Pictures Before A Date

kenzsquatch's Avatar
No one asked for gaping legs but a Sexy lingerie tease would get me going
[/QUOTE] Personally, I like muscle cars, panhead harleys, and pin-up girls. I'd rather see Bettie Page or Dita Von Teese's cleavage than Hannah Montana spread eagle.[/QUOTE]

Mmm my kinda man! I would love to see one of Dita Von Teese's burlesque shows, dream come true
Danielle Reid's Avatar
That's my thought. Maxim is way more successful than Playboy; that's why Playboy is making the change to a non-nude publication. A lot of that is due to the ratings and available customer base (16 year olds can currently buy maxim but not playboy), but it's also because people can reach into their pocket, pull out a smartphone, and see naked women on the internet doing absolutely anything imaginable any time that they want.

Best I can tell by looking at the showcase photos, all the women posting in this thread are very physically attractive. I don't mean to take away from that, but I can google 5 million pictures of naked physically attractive women doing things that you may not even be able to legally do. What you can do is tease me a little and make me feel special by taking a picture that I can assume is specific to me and the time we are about to spend together.

Personally, I like muscle cars, panhead harleys, and pin-up girls. I'd rather see Bettie Page or Dita Von Teese's cleavage than Hannah Montana spread eagle. Originally Posted by hamptonj
Lol I get paid to be one of those naked physically attractive women doing things that you may not even be able to legally do. I also get paid for PinUp work and non-nude glamour. Guess which pays more?

But I digress. I personally prefer not to send photos ahead of a date. They can easily take it and use it as a spank bank addition. I just sent them a free photo of me naked, now they have to make a choice: Pay my rate for the real action, or go see someone cheaper while using my photo to jackoff in their bathroom
Lol I get paid to be one of those naked physically attractive women doing things that you may not even be able to legally do. I also get paid for PinUp work and non-nude glamour. Guess which pays more?

But I digress. I personally prefer not to send photos ahead of a date. They can easily take it and use it as a spank bank addition. I just sent them a free photo of me naked, now they have to make a choice: Pay my rate for the real action, or go see someone cheaper while using my photo to jackoff in their bathroom Originally Posted by Danielle Reid
Please don't misunderstand me. I'm not knocking it. Variety is the spice of life, and I try to take in feminine beauty as many ways as I can. :-) I'm not sure if I've specifically seen your work, but in general I just happen to enjoy pin up stuff more than the other.

We view this from two different perspective. Sending clients nude photos adds another option to the mix. As you put it, instead of paying your rate for real action they now have a new choice of looking at your picture and doing something else. If you don't send that picture, then that option doesn't exist. I totally understand that, and it may not be worth the risk.

I was advocating for the picture use in a specific situation that would appeal to me the most. From my perspective at that point, the option you listed doesn't exist. First, I suggested not using nude photos like you mentioned. Second, I've been planning on the meeting, I'm going to the meeting, and the picture just adds to the experience. Perhaps that is totally unrealistic; I was just adding my opinion on how I would best appreciate at it if the provider chose to do the photos.
Danielle Reid's Avatar
Please don't misunderstand me. I'm not knocking it. Variety is the spice of life, and I try to take in feminine beauty as many ways as I can. :-) I'm not sure if I've specifically seen your work, but in general I just happen to enjoy pin up stuff more than the other.

We view this from two different perspective. Sending clients nude photos adds another option to the mix. As you put it, instead of paying your rate for real action they now have a new choice of looking at your picture and doing something else. If you don't send that picture, then that option doesn't exist. I totally understand that, and it may not be worth the risk.

I was advocating for the picture use in a specific situation that would appeal to me the most. From my perspective at that point, the option you listed doesn't exist. First, I suggested not using nude photos like you mentioned. Second, I've been planning on the meeting, I'm going to the meeting, and the picture just adds to the experience. Perhaps that is totally unrealistic; I was just adding my opinion on how I would best appreciate at it if you chose to do the photos. Originally Posted by hamptonj
Understandable. I have guys asking for me to prove I'm real, usually with a naked picture. To me, they're just asking for free nudes to go jack off. It's cheaper to just pay $19.99 a month on my website and see my videos, pictures, and cam shows lol
Understandable. I have guys asking for me to prove I'm real, usually with a naked picture. To me, they're just asking for free nudes to go jack off. It's cheaper to just pay $19.99 a month on my website and see my videos, pictures, and cam shows lol Originally Posted by Danielle Reid
Unfortunately, that doesn't surprise me. They sound like assholes anyways, so you should offer to hold up today's newspaper to prove that you are real :-)
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Unfortunately, that doesn't surprise me. They sound like assholes anyways, so you should offer to hold up today's newspaper to prove that you are real :-) Originally Posted by hamptonj
Where would I even buy a newspaper nowadays? I usually just send a photo holding up two fingers (or my middle finger if they really annoy me lol JK)
Personally, I like muscle cars, panhead harleys, and pin-up girls. I'd rather see Bettie Page or Dita Von Teese's cleavage than Hannah Montana spread eagle.[/QUOTE]

Mmm my kinda man! I would love to see one of Dita Von Teese's burlesque shows, dream come true[/QUOTE]

Your kinda man? Don't tease me like that. I'm two bottles of pinot grigio past driving to the metro area tonight :-)
Where would I even buy a newspaper nowadays? I usually just send a photo holding up two fingers (or my middle finger if they really annoy me lol JK) Originally Posted by Danielle Reid
LOL you don't even have to buy them anymore. Maybe it's just here, but the people working at Quik Trip take it as a personal offense if you don't accept the free copy with morning coffee.
Personally, I like muscle cars, panhead harleys, and pin-up girls. I'd rather see Bettie Page or Dita Von Teese's cleavage than Hannah Montana spread eagle. Originally Posted by hamptonj
Mmm my kinda man! I would love to see one of Dita Von Teese's burlesque shows, dream come true[/QUOTE]

Your kinda man? Don't tease me like that. I'm two bottles of pinot grigio past driving to the metro area tonight :-)[/QUOTE]

I can't help it, It's so sexy!!
I love receiving pics before a date. All i can think about is, "yeah, ill be riding that later tonight!" I dont require pics before a date but i do ask for them on occasion. However, i respect a providers decision to not send one.
Danielle Reid's Avatar
No one asked for gaping legs but a Sexy lingerie tease would get me going Originally Posted by kenzsquatch
Yes, sexy lingerie goes further than gaping leg shots IMO
If they want free jerkoff material,they can go to youporn site.a 5 min .movie clip usually does it for me.I don't pay for porn,to much free on the net.
Danielle Reid's Avatar
If they want free jerkoff material,they can go to youporn site.a 5 min .movie clip usually does it for me.I don't pay for porn,to much free on the net. Originally Posted by peter north77
Not paying for porn takes money away from the porn industry. Which means producers have to pay porn stars less money to cover the cost. Also means porn stars need to find other means of work.

Not paying for porn takes money out of MY pockets as well...but that's another issue that is off topic from this thread.
Danielle Reid's Avatar
LOL you don't even have to buy them anymore. Maybe it's just here, but the people working at Quik Trip take it as a personal offense if you don't accept the free copy with morning coffee. Originally Posted by hamptonj
Oh lol I guess I've never had the need for the newspaper in my life other than shredding it up to make a paper mache piggy bank