly so, or not.
Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

It is my choice to write as I may , it is your choice to be offended or not. That has been my point, JessicaKnightly's point and now , I think Tiffani Jameson's point.

The moral of this post is 'You're a whore. You do too many fucked up things to too many people to get offended about a question.' Took notes. Lesson learned. Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

Originally Posted by WTF If you choose to try and say something offensive but I am not offended, who is the winner?


Everything is not a contest to me, but I now have better insight into your comments. You also must win. We also learn from not winning, and no, it's not do and/or say whatever it takes to win....lol Originally Posted by MaxiMilyen

Win? On a Hooker Board?

I have internal contests, one of which is not to sweat things I have no control over. For example... I have no control over you comprehending what I write. So if you continually misstate what I have written , I can either be offended or amused. I have that choice just like you, Yummy Marie and Caroline Davenport have that exact same choice if someone request to be the first of the day. How you respond gives insight into your inner beauty.

If your goal is to be offended on a Hooker Board it can be easily obtained. All I am trying to point out is that if one's goal is not to be offended on said Hooker Board , that is easily obtainable too.

1. Exactly, my responses here actually actract the clientele I want, and weed out the ones I don't.

2. Even as a lap dog, he would require too much training. Originally Posted by YummyMarie

Understood.

I was just pointing out one reason why say a JessicaKnightly can charge what she charges.

It is my choice to write as I may , it is your choice to be offended or not. That has been my point, JessicaKnightly's point and now , I think Tiffani Jameson's point.

I'm rarely offended by anything, other than cursing (as stated...personal n scientific reasons). If I question you, it's only because I'm curious by nature, and/or looking for clarification. All kinda people fascinate me for various reasons. Be they deemed pleasant or not, by myself and/or others.

Win? On a Hooker Board?

I have internal contests, one of which is not to sweat things I have no control over. For example... I have no control over you comprehending what I write. So if you continually misstate what I have written , I can either be offended or amused. I have that choice just like you, Yummy Marie and Caroline Davenport have that exact same choice if someone request to be the first of the day. How you respond gives insight into your inner beauty.

We all have internal controls, (And no, I'm not mis-stating you, my words, just to clarify...:-) ) it's a shame so many fail to tap into the ones that best serve them. So, I agree with your train of thought. However, I do not often, nor with malice, intend to offend anyone, just for my own self amusement, as so many seem to. Admittedly, I've done so, but personally, i've found I derive no actual pleasure from behaving in a manner I understand will in fact, offend such a large portion of the community. If one is able to do so, while I think it's a shame, please, carry on BAU. As I understand my opinion matters mostly only to me.

If your goal is to be offended on a Hooker Board it can be easily obtained. All I am trying to point out is that if one's goal is not to be offended on said Hooker Board , that is easily obtainable too.


I concur


I was just pointing out one reason why say a JessicaKnightly can charge what she charges.


Noted

Originally Posted by WTF

Have a terrific day, all! 😘.