Hand Jobs...

Goddess, I like lipstick rings too much!

For me, a handjob from a dominant woman is all about her being in control. She can ruin the orgasm or force multiple orgasms. She is using it to control and humiliate the man.

HJ's are highly underrated. With the right female, they can be one of the most erotic and pleasurable experiences in the history of ever. I diggum!

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Quick, easy, fun, no hassles.

Why not HJ & G instead of a B & G? Originally Posted by *GoddessDallas*

Love a HJ when done right. Done right:
1. I'm squirming;
2. Precum is flowing
3. My balls are being pulled and squeezed
4. Her hand is moving achingly slow up and down
5. She tells me when it's time for me to cum
6. She has me clean up the mess I've made

HJs are an art to be enjoyed, not rushed.

Personnally, not big on the B&G myself. I want to enjoy the encounter.

Most HJs are associated with ladies who do massage, so you are there for more than a quickie.

Quick, easy, fun, no hassles.

Why not HJ & G instead of a B & G? Originally Posted by *GoddessDallas*

Preach it Girlfriend!

Better yet, how 'bout the HJ & ruined orgasm and "oops, you can't go because I've restrained you and now you're gonna be my bitch for strap on play and lots of post orgasm cock head torture" session?

About 20 years ago my then SO gave me a book on sexual positions...I know sounds kind of boring with this group, but we picked up one little thing out of it that turned out to be so very much fun. The chapter was titled "Slow Masturbation". It began, male will most likely need to be restrained for this...We had never had a foray into bondage, but we made a pact to go through every thing in the book, she 'ordered me to lye spread eagle on the bed and restrained me to the bedposts using my old neckties...great so far. Then she straddled me in the 69 position and nestled her nether bits onto my face. She got me aroused with a very nice BJ and then slowly gave me the most excrutiating hand job she had ever given, it was light, it was aggressive, it tickled at one point to a point that I found what I guess was sub-space. She had me lick her hands clean when we were done....it was wonderful!

The only thing I can say, is don't under-rate a hand job....It became part of our repetoire.

lol---I have a client who called me the 'ass reaper" after I used my strap on on him! Originally Posted by DallasRain

This quote and use of the term 'reaper' is exceptionally funny for those of us that are into the gaming scene...in particular, the Mass Effect series.

As long as it's Dallas Rain and not Harbinger 'assuming control' of my ass...

Dallas will "reap" you ass well.............and I love watching her do it!!!

I have one client that wants his nipples licked and just a good hj. He pays same as if it were FS, but I guess that way he feels like he is not cheating on his wife lol. IDK, he gets a happy ending

Love a HJ when done right. Done right:
1. I'm squirming;
2. Precum is flowing
3. My balls are being pulled and squeezed
4. Her hand is moving achingly slow up and down
5. She tells me when it's time for me to cum
6. She has me clean up the mess I've made Originally Posted by txcwby6

Now that sounds almost like tease and denial play except you are ultimately not denied.

There are many gals working in clubs, spas etc who specialize in HJs and do it so that it is far better than FS as you can control the friction etc etc. The key is combining it with hotttt talk and lots of sultryyyyy eye contact. It truly is an art if done properly.