PROVIDERS:: Have you had this issue??

I agree with Emily

yes, but i simply ask them to take a shower.
or to make it more fun i say why don't we both enjoy a shower together and suds up together Originally Posted by EmilySmile08

OP. A shower with a provider can be a very very big turn on experience for the client. One provider got me so excited I got a BJ in the shower, then nailed her twice on the bed. You will keep them coming back.

I have shower etiquette amongst a few other things on my site....during the screening process I make sure to direct them to it and make sure they read it. I haven't had an issue with someone's hygiene in a long time. If somehow they do "miss" the shower part on my site I playfully mention to them at the start of the date when guiding them to the shower "lather, rinse and repeat ... if you want me to lick it don't miss it" .

I've always said ladies have two rules:

1) the lady makes the rules

2) the lady is in charge of making sure the gents know her rules.

Perhaps including in your ad,signature or confirmation of appointment message you should maske it clear that good hygiene is expected.

(And I will note that a "doubles scrub" in the shower or tub can be very sexy!) Originally Posted by ck1942

Women in this business can't be too sweet.
I find it difficult to not try to turn my charm up full volume, but being assertive instead of passive/aggressive is a priceless talent.
I learned this is actually helpful for everyone involved, and not just escorting, also probably with any woman's interaction with anyone - especially new relationships.
But especially in this "little world" to let others know what you are not willing to tolerate AT ALL.

all good suggestions ladies !! dont be too shy to ask them to shower or wash up ,, think about it they are not shy to ask about what they desire...ESPECIALLY for BBJ i will wash it for them.

I will gladly wash my balls for anyone willing to get me a BBBJ - in fact t make it a point to eat pineapple and strawberries 3 days before a dance as it were because I have been told it makes the taste better ... not sure and I ain't gonna try so I will take you word on it!