Could a lady be.....

If she doesn't want to try the dating sites, because of men wanting sex.
And she doesn't want to sign onto eccie, for fear she *might* offend folks.
Then it seems she needs to find the right time and *online* venue, that would best suit her emotional & physical needs of helping her cope with the loneliness in her life.

You've been a friend to her and that's all that matters. Just make sure she's not pushed into this particular adult venue as a way of *coping* with the loneliness.
She's got to *want* to be a part of something, with others. Or it'll be of no use to her in the long run.


Does she enjoy any type of activity? Like golf, bowling or anything where she can venture out with others and enjoy herself? Originally Posted by Wicked Milf

Movies and drinking are her REAL TRUE LOVES

Wow, what a coincidence...movies & drinking just happen to be two of my fav things to do as well, a match made in heaven? (jk..lol)

Wow, what a coincidence...movies & drinking just happen to be two of my fav things to do as well, a match made in heaven? (jk..lol) Originally Posted by Likinikki

I SECOND THAT, LOL

SSB,

Why do I not recognize your handle from previous M&Gs.?

Not that I know everyone, but everyone seems to know me.

Dog

I love moviessss and drinkings cool! Just tried bowling it's tricky in a chair but possible to put up a decent score.

And yes I need to meet you at a lunch or happy hour! I don't know how I've missed you hopefully Halloween? It'd be cool for your friend to go ask ck or maybe she should see you and get vouched??? Idk how that'd work

She was introduced at the last Happy Hour.

Yes I was at the last happy hour gents ;-) I was wearing the low cut leopard/cheetah blouse lol and I've told my friend that if she wants to register she can so we will see what happens ;-)

A hobbyist ? I am curious about this, You know just someone that wanted to come on board and join our community and post and chat say she was a lonely spinster or lonely widow. Not looking for play just looking for companionship or company. Once she got to know everyone and had a few post maybe she could be invited to our M&G's... I'm asking because I know of a lonely woman and I know she would find this community very welcoming to her and how she see's life she's open minded Originally Posted by SofiaSugarBabie

Hobbyist - Yes, there are more than a few female hobbyists out there.

M&G guest - Yes, if you vouch for her and she agrees to respect the event rules. She won't be the first (female or male) to attend under such circumstances. Nor the last. But eventually, she will be further vouched/re-vouched as a provider or a hobbyist (or both) because that's part of the rules as well.

For those who are curious, there are also "couples" (usually a male and female) who are often on the invite lists.

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btw, age 55 for a female has nothing to do with losing one's libido. I know more than a few ladies who are beyond that whose libidos are almost off the chart in a good (very hot!!!) way.

imho - libido loss (male or female) almost never has much to do with bodily produced hormones. Usually has more to do with "mind" - attitude, physical tiredness, life in general and certain aspects of life in particular.

imho again - folks who think they're losing their libido are making a self-fulfilling prophecy. They obviously need some "intimacy counseling" for sure, which has nothing to do with sex in particular and everything to do with the mind-set.

I personally know more than a few females over age 60 (yes 60) who are more than "sexually active" and I know of more than a few gents who are in their 70's - 80's - and yes, one who is over 90, who don't need pharmaceuticals to have erections and orgasms. And who can more than please and pleasure their ladies! (forgoing info supplied to me by the ladies, of course.)

Sofia, let your friend know of this post, please.