Priorities: What are yours?

SCHEDULING
SCREENING
DETAILS

I like for it to be done in this order too.

1) Scheduling - I have limited hobby time so when I know the times I can play, I like to see if my desired provider is available then too.

2) Screening - this more a piece of mind thing. Being screened upfront makes me feel more comfortable with the provider as I know she's doing her due diligence and keeping us both safe by screening. Screening can take many forms but a lady that will take an appt last minute from someone she's never met and doesn't screen carries too much risk.

3) Details - while last in the order, this carries the most weight. I like to know what a provider likes/dislikes etc before meeting to ensure she's what I'm looking for and there's a level of compatibility. I respect a provider who takes the time to read my posts and ask me questions to get to know me a little to get an understanding of my likes/dislikes during a session to ensure compatibility. If we aren't compatible, there's very little connection/chemistry during the session and it just becomes mechanical and cold.

I think its hilarious when everyone says they look at the boards for lack of drama first. Hahaha! If someone disagrees with someone on Eccie, its immediate drama.... If someone doesnt like someone they make snide remarks towards them and expect..... no drama? But put the drama on the shoulders of the reactor and hope everyone sees them as the cause of drama??? Nonono..... Most smart people can read right through that nonsense. Originally Posted by Gemma34

I think you make some valid points here, Gemma. The drama does tend to flare up quickly and without much reason on here. But I think you would agree with me that there are some folks on here who attract more drama than others.

About SCREENING
SCHEDULING
DETAILS ...... I see how this could work too but the order below makes just most sense.

Details coming before anything else is a giant no-no. To me it would also seem like a person who hasn't done much research on me which I expect them to by looking at my reviews here and elsewhere (and/or posts), my p411, my site (FAQ's especially) etc. Laziness or the perception of it is right up there in my top pet peeves next to haggling and bad hygiene (lol).

SCHEDULING
SCREENING
DETAILS

I like for it to be done in this order too.

1) Scheduling - I have limited hobby time so when I know the times I can play, I like to see if my desired provider is available then too.

2) Screening - this more a piece of mind thing. Being screened upfront makes me feel more comfortable with the provider as I know she's doing her due diligence and keeping us both safe by screening. Screening can take many forms but a lady that will take an appt last minute from someone she's never met and doesn't screen carries too much risk.

3) Details - while last in the order, this carries the most weight. I like to know what a provider likes/dislikes etc before meeting to ensure she's what I'm looking for and there's a level of compatibility. I respect a provider who takes the time to read my posts and ask me questions to get to know me a little to get an understanding of my likes/dislikes during a session to ensure compatibility. If we aren't compatible, there's very little connection/chemistry during the session and it just becomes mechanical and cold. Originally Posted by Bcdrummer