~MARRIED MEN~

I know I'm going to get shit for this. There are a million reasons for someone to see a provider while married. I believe unless it's a medical reason and the wife agrees or the husband agrees a hobbyist should not see a provider while married. I was married for 27 years and didn't have sex with anyone else the entire time. I know you providers would probably lose 60 percent of your business if it was all like me and understand why you do. If you have got to the point where you don't want to fuck your wife or she doesn't want to fuck you then I think it's decision time on whether you should stay together or not. I will say when I became single I became a bit of a man whore myself. I know it's old fashioned and will not change even one opinion But I believe when you commit to someone that's what you do. Ok bring on the fuck you statements now. lol Originally Posted by burkalini

You won't get a " Fuck You" statement from me. I have to agree with ya. i've made my rounds on this forum and if ya'all haven't noticed by now, I give credit where's it's due. I was married for 17 yrs never had an affair never saw a provider, never really entered my mind. We were seperated for 18 months. During that time I was meeting all kinds of women, even got a BJ behind the Mall in Hammond, lol. I had a nine month relationship with a really wonderful girl. She always reminded me of Hillary Swank the actress. She passed away I was heart broken. It seemed more excruciating than my Divorce. The dating scene is difficult sometimes and I do contact a few providers from time to time. If i ever find myself back into a promising relationship, I really don't feel I would have the desire to contact an Escort again. I don't think any married man should venture out to that extent. I think it hinders your ability to cultivate loving, honest relationships. Because it centers around sex and that is not necessarilly intimacy and love, as much as many would like to think it is sometimes, it is not. The providers I've met. They've been great. I think they have some wonderful qualities. I can be glad they have been available. I show them respect and offer them my affection. But I am careful not to get caught up in the moment and think it may have more meaning that it really has.

I know I'm going to get shit for this. There are a million reasons for someone to see a provider while married. I believe unless it's a medical reason and the wife agrees or the husband agrees a hobbyist should not see a provider while married. I was married for 27 years and didn't have sex with anyone else the entire time. I know you providers would probably lose 60 percent of your business if it was all like me and understand why you do. If you have got to the point where you don't want to fuck your wife or she doesn't want to fuck you then I think it's decision time on whether you should stay together or not. I will say when I became single I became a bit of a man whore myself. I know it's old fashioned and will not change even one opinion But I believe when you commit to someone that's what you do. Ok bring on the fuck you statements now. lol Originally Posted by burkalini

You won't get a " Fuck You" statement from me. I have to agree with ya. i've made my rounds on this forum and if ya'all haven't noticed by now, I give credit where's it's due. I was married for 17 yrs never had an affair never saw a provider, never really entered my mind. We were seperated for 18 months. During that time I was meeting all kinds of women, even got a BJ behind the Mall in Hammond, lol. I had a nine month relationship with a really wonderful girl. She always reminded me of Hillary Swank the actress. She passed away I was heart broken. It seemed more excruciating than my Divorce. The dating scene is difficult sometimes and I do contact a few providers from time to time. If i ever find myself back into a promising relationship, I really don't feel I would have the desire to contact an Escort again. I don't think any married man should venture out to that extent. I think it hinders your ability to cultivate loving, honest relationships. Because it centers around sex and that is not necessarilly intimacy and love, as much as many would like to think it is sometimes, it is not. The providers I've met. They've been great. I think they have some wonderful qualities. I can be glad they have been available. I show them respect and offer them my affection. But I am careful not to get caught up in the moment and think it may have more meaning that it really has. Originally Posted by acp5762

I was married for 25 years, and never thought of cheating. Unfortunately my spouse didn't feel the same way. Strike One (Forgiven), Strike Two (Forgiven Moved), Strike Three (All Assets Hidden, GPS / Tracking Devices on cars, Hired Hot Female PI) 5 months later I was cutting a check! Took a year off from life. Craig’s List, PB, Eros & ECCIE and a man Whore was born. Sad story you say... No way, I'm happy, My kids are Happy and my ex's Mr. Wonderful got caught twice and made it to strike two in the first year! She wasn't nearly as forgiving as me! Pay back is a bitch!

Which brings me to what I believed for quit some time.... both men and woman like to get fucked, but nobody likes getting fucked over! Seems to be a common thread here don’t you think!

Amen Still Looking!!

No fuck you forth coming from me. I stayed for way too long in a situation that absolutely made me miserable and I was faithful the whole time. On one hand I'm proud of myself for never straying and on the other I think I was an idiot for putting up with being miserable as long as I did. If I ever decide to be committed (pun intended) again I won't do this anymore. I had the will not to stray when I was involved and I had offers and opportunity. I'll have the will to give this up.

As for the guys who do stray, well that is their business. I do not view myself as better than them. Everyone has things that they do that others could label as immoral.

Dude, how did you get so lucky? Please share Originally Posted by Cpalmson

She plays around too, can't ya figure it out.

I have a client whose wife picked me out.

Their sex drives do not mesh and she knows I have zero interest in "stealing" her husband. So we fuck like bunnies and their marriage is stronger.

I've been married 52 years to an outstanding woman whom I love deeply, and enjoyed fantastic sex with. About 15 yrs. ago she was put on depression medication which completely ruined her libido. My sex drive has always been "over the top", but most of my enjoyment comes from giving my partner pleasure (multiple orgasms). My wife would still offer to gratify me, but she could not hide the fact that she was no longer interested in achieving orgasms. I remained celibate (except for self gratification) for 11 yrs. and thought my sex life was over. Two years ago I decided I wanted to see if I could still give a woman pleasure. A friend told me about Backpage and I hit the jackpot on my first try with a provider. My UTR is 26, Asian, uninhibited, as lustful as myself, and has the perfect spinner body. She doesn't seem to mind the age difference, or hides it well if she does.

~ A married man should forget his mistakes.... No use 2 people remebering the same thing.~ Originally Posted by harley3535

What mistakes? I can forget just about anything...unless you owe me money.

Their sex drives do not mesh and she knows I have zero interest in "stealing" her husband. So we fuck like bunnies and their marriage is stronger. Originally Posted by SillyGirl

we have a winner !

@ silly girl i agree i also have a client his wife also picked me and i love to see these things because a man is gonna be a man but she picks them a little spice in a relationship never hurt anyone as long as everyone knows where they stand : )

I have a client whose wife picked me out.

Their sex drives do not mesh and she knows I have zero interest in "stealing" her husband. So we fuck like bunnies and their marriage is stronger. Originally Posted by SillyGirl

I think I may know that guy.

well, i'm probably the odd man out here. i'm married and love my wife .... but she is an exceptional woman. she has given me her permission to play. Originally Posted by PAPA JOE

U a very lucky man or a rich one but I want to meet Ur wife!

Well I rationalized it lol.
If a woman isnt giving her man any she should be happy I am there to fill in to keep a smile on his face and his sexual frustration at bay.
I would tell any of the wives of my clients that I do not want their hubby I just wanna please him.
The wives should actually thank us ladies for keeping their men serviced and they dont have to! Originally Posted by Arkansas Danni

I 2nd that.

I've decided that my next ex will be able to play twice a month but he has to give me his bucket list and I get to pick them out - just in case I want to play too! It's a win-win for both of us. He gets to satisfy his need for variety and I get him coming home a happy camper!

I think is k to be married and play as long as you dont have an Afair is all business lol

I've decided that my next ex will be able to play twice a month but he has to give me his bucket list and I get to pick them out - just in case I want to play too! It's a win-win for both of us. He gets to satisfy his need for variety and I get him coming home a happy camper! Originally Posted by Casey-Lee

I don't think that would be a problem at all